Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

I have a delima with my crush and his brother...Ok the guy i like my dad doesnt like him but the guy i don't like ,likes me and my dad likes him instead and my dad thinks that since i still live in his house that he can tell me who to date and blah , blah ,blah ...I know that most of you will say that he just trying to protect me because he might see something in him that i dont see but i feel that i need to learn that i mean c-mon im freakin 22 and yeah the reason i stay with my dad is cause of money issues and i cant afford my own place at this moment...I really , really , really like this guy but my dad trys everything for me to be attractive to his brother and i hate it ...Its making me not to want to be around my dad so much anymore...I told him i couldnt help who i liked or who im attracted too im just attracted to him alot more....Now i have told his brother pleanty of times that i didn't see him in that way but no matter what i say he still trys...He calls me baby

2007-06-06 14:27:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah I like this guy and he likes me and tomorrow is my last day of school I'm thinking of asking him out because I would like to see how far we would go over the summer, should I or should I not? my friends think I should go for it but idk I'm still deciding..help!

2007-06-06 14:27:43 · 19 answers · asked by K8e 2 in Singles & Dating

I have pretty much decided to throw in the towel. Everyone my age has so much baggage and ex's and kids and all the stuff from old relationships. I am really sick of it, so I am planning on just not dating or having intimacy anymore. Do you think I will manage with that decision ok?

2007-06-06 14:27:15 · 9 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a few drinks at my recent wedding & didn't mean to get drunk. I didn't have too many drinks but it must have been the not drinking water or eating much. It was great but now I can't remember certain parts of the night & worry people might have known. Plus I hate to have "missed" things :(

It was only about the last hour or so of the reception, but I can't forgive myself...

2007-06-06 14:26:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok well i need help
im dating this guy but his best friendz seems like hez into me
hez alwayz touching me and he talkz 2 me more than any other girl......and he pays more attention 2 me than any other girl....so does this guy like me?.....i do wanna go out with him but i wanna wait until i break up with this guy....i know im going 2 soon....so wat should i do?
thnx alot

2007-06-06 14:23:53 · 15 answers · asked by ~Kinky~ 3 in Singles & Dating

He has been married twice and his brothers kids call both ex wives "aunt" and the step kids kids call her "grandma". This is going to get kind of confusing. I dont want to be aunt or grandma. I would just prefer to be called by my first name Becky. What is the proper etiquett?

2007-06-06 14:23:43 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i really need a confidence boost. just a few years ago, i was really outgoing and loud and laughed almost constantly. but now, i feel like a boring person. in conversation, there are a lot more awkward silences and i catch myself stuttering or i find people having to ak me to repeat what i said. i just want to be me again but i don't know how to get there. anyone going through the same thing or have gone through this? have any advice? thanks--

2007-06-06 14:11:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-06 14:04:34 · 46 answers · asked by blondewithbrains92 2 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the deal, i got married to my bf of five years this march, things were not good beofre the marriage money wise but mentally good. he does a lot for me and always puts me first most of the time but beofre we got married he promised he would get his stuff together. he had a back injury three years agao and it has gotten progressively worse, anways he cant work now and i ams tuck paying for everything and it is just way too hard, i am literally sick with stress i get stomaches all the time and i think im depressed. i do love him a lot but it feels liek he isnt doing enough to get his back fixed, at the same time he is taking serious pain killers and i think he may need to go to rehab. im only 25 and i know im married and it was my decision and i have to work through it but sometimes i think life is too short and u gotta do what makes u happy i met this guy at work and hereminds me that i do deserve to be happy, he feels so bad for me.and said he would do anything for me.

2007-06-06 14:03:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is an old saying that "Money doesnt buy happiness" but think about it the best moments in life are when you buy a car,house,computer,big screen tv,go to a football game,go on a family trip,go to disneyworld.For most people those are their best moments in life and they all require alot of money.So to settle this thing once and for all,Ladies would you marry a poor guy who loves you or a guy with money who loves you???According to a survey 20% of U.S.A. marriages dont work because of Money issues:cant pay the bills,cant fix the car,cant give your daughther a b-day party things like that.So who would you choose.Having a husband that works 50 hrs a wk just to make it or a rich guy who doesnt work and has money up the a-s-s.?

2007-06-06 13:58:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-06 13:56:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-06 13:52:04 · 10 answers · asked by steve 4 in Singles & Dating

I hung ou twith my friend yesterday anh she wanted me to hangout with her today and i said i didnt want to because i have to babysitt. And now sh jsut called me saying she wants to hang out tomorrow and i really dont want to what excuse cna i use ?? a good one a believeable one.

She wants me to go over her house but i hate going over house and i hate when hse goes over my house because when i go over her house she goes on the computer the whole time on IMVU i just have to sit there til her grandmother drops me off and when hse goes over my house she bothers my brothers and she says bad stuff in front of my dad .


PLEASE I NEED AN EXCUSE? A GOOD BELIEVE ABLE ONE!!!!

im 12 turning 13 soon and she just truned 13

2007-06-06 13:41:32 · 26 answers · asked by GiRLY GiRL xO0 4 in Friends

ok heres the deal... i recently got married to my bf of five years. things have been rough for us the last 3 yeasr, we both went through a addiction to painkillers and he hurt his back seriosuly 3 years ago and it recently has gotten worse bc he kep tm working. now he cant work at all and might need to have surgery. anyways when we got married he promised things would chnage, he would work harder to get his back fixed and i have not seen any progress. it is soo frustrating bc i do love him but i think im strating to become soo stressed out bc im paying for everything and there never is enough money and im only 25 and i did not envision life like this. i know life is not perfect and u have to work through problems but i feel like all there ever is is problems. i met this guy at work that reminds me of how it felt to feel happy and i am afraid of that bc my husband should be doing that. when i try to talk to my husband he gets defensiveand says i am nagging him, i cant take it !

2007-06-06 13:41:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been having depression lately, and this is something men aren't supposed to have. I think it's stress-induced: relationship problems, money problems, and I'm trying to get back in touch with my daughter, who I've not seen since shortly after her birth. I feel really weak because men aren't supposed to have things get them down. I know it's silly to ask total strangers, but I guess it's the anonymity that makes it easy for my self-disclosure. I was just wondering if any other man has gone through/is going through similar. I'm really feeling worthless now and I hate that I feel so weak.

2007-06-06 13:39:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, currently im with girl who the past couple of week ive noticed how manipulative, selfish, controlling, sneaky, angry(blames it on pnd, which she did have around 3 mos ago and i helped her 100% ) etc. Everything was fine until i got so stressed the other week and noticed the way she was trying to control me and my life! using our son as an excuse to do basically everything, i noticed this and her other ways we obviosly argued and argued . When i finally thought i was getting through to her she'd flip another one on me..making it out as if i was the one who caused this rift, taking no responsiblity for her own action. Don't want a broken family but i dont think i can take more of her negativity and emotional abuse, she has had a history of depression since she was 14 and i knew that.We wherent together till our son was born...we dated for 3 mos 2 yr ago and split. She always wanted us to get back and i stupidly slept with her a few times and next thing shes preg(accident?).....

2007-06-06 13:36:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is no children involved

2007-06-06 13:34:11 · 18 answers · asked by heather8lucus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are giving a Luau Honey do shower for my husband's friend! I love the idea of the invitation in the bottle! But I'm trying to find bottles that will work and can be mailed without other packaging and that aren't massively expensive! We are inviting about 45 couples, so it will be a costly thing!
but since I love the idea, I want it still!
So where do I get these bottles, and has anyone done this before and mailed the bottles (without other packaging)?? How did it work? What was the shipping cost? Did they leak or get damaged in mail?
any help is appreciated! Or if you have other creative suggestions, rather than the same old boring invitation?!

2007-06-06 13:30:38 · 6 answers · asked by jen 4 in Weddings

ok i know this is going to sound bad but recently i got married to my bf of five years. we didn tell anyone but a few friends bc we knew our paretns wouldnt approve bc i know my parents do not like him bc they dont think he takes care of me. 3 yearas agao he messed up his back real bad and now he has damaged it so bad that he is taking 80 mg oxycontin and can no longer work and is in the profcess of having surgery. i thought when we got married he was going to have the surgery right away and start getting things accomplished, but nothing relaly has gotten accomplished he still isnt working and i hva eto pay for everything and i dont make that much money to begin with. anyways everytime i try to talk to him about getting back to work and surgery he gets all defensive like im saying somehitng wrong. he feel useless and he basically is bc he isnt really doing anything to help himself he says he is and peopel just dont call him back but i find it hard to believe. im so frustrated

2007-06-06 13:27:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, Im going to an all nighter this coming up saturday and my boyfriend is going to be there. And when I get tired I asked him if i could cuddle with him and rest on him, and he said sure i wanted to too. But he didnt sound too enthused.So do boys actually like cuddling or do they think its just come girly thing?

Another question::
On friday, the day before the all nighter, is our moving up day dance, and my boyfriend is coming. When a slow song comes on, im kinda scared to dance iwht him becaue im scared ill mess up or something, but do i just go up to him and dance or wait for him to ask, or whatttt?

HELP PLEASE ASAP. :D

2007-06-06 13:22:16 · 29 answers · asked by itsxkrex 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so lik i loveee this guy named chris i wanna make out with him, so do i make the move??? (being the gurl) and i need some tips! haha please help me soon. and HOW would i make the move idk wut to do or how would i imply that i wanna make out.

2007-06-06 13:20:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who is 23 years old. She already has a kid and has had sex with like 15 guys now. She has unprotected sex with i hopes of getting them to fall in love with her. She gives guys blow jobs in other people's homes and pulls the condoms off guys when they're having sex. She wants to be loved, but they just want sex. She thinks that dating like a "guy" will prevent her from getting hurt, but she gets hurt anyways. She doesn't learn from her mistakes. How can I help her?

2007-06-06 13:18:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and they always say syretha no fighting you and noe need to work it out but the thing is that he never wants to talk and no matter what way its like i feel degraded because the way he treats me its like i do the same back because i get so mad. And then he threatens to hit me and i hit him and its all screwed up and last saturday i left him and got all my **** and he called and looked for me everywhere and said he was sorry and now today we got in another fight and i love him but i wish he would just come around and act like a normal husband and his family knows we fight bad but i dont know what to do. I want to know how i can make it look like he is the one that needs to grow up and act normal instead of me. How do i make it look like he is the bad guy and take all eyes off me and on him. And how do i make him want me and make him try to get my attention. how can i ignore him until he realizes im tired of his ****.

2007-06-06 13:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-06 13:11:25 · 15 answers · asked by bohmoron 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend and she's so perfect, it's a little creepy. She's blond, gorgeous, ultra-smart, always turns in her homework, the whole shebang. The problem is, she knows it. And then there's me, my dark brown hair hanging in tendrils around my less than adorable face, tripping over thin air, doodles all over my arms, worried about that Spanish/Math/English/Science/History/Health project that I forgot about until just now, five minutes before it's due. The problem is, she knows it. She knows she's better than me in every possible way. She has this annoying way she says "Oh my god!" with rolled eyes that she reserves for when she wants to put herself above me. When I doodle on my arms. When I'm picking the scab that I got running into my dresser or falling down the stairs. I'm at least as smart as her, I just choose not to show it. (School is not exactly my top priority) Today, after finding out that I learned Spanish present tense faster than her, she was all. "You know, if you work

2007-06-06 13:09:25 · 12 answers · asked by edwina_ruleslots64 1 in Friends

I recall the natural parents were reunited after the father found out his child had been born. It was widely and heartbreakingly televised including the actual moment of taking the child from the arms of the adoptive mother to the natural mother. I do not recall all of the legal decisions around this extreme drama but I have never forgotten the child and often wonder about her.

2007-06-06 13:09:22 · 2 answers · asked by Red Hat 1 in Family

Throwing stuff at me calling me names entering my room with out knocking takes my stuff. won't stop when I say stop

2007-06-06 13:07:20 · 9 answers · asked by B G 1 in Family

I want to elope, but I don't know where to begin. I live in the U.S., and I'd like to elope to Europe. I don't really know where exactly, because I've never been there! Lol. I am NOT an island girl, and I do not want a beach wedding!!! I want to get married in December, and I love snow so it would be perfect if I could find a location that's snowy in December. The wedding will be for just me and my fiance, but we want both a ceremony and a reception (Lol, basically a glorified dinner for two) for the two of us. I'm thinking of a beautiful castle or a romantic estate, but I have no idea where to begin. Please help!!! Thanks so much.

P.S. Please do not send me to other sites or tell me to Google something.

2007-06-06 13:07:17 · 8 answers · asked by Christmas Bride 1 in Weddings

There is this boy I like who knows I like him, and I'm not sure whether he likes me or not. I've been thinking about what I should do at the end of the school year. (outside of school) hes very shy. should I:

a. hug him
b. kiss him on the cheek
c. take his picture

i dont want to be too flirty, but at least he can think its cute.

2007-06-06 12:58:52 · 11 answers · asked by blingding 5 in Singles & Dating

i really love football my favorite college team is Texas Longhorns GO LONGHORNS i love Vince Young my favorite Pro football team are the Dallas Cowboys and my middle school team is West Memorial DISTRICT CHAMPS WEST MO and i hope my high school team is good next year .Some of my guy friends joke and say they would date me if i wasnt their buddy.that im the perfect girlfriend what do u guys think am i Also i swim competitvle and if i had to choose between a football gameon tv or a swimm meet on tv i would pick football

2007-06-06 12:57:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends