my boy friend won't respect my sexual bonderies and he's pushing me into trying to have sex with him help!!!!!

Answer 1

stick to your guns..if you dont want to have sex with him then dont...tell him your not ready, most guys live off their hormones their testosterone levels are really high, and he might like you sexually..but like i said if your not ready then your not ready..be up front and tell him why you dont want to have sex with him..once hes understands why, then he might ease up..good luck

Answer 2

Hey, it's not like you use this thing and it wears out. You are given your reproductive organs for a reason. Some of the best sex you will ever have will be in your experimental stage. If your boy friend wants to have sex and he respects you enough to not be getting it from other people, you should really be considering what you are doing to him. If you are sure that you are not into sex yet, and thats ok, let him know in no uncertain terms. Boys are geneticly programed to be horny at that age. HE CAN'T HELP IT! Of course he wants to have sex. Be sure of one thing. If hes not getting it from you he'll end up getting it from someone else. Use him or lose him.

Answer 3

If you don't know then you aren't ready. Remember, don't have sex for the following reasons:
1You think sex equals love
2 You feel pressured
3 You're afraid to say no
4 It's just easier to give in
5 You think everyone else is doing it (they're not)
6 Your instincts tell you not to
7 You don't know the facts about pregnancy
8 You don't understand how birth control works
9 You don't think a woman can get preggers the 1st time (she can)
10 It goes against your moral beliefs
11 It goes against your religious beliefs
12 You'll regret it in the moorning
13 You'll feel embarassed or ashamed
14 You're doing it to prove something
15 You can't suport a child
16 You can't support yourself
17 You really wish the whole thing had never come u
18 You believe sex before marraige is wrong
19 You don't know how to protect yourself from from HIV
20 You don't know the signs of STD's
21 You think it will make your partner love you
22 You think it will make you love your partner
23 You think it will keep you togrther
24 You hope it will change your life
25 You don't want it to change your life
26 You're not ready for the relationship to change
27 You're drunk
28 you wish you were drunk
29 Your partner is drunk
30 You expect it to be perfect
31 You hope no one will hear about it
32 You can't wait to tell everyone about it
33 You're not ready to take off your clothes
34 You think HIV/AIDS only happens to other people
35You're not thinking about yourself
36 You're only thinking about yourself
37You don't know that abstinebce is the only 100% protection against pregnancy, HIV/AIDS, and STDs
38You haven't talked about tommorrow
39 You can't face the thought of tomorrow
40You'd be horrified if your parents found out
41You're doing it so your parents will find out
42 You're too scared to think clearly
43 You think it will make you more popular
44 You think you "owe" it to your partner
45 You think it's not OK to be a virgin

Answer 4

He's not really your boyfriend! A true "friend" would respect your wishes. He's selfish. You stand up for yourself! You don't need no "boy" telling you that you gotta do this. If you give in, he will no longer have respect for you, and you won't have any for your self!
Dump his horny *** and hang out with people who respect you.

Answer 5

What's to help with? You have set your boundaries. If he refuses to respect your decision, he doesn't deserve you as a girlfriend. Next time, tell him "I told you No, and I meant No, if that isn't clear enough for you, then we need to not see each other anymore "
If he really cared about you he would not be pushing.

Answer 6

if he is pushing you then he does not respect you or your wishes, you need to get him out of your life.
waiting for marriage or even til your an adult is very important during the whole teen age hormone days this is not something you want to get into, your emotions are not stable nor are his.
but in this case their is no respect all he wants is what he wants, see the big picture once (if you give in) he will just leave and move on to the next girl. having sex does not keep a man.
I waited til marriage and my husband respects me so much more for it and while we were dating and engaged he never pushed me once never tried anything he was happy I wanted to wait and was willing to wait for me.

Answer 7

Tell him straight out, before you guys get into anything sexually that if he pushes you farther then you want to go that you will no longer be doing ANYTHING with him.
If he doesn't respect you sexually then he doesn't respect you at all

Answer 8

You need to have respect for yourself. There are to many diseases out there, not to mention you may end up with a baby when you are not ready. Tell him no!!!! If he don't respect that then tell him good bye. There to many men out there who will respect you. You are worth it.

Answer 9

You sound like a smart person who knows what she is ready for and what she is not ready for.If he is not respecting your boundaries and is pushing you to do something that you are not ready to do, then dump him. He obviously isn't the right person for you. Never let anyone push you to do something that your not ready to do.

Answer 10

You need to set your boyfriend straight, if he isnt willing to respect you and your boundries then you have to walk away. And make sure you are clear to him that you will, WALK.....you should have sex only when you are ready and not before....if he loves you and respects you enough he will back off and give you time.....good luck

Answer 11

if u already told him that u dont want to then u should dump him. if he cant respect a girl and her rights then hes not good enough for u. find another guy thats not a disgusting pig who only wants one thing! u deserve better.