Well, Im going to an all nighter this coming up saturday and my boyfriend is going to be there. And when I get tired I asked him if i could cuddle with him and rest on him, and he said sure i wanted to too. But he didnt sound too enthused.So do boys actually like cuddling or do they think its just come girly thing?
Another question::
On friday, the day before the all nighter, is our moving up day dance, and my boyfriend is coming. When a slow song comes on, im kinda scared to dance iwht him becaue im scared ill mess up or something, but do i just go up to him and dance or wait for him to ask, or whatttt?
HELP PLEASE ASAP. :D
2007-06-06 13:22:16 · 29 answers · asked by itsxkrex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My experience is that some men do like to cuddle while others see it as a form of fore play to sex! My husband is the latter and I love to cuddle but, I do not want it to be a precursor to love making!! I have talked to him about this but, it is just who he is and apart of him, period!
As for the dance, follow your heart! As for me, I would go alone if he did not ask me! After all, if he really cared for you, you would not have to ask us about this. I am not being mean either, I am stating a fact here!
Please be careful, enjoy your life and you will know when that "right" guy comes if you stand back and look at who and what they are!! Do not let "crushes, physical attraction or, any other dating ritual" determine how you should behave! Be your own person and be smart about your choices!!
Be careful, have fun and worry about real problems like...education, and so on for your betterment of your own future! Brst of wishes to you now and in the future!
2007-06-06 14:41:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question #1 = some guys dont mind cuddling, and guys only get enthused bout one maybe two things. I dont mind cuddling, its a sense of closness and like the relationship will last.
#2 = the guy asks the girl to dance, don't worry, you'll be fine, just remember, on a slow dance, u just dance in a square
2007-06-06 20:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by just tht kid over there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy that is 28 years old, I definitely DO enjoy a good cuddle time with my girlfriend. We can spend hours watching movies and cuddling up. We don't even have to be tired, just the feeling of wrapping my arms around the girl I love is a great feeling and helps us to feel very connected. As for your dance, if you are a couple already, you can safely ask him to dance with you. Just walk up and ask him "*insert name here, or pet name* come dance with me, please?" I doubt he will tell you no.
2007-06-06 20:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Spark of Insanity 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry so much about the dancing, it'll be akward and uncomfotable like all our school dances were. Sure guys like to cuddle but they have to be in a mood for it I think. They like being close with you just as much as you like being close with them but since they were little they have been taught that being affectionate is not a very manly practice so some shy away from it becuase of social pressure. So yeah we like to cuddle and if he dosen't ask you to dance and you want to the just take control and pull him out on the floor. Good luck and have fun!
2007-06-06 20:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Icarus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self girl dont be worried he probably had a bad day men do like to cuddle ,,,just enjoy the moment as it comes and do what makes you happy if it means going up it him he wont have to ask he would just join because your bf and so many men do have there bad and good moods so dont take it personal dear...
2007-06-14 20:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby likes to cuddle depending on the mood hes in, but for the most part he is affectionate. your guy may not want to probably because hes thinking about sex, and if you guys are not ready yet he might not want to be embarrassed if "something may come up".
as far as the slow dance just let him lead, and take it slow. "hence the word slow dance" i am sure you will be just fine. good luck.
2007-06-14 20:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by angela s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuddling is not gender specific. If he is the touchy feely type, he will love to cuddle. There are both men and women who need their space and don't like to cuddle. Everyone is different. If you get with him and you approach him and he doesn't act like he really likes it, he is doing it then just for you because you told him you wanted to. Go with your gut and give it a try, but don't be upset if it isn't for him. It doesn't mean he doesn't care deeply for you.
2007-06-14 19:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Nascar Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the cuddling thing... We like to hold our women tight but we only cuddle to make you girls happy. As far as slow dancing, it's ok to grab his hand and walk up to the dance floor. Girls do it to me all the time. Good Luck!
2007-06-14 12:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by champion28601 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, dance with the guy! It is usually customary for the guy to ask but if you want to, go ask HIM!
Second, cuddling is more of a female activity than a male one. We DO like to cuddle but for different reasons. We enjoy the contact and the physical nature of it.
Men tend to see cuddling as a "means to an end" more than the "end" itself.
2007-06-06 20:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
1st question: He doesn't want to cuddle cause he doesn't want to be in a situation that you both cannot control. I am assuming you have not had sex with him.
2nd: You cannot mess up a slow dance. She hold on to him and let him lead the way.
2007-06-06 20:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by sleepyhead 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋