I have this friend who is 23 years old. She already has a kid and has had sex with like 15 guys now. She has unprotected sex with i hopes of getting them to fall in love with her. She gives guys blow jobs in other people's homes and pulls the condoms off guys when they're having sex. She wants to be loved, but they just want sex. She thinks that dating like a "guy" will prevent her from getting hurt, but she gets hurt anyways. She doesn't learn from her mistakes. How can I help her?
2007-06-06 13:18:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from her. She is toxic and moving herself in directions that she can't or won't control. She will only continue to take you down if you try to make her "right". If she isn't willing to listen to reason and get some counseling, she isn't your issue. Don't take on everyone in your life that is needy and without care about their own health and life. It's burdensome and you won't get a resolve for you either. Step away.
2007-06-06 13:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to help herself or want to be helped. Society teaches us that survival is the basis of all living things. However Survival = Determination X (Need + Want + Discipline). Without the determination to change, all three of any one of the combined fail. Make it a point to her about the morals and teachings she's influencing on her own child and how important it is to be independent. Also don't be fooled by the answers given, look for the actions taken.
2007-06-06 13:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by illushen4o8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything you can do to help her. Most of the time girls who act that way do it because they're desperate for love and attention, and it's the only way they know how to get it. And unfortunately, she is unlikely to find anything lasting that way. Just try to be her friend. And try to remind her that her first responsibility is to her child! The baby has to come first.
2007-06-06 13:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she needs a rude awakening, she's turning into a slutty person, which is worse...dating like a guy and being a female just gives her a worse reputation for her kid to grow up with...she should date men that she likes and that like her and if they don't fine move on...getting hurt happens to everyone you can't prevent it like the saying says "whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger" you need to sit her down and show her what she's doing...the only difference between her and a prostitute is they get paid
2007-06-06 13:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by lil_play_boy_bunny 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't date like that because they want to find love. Guys date like that because they want sex!
Your friend needs serious counseling because she was probably abused as a child.
2007-06-06 19:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by greenonion08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 19:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by honeywell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her who she would want to raise her child if she contracts a terminal illness.
2007-06-06 13:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot help her. She needs to help herself
2007-06-06 13:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by sleepyhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE SHOULD BE FORCIBLY STERILISED but thanks for 2 points-dump her.she is trying to trap some guy for $$ poor welfare baby if she has one,
2007-06-06 13:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋