and they always say syretha no fighting you and noe need to work it out but the thing is that he never wants to talk and no matter what way its like i feel degraded because the way he treats me its like i do the same back because i get so mad. And then he threatens to hit me and i hit him and its all screwed up and last saturday i left him and got all my **** and he called and looked for me everywhere and said he was sorry and now today we got in another fight and i love him but i wish he would just come around and act like a normal husband and his family knows we fight bad but i dont know what to do. I want to know how i can make it look like he is the one that needs to grow up and act normal instead of me. How do i make it look like he is the bad guy and take all eyes off me and on him. And how do i make him want me and make him try to get my attention. how can i ignore him until he realizes im tired of his ****.
2007-06-06 13:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like both of you are in a relationship that is not right and it is need of ending. You are only together because of time and a comfortable, (because of time) yet very unstable situation. Physical abuse on both sides show there is no respect, you both need to part, and hopefully part as friends because this relationship is going nowhere, except to be a sideshow for the relatives.
2007-06-06 13:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never going to change him, you can try all you want, but it will never work. As for his family seeing him as the "bad guy" they are his family, he sounds extremely spoiled and it is largely due to them I would suspect. If there is someone in his family that you can talk to, then you might try that, if not, it sounds like you would be better off without him. Good Luck.
2007-06-06 13:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea22306 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it incredibly is this unruly cousin who could say sorry for her outrageous habit which positioned a different cramp on your occasion. additionally, so no longer invite this individual to the different function the place alcohol is being served. she would be able to't carry her booze and he or she's violent. Who needs this form of drama?
2017-01-10 17:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will always be nosey and in your business untill you move out that is just how it is. as far as fighting with your husband youll be ready to leave each other when both of you are really fed up and i mean fed up eith each other.
2007-06-06 13:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Ree O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a screenplay, send it to Lifetime. Use the proceeds to start a new life.
2007-06-07 01:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all you need both ............MOVE OUT ASAP! there is nothing worse than living with inlaws, yours or his, you married each other, you both did not marry each other's family, i gurantee if you dont move out, you will end up divorced, trust me i was in your situation 11 yrs ago, i moved out till we got an apartment together, now its all good...
2007-06-06 14:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by amy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your married life would make a good movie. you could call it, "RED FOX AND ME AT HOME"
2007-06-06 13:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋