Girls.Who would you marry a poor loser or a rich winner?

Question

There is an old saying that "Money doesnt buy happiness" but think about it the best moments in life are when you buy a car,house,computer,big screen tv,go to a football game,go on a family trip,go to disneyworld.For most people those are their best moments in life and they all require alot of money.So to settle this thing once and for all,Ladies would you marry a poor guy who loves you or a guy with money who loves you???According to a survey 20% of U.S.A. marriages dont work because of Money issues:cant pay the bills,cant fix the car,cant give your daughther a b-day party things like that.So who would you choose.Having a husband that works 50 hrs a wk just to make it or a rich guy who doesnt work and has money up the a-s-s.?

PEOPLE ANSWER THE DAMN QUESTION.YOU ARE ANSWERING THINGS THAT I DIDNT EVEN ASK?

Answer 1

That statment about "money doesn't buy happiness" was put out by poor people because they where jealous of rich people.

Answer 2

I have very strange sleeping habits due to medical reasons. I was awake from about 5:30 pm Monday, Nov 3 and stayed up until after the election 3:30am Wed. Nov 5. When I woke up again it was 6pm later that day. (Just a little back story before my answer lol) I woke up, having missed most of the days commentary and news about the night before historic election and I come here. And you are right. I have seen my fellow democrats (I'm actually registered unaffiliated) acting poorly. I expected the republicans to act poorly, because they just lost. It's understandable. But to the democrats...did you NOT watch Obama's speech last night? I'm with you on the glee, but let's keep that celebrating to ourselves...other democrats. Let's not sink down to nastiness. You are only serving to divide us further, and that's not helping the cause. We really have to do our part, not just take for granted that things will work. It's going to take all of us. Let the republicans vent for a few days. I will admit some of the republican responses though are beyond angry. They are hateful and full of vile. I feel sorry for them because they are misguided and uninformed. I'd love to argue with them, but what's the point? It's just going to waste my time and energy. There have been plenty of extremely gracious 'losers' posting congratulatory messages. And I say 'losers' because those people actually demostrated they are winners by being the bigger person and THEY are putting country first. THEY are willing to come together immediately and unite, to at least try. So a call to all my fellow Obama supporters, don't involve yourself with the petty attacks. Yes, we were attacked before the election, and we attacked back, but its over. Now the real work starts.

Answer 3

Well let me make this clear, I wouldn't marry a loser poor or not. If I knew going in that a guy couldn't carry his weight to meet the goals of marriage, he wouldn't be acceptable. And that carries forward to a rich loser as well. You cannot put this simplistic idea toward marriage. I'm don't believe that there is necessarily a rich winner. The guy could be a total jerk. Nouveu riche is not acceptable. Some established rich are also screwed up and not winners. This isn't about money. It's about morals, heart, and whether they have grown up or just doing.

Answer 4

I know most men will say women are all for the money. I for one am not. I do want somebody that is able to help with the bills and able to provide the basic necessities in life that everyone needs. Now you asked if I would marry a poor man who loves me or a rich man who loves me. Of course I would pick the one who I loved and had the most in commen with. It just would be an added bonus if it happened to be the rich one : )

Answer 5

How about a decent man who can contribute to the household, be relied upon to help take care of the kids and be certain to provide (should I end up working part-time or out-of-work) for food on the table, a car, an apartment or condo--the basics? Not some loser making $10 an hour at 7-Eleven. No, I don't want no scrubs. A scrub is a guy who can't get no love from me. Hanging on the passenger's side of his best friend's ride, tryin' to holler at me..

Answer 6

No doubt about it. I had qualifications for my husband. Needs a college degree....good work ethic...good job...smart. I work hard for my money and I am not going to have someone sitting on their butt and spending it. Like you said all the good things in life take money. and it is not like your choices are someone poor who loves you vs. someone rich who doesn't. It is love vs. love. So why not take the love with less drama. All things being equal I would take the money. If things where not equal I would go down a little on my money requirements....but he is not going to sit on his butt all day. Anyone without a college degree need not apply.

Answer 7

I don't think it matters if the person you marry is a poor loser or a rich winner. If you love the person then marry them and never base it on money.
Money doesn't buy happiness. Love does.

Answer 8

People like Britney Spears kind of show that wealth in a marriage isn't any guarantee happiness or security.

My parents were immigrant labourers and never were they wealthy in any way except where it mattered most - their hearts were wealthy with love for each other and for the family.

Answer 9

I choose love over money. Even though we have our share of financial problems, we have shared such memories together as laughing, restaurants, movies, having children, a vacation, and buying things like tvs, dvd players, computers - when we could afford them. Those times when we couldn't we survived, and it made us appreciate the finer things when we could have them.

Answer 10

A rich guy who works for a living.

A man living on his father's or grandfather's money aint worth my time or worthy of me!!