Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

I recently heard from a friend that my husband thought some girl he played poker with was "hot" and that he might have a pic of her, I asked him in a non accusing way and he said no and got very mad. I didn't understand why he got so mad and then stayed mad. So I checked his cell phone and there it was in his outbox of his txt messages...being sent to HIS email. I don't understand, the pic is of a girl playing poker...taken by a cell phone and looks like she doesn't know her pic was taken. I don't understand why he would be taking or sending a pic of a girl from poker to his email. I don't care if you think someone is hot, that is normal, but to take and save her pic, that seems bad for a married man to do....not to mention a little creepy since it doesn't look like she is aware of her pic being taken.
Now I don't THINK he is cheating, but I don't trust him 100% anymore because its not like she is an unattainable woman. What should I do? He still has no idea that I have seen the pic

2007-06-04 23:48:52 · 23 answers · asked by swtlilblonde31 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am woried that if my husband comes to know about my physical relations with my byfriend on the first night.

2007-06-04 23:47:44 · 13 answers · asked by nidhisoni_22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Her mother and I are curently going through a court battle in regards to her residence. I asked what contact I can have with my daughter until then but on all the dates I have proposed she has said she is working. But she said she only works every 2nd Sat so I can see her this Sat but then in the same letter she said she is working every weekend until Sat 7th July (as you can see this is not every 2nd Sat) But then she went on to say if I drop going for residence then I can have her for half the holidays and staying contact every fortnight comencing this weekend. Should I give up on residence and take the contact or should I stick to my initial intentions. There were reasons I initally requested residence in my favour I didn't just want to take her from her mother. The reasons in my eyes were valid. We have done things through court for contact 6 times and she has broken every court order and still nothing gets done. should i give up she calls another man daddy she is only 3 help

2007-06-04 23:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by DEBORAH A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anything goes honey..

2007-06-04 23:35:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

answer fast , pls.

2007-06-04 23:19:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we always fight, argue in so many yhings these days, no sex within 2weeks..sometime once a month....he complained bout me, i complained bout him, ...what can i do in order to survive these relationship, i want to keep it, but dont know how...pls send advice pls...

2007-06-04 23:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by Cristita C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright welp I don't really give a rats a** about sex. I see that a lot of other people do. I have some people saying that someting wrong others are like damn but is it normla not to really care about sex with the one you love you just want to get to know them better and love them with meh head and heart not meh balls? Ive had people also say bullshit no way in hell Im like that. No guys are like that.

2007-06-04 23:04:34 · 4 answers · asked by Questions after another 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 22:59:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it that men find women kissing a turn on but i think both sexes find it unpleasant to see two men kissing -

2007-06-04 22:59:29 · 15 answers · asked by sd_lewis2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I love being a man and yet at the same time am appalled at the group I belong to. Men today use every means possible to obtain the object of their desires. Women have no value beyond their physical use; sex, cleaning, childcare, cooking, etc. There are many exceptional individuals that defy the stereotypes while continuing to be victimized by them. How can real men stand up and be heard over the peverted squeeling of stereotypical male behavior?

2007-06-04 22:58:49 · 6 answers · asked by EnlightenedOne 4 in Singles & Dating

I did all that and listened and talked about what she wanted to do together and I agreed to do it.

Now things aren't the way we thought they would be. I can not find a job where we moved to and have tried and keep trying nothing.
While I am not working and she is, I do everything around the house, everything, take care of 2 kids and walking them to school everyday, make them breakfast, give baths, getting dressed, all of it. Keeping them quite when she is sleeping.
I get mad when I wash and fold her clothes put them on the bed for her to put away and she complains when I ask her to.
I get mad because she will stay up late drinking beer and not doing anything else, she says she can not go to sleep and beer helps her to.
I said if you can not sleep then why not pick up a dust rag and wipe something down once in while or fold some clothes or something, she said that is being an old lady.
My money from selling everything is about gone and she says I work so why should I do any

2007-06-04 22:45:04 · 10 answers · asked by life is good and bad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-04 22:42:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf and i have been going through a rough patch, he is very distant. I suspected cheating as i was recieving messages from girls saying they were his gf. He sayshe feels we are in a dead end relationship as we have different backgrounds and having pre-marital relations is not allowed for him.

because of exams & long distant he said he wanted to discuss it in person. My exams finished yesterday &i have found out i may have cancer. He called me when i just heard and was v.supportive. Later when i was stronger he cried over the phone too. Said he would call me back but when he did after i tried caling, he was his usual brief self and said he was tired and going to sleep.

I had some treatment done this morning and called to tell him how it went and he was very abrupt on the phone saying he will cal later. he didn't give much information or emotion, just heard what i said and went. What does he want from me? does he care? What should i do - i need him right now! plz help

2007-06-04 22:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to buy something cute (like a teddy bear) but something to show her my love.
I was thinking of a pendant, but she doesn't like jewelry (nor does she wear em).

It is special because its been 7 months we've been apart from each other and I want to buy her something meaningful.

2007-06-04 22:14:13 · 16 answers · asked by theonoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband was a field worker & spent most of my time with my sister who was helping me not only as a sister but also as a servant. we fight whenever he comes for a vacation. this experience makes me worried whenever he plans to come home. i expect him half hearted. i love him to come & spend some time with us but we end up with fight. this makes me sick of stress and felt the pain morethan 3 times. it was my sister who was helping me to survive even our families don't know about us. He is fond of sex. whatever i may feel he needs it. if i say no for a day he will not give me a space. now i felt that as if sex is work than love. this makes me sick whenever i think of his needs. by the time we fight he insulted me badly & beaten me. he also told me that i have wasted his time. i was shocked to hear all that. I think that not only beating even insulting your love is not necessary. so i told him i need a divorce but he still claims that he needs me & wants my sister out.

2007-06-04 22:09:00 · 3 answers · asked by elsabeth a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married less than a year. My husband started treating me like a maid, and all he does is burp fart and boss me around. Obviously this does not turn ladies on, and I let him know it. He complains that I'm not "affectionate" any more so I have to explain he needs to act like a gentleman, but this just makes him pissed off. I could care less but I am so sick of him complaing about not getting any when it's his own damn fault. Seriously, is there hope?

2007-06-04 22:07:31 · 15 answers · asked by jaime m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this a turn on!!???

2007-06-04 22:04:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 21:48:55 · 9 answers · asked by Jack 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex placed a temp restraing order on me, and on the papers the judge signed says no order on custody what does that mean? Is it just that no matter the outcome he cant get full custody of my children ? Is their any way to get this dismissed? Will it effect a child custody case coming up?

2007-06-04 21:48:19 · 5 answers · asked by ~*STARR*~ ~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some strange thing is happening with my brother. He is 2 years elder to me, and normally at home on weakends. About a month back accidently both of us have seen our parents in sex action. Since then he hug me in such a way that my breast touches his chest, and I noticed twice his hardened tool touching me during hug. What should I do. Frankly I have not opposed him till now and clearly I see that we are moving out fast from Bro/sis relationship. Reply me fast, as the next weekend is near.

2007-06-04 21:45:14 · 8 answers · asked by Salma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

says he wants me to call him but he never calls me? he always promises to call but never does. then whenever i call he tells me to call him again. example " call me tomarow ok ill be around tomarow " . i even went so far as to ask " you never call me, i dont want to bug you - how do i know you want me to call ?" and he was like " Yeah call me ! " b ut he always says he will call me but HE never does. what does this mean?

2007-06-04 21:45:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should i call him?
Should i call him?
i've been going out with this guy whom i have a crush with.. unfortunately i have been busy for few months and so everytime he would asked me out i was not always available. i am now sad that he stopped calling me for a month now, i tried to reach him but i think he is no longer interested in seeing me. should i call him? or should i stop waiting for him to call me. what will i do? ..what seems to happen i dont know, because we've been ok before he stopped calling me.


i did call him. but he won't answer it. instead he texted me,, i said i missed him, but he didn't reply again what will i do? can i still win him back? even for friendship? pls anyone who can help me on what to tell him, i'm getting really desperate now. thanku.

2007-06-04 21:38:24 · 14 answers · asked by confused lady 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a good man. We've been together for 1 year now..He only has a problem in controlling his urges. He confesses that he is always horny and wants sex all of the time. What are the negatives about this? Any harm that it will cause our relationship?

2007-06-04 21:37:55 · 6 answers · asked by ticker 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this young guy and I just texted him asking him out for dinner and he replied,

"sorry I can't make it but you can ask roger or ken or sam or Ray or...?" (those are fake names here, he was talking about some mutual guy friends)

I know one of these guy friends has entried a blog on myspace saying we guys hung out on sat and sun together, but this young dude wasn't there cos he was out of town and just got back last night..

is he jealous or not interested? I am a little bit upset..cos there were some girls too, just that this frd didn't mention in his blog..he thought I was the only girl there maybe..

2007-06-04 21:36:15 · 9 answers · asked by jeannieC 1 in Singles & Dating

i been chattin and meeting on line peoples for over a year and been threw alot n met some interesting people and have met some who fell in love threw online dating and meetings but my question is related to a online friend i am not suppose be talking to because of my sister who was friends with this person first so this guy i been chatting with a lil over a year and we hit it off juss like that and we cared for one another alot and but last year be4 we started talking more n more the first nite i met him online i didnt know he was friends with my sister threw online n my sister cared for him alot and witout me knowin i chat wit him the first nite and my other sister seen me chatting with him and told my other sister and since the first nite i met him i was told to leave him alone but i neva did and we hid all that from my sister and 2 weeks ago i findally told her and now she doesnt want us talking again but i am not willin to let this person go.. what should i do?

2007-06-04 21:28:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello All!We are newly married and both me and my wife are virgins.We havent had sex as of yet and the main reason is we are still in the dark and a bit scared of the birth control method.We are bit shy to ask anyone either.My questions are:
1.Will it be tough to insert my penis inside my wifes vagina at first as her hymen is still intact and will it bleed?Is she going to get hurt a lot?
2.We have no idea abt the birth control pills.Is my wife suppose to take it everyday even though we didnt have sex?Her period stopped about 5 days ago and we are planning to have sex tomorrow night.
3.Is she suppose to take pills when she's in her period?

Please Help,Thanx!

2007-06-04 21:28:27 · 9 answers · asked by Man@work 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a girl tells you that she doesn't care about anyone and stuff, but she's always staring at you, asking for a sip of your drink, and touching you sometimes. She's not a lesbian or anything, that's just how she acts. But again she doesn't care about anyone. Is she just being selfish or what?

2007-06-04 21:25:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife and i have been together for seven years we have three children one together. we have fought really bad since january around the first of march i found out threw her ansers on here that she had been cheating on me since january with along distant guy that live at least 5 hours away ive been really miserable not getting to see my kids anymore or not as much she was the love of my life. i just wanted to know what would be the chances of her coming back to me i was just kinda hoping that this could be some sort of a mid life thing because we have been under alot of stress over kids jobs money and every day life. it just seems that we were so good together. she was realy stressed out like myself

2007-06-04 21:24:34 · 16 answers · asked by feller 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so my best friend,we've been friends since kindergarten and we were inseprable ever since, we went to the movies like we always do on saturdays but then in the midle of the movie it was getting cold so I sat closer to him ,he put his arm around me and the next thing I knew is that we were kissing (that was the most gross thing I ever done in my life) Then we continued to watch the movie.From then on he started acting diffrently around me (He stops teasing me and now he treats me like a girly girl and I hate that). Now I'm having a feeling that he had a crush on me all this time but I dont feel the same way and I know we are too young to have a relationship, I need to tell him ,but how ,I know that this is his first (almost) Relationship, I'm afraid that after this we might feel uncomftable and i might crush his spirit ,we might stop being friends ,but I like us friends.HELP!.

2007-06-04 21:21:12 · 2 answers · asked by $harada* 1 in Friends

The reason I am asking cause some folks leap into dating after a divorce so am pondering If I am to cautious here cause I left in 1999 and we were finally divorced on August 17,2000. I like being alone maybe I am really strange and my past partner is right that "NO man will ever be good enough for me."
thanks for your time and answers.

2007-06-04 21:17:44 · 9 answers · asked by ღ♥ღLaurieღ♥ღ 4 in Marriage & Divorce