Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

Okay....about a month ago my ex and I were hanging out over at one of his buddies' houses. Well...before that, my ex showed this buddy naked pictures of me, and while at the buddy's house, was trying to get me naked in front of them both(while i was drunk). Since then, his "buddy" has contacted me and i responded and we've met up and you can guess the rest...

Now my ex is very upset with him and me. He has tried everything to stop it from going on and says we're disrespecting him. Now, I don't know about you guys, but what are your thoughts on this? Should I feel extremely guilty or is he the one that needs to let it go and move on? And does this mean I'm easy?

2007-06-04 17:28:29 · 21 answers · asked by Audrey V 3 in Singles & Dating

a father was ordered to pay for college for his daughter but she dropped out of high school. Is he till legally responsible to pay?

2007-06-04 17:27:36 · 13 answers · asked by becky b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well..I've known her 1 year so far...I've dated her only for 2 weeks...( yes it sucks a lot ) Shes really nice and all but.. i dont know if she does like me? She said she doesn't like me anymore and also said she has no feelings for me... I don't think thats true.... Should i still like her and try to get her back? or just move on?

2007-06-04 17:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by Kevin H 3 in Singles & Dating

Unfortunately he found out that I've been fantasizing about somebody I know from online. I'm never going to meet him for real or anything, but now I feel guilty and like I cheated on him. He says he's not mad. Do you think that's true? How can he be ok with it?

2007-06-04 17:25:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this guy for 6 years online, he's the person I go to for everything, and I'm basically in love with him. I'm 17 and he's 21...we want to meet but he is scared he could go to jail just for meeting me with my parents right there. He could go to jail for 10+ years. Could this really happen? Should we risk it because this could be the only chance to meet in the next few years? What are your views on this?

2007-06-04 17:24:47 · 9 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Singles & Dating

I heard many ladies are into Korean men b/c of the hit drama "Winter Sonata."

Also, b/c for some reason they are seen as smart, highly intelligent guys.

2007-06-04 17:23:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for about 2 weeks now. We've been kissing, cuddling, and all that jazz. But today, she seemed upset, and was ignoring me often.

Is she about to break up with me?

2007-06-04 17:23:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 3 years, and have lived together for 2. we just recently had some trouble when i caught him having online affairs, we worked through it and i am 100% confident he is not cheating, but for some unrenounced reason he has little to no interest in a sex life with me.... and when i question him on it he says he likes to be coaxed into it, or that he doesn't always feel like having sex that he's tired and stressed out about "work Stuff". But it makes me feel dirty, and like i'm forcing him into sex with me, because i'm always trying to initiate it, and 3/4 of the time he makes some excuse why he doesn't want it... and it usually leaves me feeling self-conscious and depressed about myself, and I'll let it go for a few months then i usually end up blowing up or breaking down, but nothing ever gets solved. I've invested hundreds of dollars in lingerie, sex toys, books, games, get away trips for us, but it's like i'm invisible. what should i do?

2007-06-04 17:20:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok people I am in trouble I am a 27 year old married female who going nuts because I am not gettin enough sex from my husband we have been married 4 years our sex life sucks I try to spice it up by buying all type things he wont use ,he says hes tired ,he works as if I dont ,we have 3 kids which I work and take care of while he plays xbox and when i go out with my girlfriends on the weekends he will get mad but he does not take me anywhere! I am a very attractive women and the attention I get from men is unbellivable but I dont wont their attention I want my husbands,do u think he is cheatin on me?

2007-06-04 17:18:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

has a gut, owns a Saturn with 100k miles,lives in a duplex next to a practicing witch, chain smokes, only gets second hand women from his friends and is overwhelmed in credit problems,has a bad case of athletes foot, wears jeans to all occasions, and takes anti depressants|?

2007-06-04 17:17:39 · 22 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3 in Singles & Dating

I asked this question earlier tonight but I just wanted to get some new advice...Recently we've been fighting more and more but we're always okay at the end of the night. She is my best friend, we have never been more, and I think that I want to be - but I realize it will never happen... I just am so sick of hurting and I just want to walk away from her... Tonight was another fight - any advice?

2007-06-04 17:17:35 · 17 answers · asked by pblitz08 1 in Singles & Dating

so pretty much every guy ive been interested in lately has been treating me like crap and im getting sick of it. I was best friends with this guy for about 2 years and i fell in love with him but he never liked me. he admits that he used me to do stuff for him because he knew i liked him. yet after are arguments and despise his meanness i kept going back to him. And it seems i pick out guys who are mean and yet i keep going back and talking to them. any advice on how i can stop?!?!?!?!

2007-06-04 17:05:07 · 35 answers · asked by .:Jessica:. Go Spartans! 2 in Singles & Dating

My father died when I was 2 months old. My mother and I were very close in my childhood. But now I'm in my early 20's and moved out when I was 19. When I talk to her I get that feeling you get when your in the room with a complete stranger. And when she calls me I immediatly get pissed off when I see her name on the caller I.D. Is there anything wrong with me? What could the reason be for this?

2007-06-04 17:03:07 · 5 answers · asked by Jeffrey Effrey 2 in Family

I told her she has to get fitted for a bra tomorrow now she is mad and hates me. I don't have the experience to deal with this. I don't know what to tell her.

2007-06-04 17:03:07 · 8 answers · asked by justin c 1 in Family

Do you find Asians attractive?
If so, what attracts you to them?
And, what race are you?

2007-06-04 17:00:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently went to visit an old friend from high school. There were definitely sparks! I think hes a great guy and would make me very happy, only thing is we live a bit of a distance apart. I considered moving to live with him, but I have a good job and like the area where I live now. I'm afraid to make such a drastic move, but my intuition tells me this guy may be "the one" Should I stay where I'm content or chance it for love?

Alright, I want to revise this a bit. The two of us have a been friends for years. We've been seeing each other and talking almost every day. A long distance relationship seems a bit scary though. Not for commitment purposes but simple because we both enjoy each others company so much. It honestly hurts to miss someone so much.

Thanks for the other advise though... I somewhat remember him saying that he'd consider moving up with me. That has to prove something, that he really cares. Is it fair though to make him find a new job and leave his life behind?

2007-06-04 16:56:39 · 14 answers · asked by mommy2be08 2 in Singles & Dating

of them are teens in high school) I'm really getting the vibes from them and find myself pressed with issues that are trivial, and immature. It's upsetting because I feel like I have to wait for these kids to grow up which hinders my own personal growth. Why can't everyone just agree?

2007-06-04 16:55:07 · 1 answers · asked by shhhhhhhhhh 3 in Singles & Dating

Mine is mental by being grounded. But I used to be physical. Wats urs? Just interested. got notin better to do. So wth is ur punishment?

2007-06-04 16:49:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey, I kust moved from Florida to Connecticut. I am new to this place and just finding it dificult to find some place to meet a girl. I am 24 and tired of the bar and club scene, anybody got any ideas?

2007-06-04 16:47:01 · 9 answers · asked by visions of gandhi 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is almost 18. he will be leaving for colloege in nashville this september. we are very much in love with each other and i do want to be with him always, but my friends well me i'm too young. i'm so confused...

2007-06-04 16:45:25 · 54 answers · asked by Havok♥Chaos 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my 2 bestest friends went out to a club the other day and we were all drinking somehow on our way back to the car they started fussing,I went to talk to a guy and then they started fighting,pulling hair and screaming now they arent speaking and each one of them wants to turn me against the other what can I do to stay out of it and I want to be both of thier friends matter of fact they were friends with eachother before I even came along what can I do?

2007-06-04 16:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well my bf realy likes me we have kissed lots but we have never had sex and tonight he asked me to come over should i go or stay? HELP!

2007-06-04 16:31:48 · 46 answers · asked by Shayna 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend hooked up twice with a guy she's known for a week and the second they had dry sex, when he dropped her off at home he did not say he'll call her later or anything all he said was bye and gave her a kiss. He has not called since then, and she's worried. Should she wait for him to call back or should she call him?

2007-06-04 16:14:29 · 17 answers · asked by Nebel6 2 in Singles & Dating

im 17, i have posters of almost completely exposed women in my room. my mom doesnt mind but she says its disrespectful to women. i dont get how this is so????? im putting them on my wall. its not like im throwing darts at them. i whack off to them. this means i admire their beauty. how is this disrespectful? the women who pose like this want me to ejaculate to them, thats why they do it. do u agree with my mom or me?

heres one of the posters i put on my wall

http://img395.imageshack.us/img395/6774/crc2020in3.jpg

2007-06-04 16:13:33 · 6 answers · asked by Bob S 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have a long history together. We got together in high school. I graduated from a four year college but he didn't. He's been working since I graduated but I can't get a job. We were just talking about moving out of state and then we had a few drinks and he packed his bag and stormed out. I have no friends and don't want to call family. He has a history of being impulsive when angry. He's pushed me to the floor and thrown things at me. He's slammed doors in my face and called me names in front of our daughter. Whenever we talk about these things we work out that we are both disrespectful, but I never call names and rarely yell or throw things, especially if our daughter is within earshot. Both of us drink more and more. Perhaps if we were happier we wouldn't drink so much. Both of our families think that the other family's spouse is to blame. One fam. is blue collar and the other educated white collar. Our daughter has told granma that it's her fault mom/dad are fighting

2007-06-04 16:12:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok theres this boy i really really liked and we talk like everyday no joke and he is always saying im beautiful and he told me he liked me

but we were tlking online a minute ago

and he said omg i just got a girlfriend and im trying to act like im happy for him yet i just want to scream

what the crap im right here whats wrong with me??

but i fell like its my ault for not asking him out when i had him

what do i do??

i feel so numb

2007-06-04 16:12:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Unless one of them has married/remarried, that is.

Or, has the term 'single mother' come to mean something different?

2007-06-04 16:11:37 · 2 answers · asked by Maureen 7 in Family

I want to engrave something on the back of it, too. Any ideas?

2007-06-04 16:10:23 · 19 answers · asked by redsoxsteve9 2 in Weddings

Well. I always thought that this girl liked me and I was pretty confident about it but when I asked her out she said she doesn't have the time for dating. I accepted it and moved on. Our friendship didn't crumble after she rejected me but it was as strong. She would still say hi and maintain eye contact. Well, today I saw her. She froze up and couldn't finish saying the word "Hi" to me. She then stopped the eye contact and looked down on the floor and we passed by each other. I was not dirty or anything because I was wearing my suit for my interview. What happened? It was just so awkward.

Also, I don't want to ask her what was wrong with her because it would just make things more awkward

2007-06-04 16:10:14 · 12 answers · asked by john23213 1 in Singles & Dating

kids can you relaTE YES NO THEN NO GO SO I HAVE A HO YO SO NO I LIED THOUGH JUST GO YO

2007-06-04 16:03:16 · 20 answers · asked by caughtdreaminshoot 2 in Marriage & Divorce