Unfortunately he found out that I've been fantasizing about somebody I know from online. I'm never going to meet him for real or anything, but now I feel guilty and like I cheated on him. He says he's not mad. Do you think that's true? How can he be ok with it?
2007-06-04 17:25:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is insane
2007-06-04 17:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well... u can get a clue by the way he acts. is he the same?? does he talk in an uncomfortable manner around u or is he the totally the same like he always was??
expression can really help u and also, u can ask. if hes the type to change the subject during something like this than don't ask directly and if he isn't then just say wht's on ur mind and if he says hes not mad/angry and have a convincing tone then u're good =)
and next time - hope there isn't- if u have some1 else on ur mind during a realtionship, be careful ur BF doesn't find out.
2007-06-05 00:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone fantasizes about being with someone else once in a while. If they tell you otherwise they are probably lying. I think your boyfriend probably understands this, and isn't mad because he knows you haven't done anything wrong.
2007-06-05 00:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by boogy415 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The situation may make you feel awkard now, but if he said he's not upset about it, then he probably isn't. If you are really worried or notice a change in his behavior, simply talk to him about it and ask him to share with you what he's feeling and if he's ever done the same thing. If you two can both maturely talk about it, it may do more good for your relationship to know those things than damage.
2007-06-05 00:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by bumblebb24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he says he's not mad and don't act like he's mad, then he is being truthful, he's not mad. He's probably ok with it since you told him that you don't plan on meeting with this man for real. Fantasy is just that, not real. Just be sure you keep it that way.
2007-06-05 00:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's mad....his ego is hurt but being a man he cannot WILL NOT allow you to know that. I think we all fantasize (oh God I hope my bf's not reading this) about other ppl at one time or another. You need to reinforce that he is the main source for your fantasies...then he'll be fine.
2007-06-05 00:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by ※※※NaMajdEnMegmondom※※※ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are talking to someone online that you will NEVER meet doesn't mean you're cheating on him! Although, I do think he's a little mad, but just not showing it...
2007-06-05 00:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by [♥daisy] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, I think that was being a bad girl and you know exactly why you feel guilty....sounds like you need a little spanking and loving correction and to apologize for it and I am sure he can forgive you..don't worry about wether he is mad or not, just do the right thing and apologize...I care about you and want the best for you hon :)
2007-06-05 00:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll go with the mature thing. Its like having a dream about someone and then telling your b/f should he get mad? Mind you there are also guys like me that would let my g/f do anything she wanted as long as she was happy. Maybe your guy is like that.
2007-06-05 00:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is mad but is keeping it to himself and that is DANGEROUS. I would rather have my girlfriend blow off steam than just be quiet and before you know it she will just stab you on the back without any notice. Talk to him, tell him it is bothering you and I guess you should stop these so called fantasy online boyfriends of yours.
2007-06-05 00:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he might be mature enough to realize that what you yourself said is true - you'll never meet that person and the fantasies are harmless. I think it's a good sign that he isn't upset about it.
2007-06-05 00:27:37 · answer #11 · answered by Moxie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋