My friend hooked up twice with a guy she's known for a week and the second they had dry sex, when he dropped her off at home he did not say he'll call her later or anything all he said was bye and gave her a kiss. He has not called since then, and she's worried. Should she wait for him to call back or should she call him?
2007-06-04 16:14:29 · 17 answers · asked by Nebel6 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This happened yesterday. The first time they went out he called the following day, and this time he has not called her yet.
2007-06-04 16:22:07 · update #1
If it's really bothering her that he hasn't called then I think she should call him!!
2007-06-04 16:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah... the immortal question...
If she calls him, then she is seen as being too "easy"...
If she waits around for him to call (which he probably won't until he's ready for another "date"), then she's a sucker for waiting that long (and going out with him again)...
Since he showed such little respect on the date (dry humping or not - he just left right after he was done) - is he really worthy of a third date? Is she ready to take things further (as they most likely will if she sees him again)...
2007-06-04 23:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dry sex what the hell????
He didn't like it evidentally or he just used her. Maybe if he gave her a little fore play she wouldn't have been dry, for God's sake you just cant' shove the thing in there, do it for 30 seconds then split. What an ***. Tell her never to call him, d ump him...loose him don't ever see him again, he's very selfish and immature, and doesn't know how to make love.
2007-06-04 23:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he got what he wanted
don't call him
let it be a lesson learned
aint nothing wrong with what you did
but now you know where it gets you
so next time go into it with the mind set that all you will get out of it is the thrill of... the moment
or hold of on dry humping or anything sexual if you want to get to know someone on a more serious level.
2007-06-04 23:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by redseagoddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a little bit of time. Usually the dude is suppose to call
Plus (in all serious-ness), this might be a stand. Which means he was in it for the sex.
Dont let your friend go into depression. If this "relationship" doesnt work help her to move on in life.
2007-06-04 23:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by PhizZingFree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. She should move on. You already said it. They hooked up. That's all it was. She knew him for a week. You know how guys like that are. He's not interested in her as a person or a relationship.
2007-06-04 23:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Raine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should really call him and ask what's up... and if he blows her off then he is not worth her time... she could try to tell him how she feels about what he is doing... but he won't care and she will then need to end it with him
2007-06-04 23:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by Coca-cola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, chances of him using her as a one-night stand are 99%Chances of him being in a predicament and this all being a misunderstanding are 1%
2007-06-04 23:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mechiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used her.
2007-06-04 23:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Cheech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is done with her. She should only call if she wants some action.
2007-06-04 23:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋