Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

They lack confidents............ & feel " Oh, my god she didn't look like the GAL I saw the other day"

2007-06-04 13:51:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 1 year, and lived together since day 1 of our relationship. I know he wants children because we have talked about it a little in the past, but now every time I bring up the idea of starting a family he shuts down and changes the subject. I understand this is a big deal, but if he is not ready just yet that is all I need to hear, not silence, a joke, or a different subject. Any ideas on how to bring it up with scaring him away?

2007-06-04 13:50:13 · 10 answers · asked by mjb8099 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love them both and want them to be happy but my sister in law is taking it so hard. My brother istigated the divorce and no there is not another woman he just isn't happy. How can I be loyal to him and still be there for her. I told him that I have no intention of not having the same relationship with her I always have. He did not respond negatively or positively. Anyone else in or been in a similar situation?

2007-06-04 13:47:49 · 13 answers · asked by Only hell mama ever raised 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 8 and a half years has cheated on my 4 times and yet, I still love him with all my heart. He wants to work it out...do I stay or do I go?...it's not just us, we have 2 daughters as well. I don't want to stay just for the kids, but I was raised to forgive, forget, and move on. HELP!

2007-06-04 13:47:00 · 15 answers · asked by if you were important, you would know it 1 in Marriage & Divorce

eyes, lips ,smile ,legs does that mean your ugly because if you were pretty wouldnt they just say it?

2007-06-04 13:46:14 · 16 answers · asked by hcj25 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it really against the law to date a guy who's 14 but you're 18? I'm really confused about this cuz I really like someone who's 14 but ya....plz help me!!! lol.

2007-06-04 13:45:50 · 18 answers · asked by jesuschick007 1 in Singles & Dating

I forgot all about it while putting dishes away and I dumped food on top of it and you know the rest . He went and bought Patron so we can do shots and I don't know what to do . He was particuarlly proud of the shot glass b/c he got it on a very lucrative business trip where he made a huge business sale . We have a 19 mos old son who gets into everything . Is this a scape goat or should I fess up?

2007-06-04 13:35:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-04 13:32:38 · 5 answers · asked by gatauvela 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so my husband lost his job, we are living with his mom, trying to stretch the money we have until he can find work. im sick of our money going down the drain. trying to find ways to cut back on expenses. cleaning ideas, food ideas, anything will be appreciated

2007-06-04 13:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by lydia manning 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am currently married. my husband asked me if we should have an open relationship, which means we can have sex with other people but tell one another when it happens... Should we do this?

2007-06-04 13:29:14 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A family (or squad...) of muslims just moved into next door to my family. Should I call the police now or should I wait until they cause a disturbance? I don't want 'Ali Baba' over there fiddling around with my daughter, Sally, or blowing himself up on my lawn.

2007-06-04 13:28:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive moved to a new area and don't know anybody. I want to make some friend's and would like to get to know some guy's as well. Where would be a good place to meet guys besides the bar's?

2007-06-04 13:27:07 · 28 answers · asked by angelbaby063031 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is true that if a young woman (lets say between 21 and 25) is dating a much older man (between 50 and 60) that it is because the woman had no father figure and is trying to compensate or find a father figure? Do relationships like this ever work out?

2007-06-04 13:25:51 · 8 answers · asked by L Bosh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My divorce will be final in 15 days. My soon to be ex-husband left me for another woman with two kids. Since I moved out she has spent the night every weekend he does not have our 2 kids. Our divorce decree states that he can't have a member of the opposite sex spend the night when our kids are there and that he can't drink when our kids are there with him. This past weekend was his turn to have the kids and he called me one night and said that his girlfriend was going to have to spend the night because her car was tore up and he was too drunk to take her home. I found out from my children that they slept in the same bed together that night. I would like to do something about this, but I am not financially able to put out any more money on the divorce than I already have. If I tell the judge when I go for my court date, do you think he would do anything about this? Does anyone have any advice on this?

2007-06-04 13:23:35 · 10 answers · asked by compassionatejen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-06-04 13:23:27 · 26 answers · asked by Thomas P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He has a history of cheating also. My children are 4,3,1,and 1 month old. I guess my biggest fear is for them seeing this and my girls growing up thinking this behavior is ok. He has almost became very violent. I know once I leave him my life will be better, but I'm afraid of going throught the hurt of not having him with us. Or I think the hurt is more so of a failed marriage. Please tell me what you think I should do., I have been verbally abused so bad that I really can't think clearly!

2007-06-04 13:19:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you were beeing kept from your true love because you're being loyal to a friend who love him/her as well

2007-06-04 13:19:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-04 13:19:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-04 13:17:14 · 5 answers · asked by Aubrie F 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 13:10:50 · 1 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1 in Singles & Dating

don't worry i'm not depressed or emo.

i have a splinter thing stuck kinda deep into my finger. it's actually the back of my middle finger (weird place i know). i wanna remove it, so i have to cut into the skin a little bit. (i dont want to go to the doc for this).

how should i do it? rubbing alcohol and ice?

thanks!

2007-06-04 13:05:35 · 16 answers · asked by Ning 3 in Singles & Dating

which girl would u rather date?

Girl #1
1.Dirty blonde
2.Smart but not as smart as Girl #2
3.Shops mostly @ hollister
4.Capricorn
5.Most everybody likes her
6.Blue Eyes
7.Outgoing pretty much will try anything

Girl #2
1. Blondie-Brownish
2.Good @ soccer
3.Brown eyes
4.Presedent of our grade
5.Loves Paris H.
6.Can be the nicest person or the meanest
7.Resonable

2007-06-04 13:05:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 13:04:37 · 4 answers · asked by Haiku 1 in Family

What the most expensive thing you have taken back to a shop to get your money back beacuse you din't want it. Do they give you your money back?

2007-06-04 13:03:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm thinking about dating a older guy, but he only like me because I'm 13 year younger than he is. He told me the youngest girl he ever dated was only 19, but he is 36. He said that older women are set in their ways. I know I shouldn't date him because one day I will be old and he may not want me.

2007-06-04 13:00:16 · 22 answers · asked by tina j 1 in Singles & Dating

is a thong a turn on for a guy?
but what if it was your guy friend and you like him..would he like that? some friend thinks he likes me too but like yea..is it a turn on for them

2007-06-04 12:58:28 · 17 answers · asked by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom said that I would be able to go to Kansas City to go to a Weird Al Yankovic concert. And then she said the next day that I couldnt becasue it was too dangerous there! What should I do? I've always wanted to go to a Weird Al concert! What can I do to convince her that I should be able to go?

2007-06-04 12:52:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i feel bad for my father in law because he is 70 years old and i just had a baby, i'm sure sure he feels sad sometimes. do you think so?

2007-06-04 12:45:56 · 9 answers · asked by wydodido 1 in Family

My hubby what i did?Okay my husband and i got married a month and half ago after 4 yrs of dating on and off.I was very unsure about whole thing because while i love my husband but i am not in love with him the way i should be.He's an attractive guy but i am not sextually attracted to him?I felt like i had finally landed the nice guy and this was the natural progression of things.I freaked out the day of my wedding i called an ex.bf from highschool still friends to talk.I felt like my life was flashing before my eyes and i had sex with him.I am pregnant now since my husband and i always use condoms its likley not his.I feel horrible and sick about it.Consirdering just moving out i dont want to hurt him leaving a note?

2007-06-04 12:44:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would you stay with a girl and say you love her and all if you didn't?

i feel like my boyfriend is doing that but then again he doesn't do anything wrong it's just in my heart! i feel like we are about to break up,it's such a clear feeling and is killing me like sixth sense or something i don't want to ask him either because it's kinda risky... it seems obvius that he isn't happy i think he's having doubts...

anyway would you stay with a girl and tell her things are ok and you love her if you didn't? (we don't have sex either since i'm a 20 year old vergin by choice lol) please help

how can i reasure him how can i help him be happy again? we don't fight or have ANY problem that's why i'm so clueless of what to do? :(

2007-06-04 12:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating