i am currently married. my husband asked me if we should have an open relationship, which means we can have sex with other people but tell one another when it happens... Should we do this?
2007-06-04 13:29:14 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if you want your marriage to end. Otherwise say NO WAY. But even if you say no, I have a feeling, he will be "open" on the side and not tell you.
2007-06-04 15:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it depends on what type of relationship you want. If you feel comfort of your husband engaging in sex with another woman, then more power to you. My person thought is not get married. This way when the jealous begins, when someone gets pregnant, you are not tie to each other by papers since morals don't play a role.
God Bless
2007-06-04 20:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR HUSBAND IS ASKING FOR YOUR PERMISSION TO CHEAT ON YOU! The only thing that should be OPEN in your relationship is the DOOR!
It's sad to write, but a man who is in love with his wife, could never want some other people to have sex with her. He also would not be thinking of having sex with some slut either.
You are married to the wrong man, so don't stoop to his level. He should pay for even asking you a question like that, never mind doing it!
He is only trying to cheat on you and play you for a fool. Amazing that this so-called husband would like his wife to be used by people with no morals and no values.
I hope you two don't have children.
2007-06-04 21:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you want to see the end of your marriage. If your husband is into swinging, I will guarantee you that you will be divorced before long. A marriage is between two people who are committed to their life together and the upbringing of their children. If you are not wanting to commit, get a divorce and see who you want. But do not bring children into this kind of lifestyle.
2007-06-04 20:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is half way out the door. He wants to have a license to fool around.
There is no absolute answer. Just probability of marriage survival and failure.
2007-06-04 20:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will be crazy if you do. If your marriage is bad this will make it worse. Why did he ask you that is there something wrong with having sex with only you.
2007-06-05 04:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by MZ. Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bringing in a third person into monogamy is just a sponsored cheat in my eyes.
2007-06-04 21:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it actually works for some people...but I think you have to be 100% sure. If you are asking if you should do it, I don't think you are 100% sure.
Just my opinion...
2007-06-04 20:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by wildlifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are ready to destroy your marriage. Your husband seems ready. Are you?
2007-06-04 20:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by Moondog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it then come over to my house. you can tell him all about it in a few days when you go home. then see if he wants to take it farther. good luck sweetie
2007-06-04 20:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by doug h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋