Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

would you want to have another mom and dad? can you imagine your life with another set of parents?

2007-06-04 10:08:32 · 5 answers · asked by claire-voyance 2 in Family

Im married now for 10 years. i rencently well not recently but started messing around with this girl i met. she is also married..for 9 years..i guess we were both unhappy but have kids and homes. our issue is that we cant stop seeing each other. we try to break it off but one of us keeps calling back and miss each other. then we hook up and back to being an affair. its been a year now. its hard and im stressing. we both say we want to leave and be with each other but no one will leave the house first. i am willing but i dont think she is. so i stay and find myself wanting her more than i do my wife. i think about her all the time and she does me. she calls and we meet up at the store or i go over when her husband is at work. we talk about kids life love famiy. what do i do. its stressful now i dont konw what to do. im lost. even now i want to see her. they say if you love something let it go. if it comes back it yours. well we did that 3 times and she still is here? is she mine or not?

2007-06-04 10:07:41 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering...

You know... not when your going out

You know when they say 'chat, flirt with other guys to make him/her jealous'

Does that work or just make them angry???

Lol, stupid question I know, I was just wondering...

Thanks in advance!

2007-06-04 10:05:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were separated for 1 month and I ended up sleeping with a mutual friend of ours a few days before getting back together with my husband. Its now been a month and I think I am pregnant. I know if I tell my husband about this we will end up divorced if the kid is his or not....I love my husband and don't want to lose him and I don't believe in abortions either. Any advise would be helpful.

2007-06-04 10:03:07 · 15 answers · asked by Just me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, i get the feeling he might like me because i was over his house to study with a friend of his because he asked out of nowhere.And he seemed shy and nervous the whole while i was there. but there are these small things he does that makes me think he doesn't like me. for instance, he does't talk with me in a group when i am around. he avoids eye contact sometimes, but then others will look and stare. And another thing, today when i was at lunch i sat in his seat for a second to talk with his friends who are good friends of mine. when he came and saw me, he kinda didn't say anythign and sat down where there was an empty seat at the same table and ate quietly and then left. which he normally doesn't do. like he just went to do his hw sitting in a hallway. like what is witht that. like he was staring at me while i was talking and helping my firend at the table but he just left. id on't get guys?? does he like me or is it me?

2007-06-04 09:59:56 · 7 answers · asked by aleandria 1 in Singles & Dating

I am planning an April wedding. My maid of honor listed three dates that month, two of which were Sundays (the day of the week we planned to marry) that she requested I not choose as the date. Those dates are her little young relatives birthdays. She doesn't want to miss their birthdays by being in my wedding. I told her that I would do what I could, but there's a good chance the wedding might fall on one of the dates she didn't want me to use. My feeling is that I will only get married once, where as her relatives will have birthdays every year, and therefore she shouldn't get all bent out of shape if she has to miss a party. The only problem is that a few other members of her family are invited, and I'm afraid that they may feel obligated to choose the child's party over attendance. How much say should the wedding party really have? I can justify some objections they might have, but its OUR big day, and we have to do it when it works for us, the venue, the caterers, etc.

2007-06-04 09:59:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i like him a lot, and i wasn't drunk we were on a club, but he told me he liked me when he was drunk, he is my friend, and now he has been really shy with me since then, and now we barely talk, when talk and he said that he was confused and needed to solve some problems, but does he likes me i mean he kissed me and all that.

2007-06-04 09:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 09:50:34 · 23 answers · asked by Duckie 1 in Friends

2007-06-04 09:50:12 · 5 answers · asked by Addie [♦] 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious. I personally don't believe all the soulmate/spiritual affinity terminology, however I know several people who do. How many of you left a marriage after many years because you thought you found someone else who was your soulmate, only to realize later that this other person was not really your soulmate?

2007-06-04 09:49:58 · 8 answers · asked by Scott O 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The thought of a big white wedding has never appealed to me. It seems that a lot of people around me who have been together for years, get married and split within months? I just want a registry office and small "gathering" afterwards. I also don't want to tell my partner until it is organized- the only reason for this is because I don't want him to have to worry about anything, we have been engaged for a couple of yrs and have discussed it, but decided not to bother simply because we couldnt be bothered. It was my son who has made me think recently as he is 3 and doesnt understand why I have a different name to him. Does anyone have any ideas on a low budget wedding and can I arrange it without him knowing? Thanks. Im in the uk by the way xx

2007-06-04 09:37:11 · 14 answers · asked by Banny Grasher 4 in Weddings

I am wondering what to give my best man and groomsmen as gifts for the wedding? I am aware of the common ideas, flasks, cufflinks, glassware etc. but I would like some unique ideas if anyone has any? I do not want to spend a ton of money as the weddding and wedding budget is smaller. Thanks

2007-06-04 09:34:48 · 11 answers · asked by Steve K 2 in Weddings

the situation is: when a girl has high expectation like she expects a lot from her bf, not money or sex but like these little stuff that may not count.. how can I get rid of my high expectations?
and guys what would u do if ur girl expects such things from you?

2007-06-04 09:32:50 · 11 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

and does the hurting ever stop for your loved one? My baby sis passed away on May 20 and had just turned 19 on May 12... I feel as if I'll never be ok... She was absolutely gorgeous and an artist...

2007-06-04 09:27:14 · 6 answers · asked by bspitz89 3 in Family

2007-06-04 09:24:35 · 30 answers · asked by Ally 5 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so i sent my bro a fwd thing and i sent it to everyone in my contacts by pressing check all, so he got mad at me bc of who i sent it to! i have a pastor in my contacts, from my camp, and i sent it to him!! it was about crushing and stuff. so he got mad at me and i was upset and my lil sis hit me w/ a hand buzzer and my other lil sis kept on waying "poor pastor don, poor pastor don" as if i didnt feel bad enough already!! so i hit my other lil sis w/ the hand buzzer back and he started crying and crying!!my bro was mad at me!! all i did was hit her back!! and it dosent even hurt!!!! so then she comes and apoliges 2 me and records what i say!!! they dont know when to stop!!
so im never talking to them again!! help??!?!?!

2007-06-04 09:23:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or same question to courting couples, are you a good catch.

2007-06-04 09:22:10 · 25 answers · asked by denis9705 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i started hanging out with this girl whos a couple years younger with me shes a junior in high school. i went over to her house and she seems a little to close with her dad she walks around the house in just a bra and underwear and i've seen her dad pat her on the butt and hes always staring at her!! its just them in the house (her mom died and she has no siblings) they whisper and she sits on his lap and it seems like shes trys to act sexy around him. they act like there lovers !! am i imagining things? what should i do?

2007-06-04 09:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by amy_777 1 in Family

my daughter wants to go on holiday with her cousin this summer on their own to spain..they are both 17 but i cant help worrying about them..should i let them go?is it safe??what do you think

2007-06-04 09:16:22 · 34 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Family

I've been with my current b/f on and off for several years and he has finally decided to settle down. It's all I ever wanted from him, but a few weeks ago I met, what seems like, the perfect man. I can't put my finger on what makes me like him so much, but it feels like our souls are connected somehow.
Should I give up a life time with someone I've wanted forever for someone I just met?

2007-06-04 09:14:38 · 72 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This pic is of my dad and I. Do you think he would like this pic enlarged and as a gift for fathers day?

http://s80.photobucket.com/albums/j185/goldiesgal/?action=view¤t=melanddad-1.jpg

2007-06-04 09:13:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I married my husband BECAUSE he wasn't affectionate or demonstrative, and had a low sex drive. We were a perfect match. We both were really into our careers at the time. He used to spend 2 weekends a month camping with his friends and I was fine with that. Sometimes we traveled together. When it came time to have kids, we both agreed on when and how many. I thought things were fine.

Now, many years later, he has changed into a person that wants lots of sex and affection. The problem is I haven't changed, I'm still the same. He seems to think our incompatibility is my fault because he is now more "normal" than I am. He tells me my number one priority s/b to make him happy, but if I fake it or have to drink a little first to try to accomodate him he gets mad! He doesn't understand I can't just change because he wants me to, he acts like I'm doing this on purpose! How could I have prevented this, and how is this my fault? Should I just tell him to find someone else?

2007-06-04 09:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by Ronnie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend from college recently called me out of the blue. After we graduated he just basically started blowing me off. I saw him last 16 years ago. He moved out of state and we lost touch. I tried finding him off and on through the years but to no avail. He recently found me very easily which made me wonder why he waited so long to make contact.

I learned in his initial phone call that he is currently unemployed and is going to be in my area visiting his brother. I figured out from his email address that he is involved in a pyramid scheme and I believe that he is going to try to recruit me. I believe that the only reason he contacted me is for this purpose.

I'm supposed to meet up with him tonight but don't want to. I'm uninterested in his "opportunity" and don't want to drive 40 miles to hear a sales pitch. I'm peeved that he contacted me under the guise of friendship to make money from me.

If you were in my place, how would you get out of it? Or would you go?

2007-06-04 09:09:21 · 7 answers · asked by c_crum 4 in Friends

I am 16, im not on drugs 24/7, im not pregnant and i dont have any kids, i make all A's im about to skip my last 2 years of high school and go to college early, i cook dinner, help clean, and i helped her take care of my uncle when his leg got cut off but my brother is never home, always on drugs, failing grades, and is always in trouble at school and is rude to my mom all the time ( and i take up for her when he does) . now, i am always getting yelled at, never get to go anywhere if i ask, and when i need or want new clothes, i dont get them, but my brother always gets to go places, and gets new clothes. i dont ask her for much cuz i kno she doesnt have much to give money wise. and every now and then, i do ask and she wont give. and when she yells at me for no reason, when i try to tell her how i feel about all this and explain to her about wat im going through she tells me i am ungrateful and bratty and selfish, wat is up with this?? is this normal?

2007-06-04 09:06:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

first off, my parents are divorced.

second, my mom and her husband are going in to visit in July. i will be 15 weeks pregnant. because she was unable to attend any of my wedding showers she wants her side of the family to have a baby shower for me while she is here.

i have issues with this 1) i will only be 15 weeks. that is freaking crazy and insane. i have already tried to stop this from happening but my family is stubborn and will not listen to my concerens.

the bigger issue 2) my other baby showers provided by my stepmothers side/dad side and in-laws will be in oct. or nov. i feel it is completely unfair to them.

i have to already register for my july baby shower. in doing so basically my mom did it so she could have first pick at what she wanted to get me (i.e. the good stuff and big ticket items). now all that will be left for later is clothes because i wont know in july what i am having yet.

how do i solve this?

2007-06-04 09:05:59 · 5 answers · asked by areservistswife 2 in Family

he always flirts with me and i flirt back and i know he likes me but hes still going out with my whore of a best friend. i hate her right now. ive tried everything to break them up!! i even flashed him and he starting making out with me and then the next day he was like that meant nothing and lets just stay friends. im only 15 turning 16 but what can i do. he told her about making out and she was mad but them she forgave him. i really like him and i know he likes me but what can i do more then flshing. he keeps dropping hints to me that he likes me but the next day hes all over my best friend whore. how do i get him to dump that s.lut??? shes really mean to him sometimes

2007-06-04 09:05:02 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in the process of planning my wedding and due to budget restraints it will be for Adults only. The wedding is not until March but the word is being passed that it will be an adult only event. So people are getting offended by this, would you be too?

2007-06-04 09:02:23 · 47 answers · asked by dooley_1027 2 in Weddings

My friend bethany, we are bestfriends, and it seems to be harder and harder to be her friend. We get in fights just about monthly, and it's annoying. usually the fights start when she calls me out for doing something wrong. we get into a fight, until i decide to call her out on something that she constantly does wrong, and then she eigher yells and hangs up, walks away or signs off IM. She likes to get everyone on her side (though it doesn't always work). All of my best friends are her bestfriends. When she gets in a fight with me, they tend to side with her because she is very intimidating (she makes fun of people even though you can tell that is just is because she has aserious problem with her weight issues and stuff like that) . I am very worried and i am wondering how to end a friend ship with out ending all the other friendships that i have too. i am very sad and really need help ***please please***

2007-06-04 08:58:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

On my previous question, somenone answered, that the poor father doesn't get to see the kids, as much as the mom, and he is not a atm machine!

What difference does it make , regarding child support , how much time the father spends with the kids? They still need a roof over their head, and food on the table, and clothes on their back! My ex made a choice not to see his children much! So he shouldnt have to pay? That deosn't make and sense!

What's your opinion?

2007-06-04 08:57:15 · 21 answers · asked by Sunday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I tell my boyfriend that if he smokes weed again then I am breaking it off with him?

2007-06-04 08:55:34 · 23 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating