2007-06-04 09:24:35 · 30 answers · asked by Ally 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would definitely go for the ugly man - but are there any guys out there who would pick the ugly woman, or are their egos too big?
2007-06-04 09:30:14 · update #1
definitely the former...who cares how good you look if you treat people like crap?
2007-06-04 09:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by juda75 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what you see as "ugly". Now if you mean a man that not all women are falling over because he's not handsome in the face, for whatever reason, okay I could see that. But if he's smelly, has missing or dirty teeth, very over weight or very underweight, he's goofy or kind of slow, then NO, I don't care how nice he was to me, I would not date or marry him. Because if I wanted a companion for loyalty I can get a dog - and a girl has to look at her man sometimes. Now, if you mean a man like my husband, who's absolutely cute and sexy to me (see my 360 page), he's 6' 4", 300 solid pounds, has huge hands and a very nice body (solid back and legs, my God), AND he's good to me, then YES, I would pick him. However I'm aware that most women would pass him over because he's not super fine - but he's perfect for me. I love big men (big not fat) and the blacker the better. We both know people look at us and think "what does she see in him" and he knows guys say "man how'd he get her" but we love that!
2007-06-04 09:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have ugly and good to me. I've had good looking and mean...and it's not that great. So what if he's a model? If he's a jerk, he's not worth the time of day.
By the way...ugly people have to be nice, otherwise no one would talk to them.
2007-06-04 12:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A partner who is ugly on the outside is beautiful on the inside therefore that is why a person is treated good.
When you love someone, it doesn't matter what they look like as long as they treat you the same way you treat them.
2007-06-04 09:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats abit tricky. I suppose if you loved him then it wouldnt matter if he was ugly cos beauty is only skin deep but for a night of un-adultered passion then us chicks need a sexy bloke. However, if i had to choose then i would go with the faithful guy. I have done the really good looking guys and they are usual so full of themselves that you cant really trust them or trust women around them. Mr average is my ideal
2007-06-04 09:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was good looking but a real ba#tard!! i thought that there was no such thing as a good looking guy that would treat me like a princess until i met the man im with now. Hes gorgeous and the man of my dreams!! i feel very lucky to have him x
2007-06-04 10:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not usually attracted to people who "mess me about" - no matter how conventionally handsome they are. On the other hand, if I perceived someone as unattractive, I could not possibly live with him, no matter how good he was to me. And if I loved the person enough to live with him, he would not seem "ugly" to me - beauty is only skin-deep. So no matter how you look at it, the answer for me is "neither".
2007-06-04 09:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a beautifully man inside and does everything for me, been there w/ the latter THAT was ugly Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2007-06-04 09:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by TaGIT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys' egos are too big.
My last boyfriend told me I wasn't really his type and I tried to be really good to him to make up for it and we spent three painful years with me trying to get him to want me. I had to finally admit that it was TOO MUCH WORK.
Bottom line is a man has to want you, or it will make you miserable-so if a guy thinks a girl is ugly, that girl has to find a guy who is blind or like how she looks! :)
2007-06-04 10:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by ladygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who is going to treat me well. If he is ugly then so be it. Looks fade and are highly subjectable, as what one person thinks of as good looking might not be to another
2007-06-04 09:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by syns_pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't care what the person looks like i have always gone for personality but your question i do understand as i have been on both side of the fence, i would much rather be with the person who is good to me because goodness and beauty comes from inside and lasts longer unlike beauty that you can see and withers very quickly. go where your heart tells you to go..
2007-06-04 09:30:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋