Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

Okay i was in a relationship for 2 years with a girl and now we are not together anymore but the girl was pregnant when i met her and now her son is 2 years old and he calls me daddy and knows only me as his dad. And my ex even tells him im his dad (when im really not). Me and my ex still talk and see each other and we even still get mad at each other. But now she is in a new relationship with a guy and it hurts me a little bit knowing that i still love her. And in order for me to get over her completely i wanted to lose all contact with her, but whenever i think about the child i feel bad. We both said to each other that we will always love each other. I have been with different girls but my heart is still with her. And just this past weekend i told her im not watching the child anymore and i told my ex to loss my phone number. And then i tried to call her the other day but she wont answer her phone to my call. What should i do?

2007-06-04 01:37:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you took them back, what happened in the meantime? Do you just move on and just see if they'll come back someday?

2007-06-04 01:35:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wonderin. dont give me an sicastic answer.plz!!!!

2007-06-04 01:35:11 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Sexy 4 in Singles & Dating

Hiya,
how do you all get on with your inlaws?
is it a case of the dreaded mother inlaw, or are you quite close to your inlaws?

i have 2 mother inlaws (hubbys parents split then married again) and hubbies real mum is a nightmare, she asks what i have been cooking for her son, and says i need to make more of an effort on my apperance etc, i am a smart casual dressed person, but she dresses to impress all the time (but she has not got 2 babies to care for, and i have seen pics of her when she was younger and had her babies, she was worse dressed than me). Also when i was pregnant with both my girls, and if i was offered alcohol she would answer for me 'no she IS NOT having any', so needless to say i have had a few explosive arguments with her lol, but my other mother inlaw is easier to get on with, but i wouldnt trust her as far as i could through her lol.
so are you close to your inlaws, or is more a case of, tolleration for your partners sake?.

xxx

2007-06-04 01:34:49 · 12 answers · asked by lovelifelivelife 2 in Family

my x bf *since 2005* has had his 2 close friend call me out of the blue with bizarre reasoning. He has been keeping his tabs on me since late last year. One was Ohh i need help with my business. the other one was "Hey. are you stil in touch with your x boss from 4 years ago?" Is my x bored out of his mind or trying to get back with me just doenst know how to come out out of his shell? btw he is 33 years old and YES, this does look like high school behavior. and Yes, we split on very bad terms, we are okay now talking at least. Any suggestions? Thanks!

2007-06-04 01:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by megaherzfan 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for almost 4 years and my husband is not as sexual as I am - never has been since the beginning. I am starting to wonder if he has ¨problems¨ he says he loves me but I overhelm him because I always want to be intimate. We are both in our early 30s without children. Is it normal to have sex once or twice a week max including weekends?? What shoudl I do?

Thanks for your advice.

2007-06-04 01:30:22 · 28 answers · asked by Moraima H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-04 01:30:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom throws away gifts that my siblings and I give her. No matter what it is, she doesn't keep any of them. One time she wanted an outfit and I bought it for her. Paid good money for it too and she gave me a bag of clothes a few months later and that outfit was in there. Some of my siblings have spent hours and hours making her homemade gifts and she throws them away. I bought her a necklace and the other day I mentioned it to her. She played dumb and pretended she didn't know what necklace I was talking about and the minute she said that I knew she had gotten rid of it. We give her these gifts from our hearts and I would never think to throw away anything my children give me. I decided no more gifts for my mother, it's a waste of my money and time. Why would a mother do this?

2007-06-04 01:27:52 · 18 answers · asked by sick_of_it_all 1 in Family

I have a very stressfull job working with young offenders and this can lead to long hours and weekend work. My wife and I have been fighting for about 2 years and its getting to me, I'm almost at the point of leaving, but can't seem to bring myself to do it. The issues do run deeper, lack of sex, lack of communication.

I have tried to talk to her and seek help together but she wants none of it even though she knows we are in trouble, she would prefer to sit on the couch and do nothing. I keep suggesting things to do and places to go to occupy us, but all she can say is whatever, I'm not bothered or its up to you. Yet when I ask whats wrong, I get nothing but silence and no reason behaind why she is so moody. She goe's in moods for days on end for no reason at all. I have lost friends through this and my own brother wont come round because of the atmosphere.

I don't wnat to leave as it breaks my heart, but I can't go on like this anymore. Help

2007-06-04 01:27:23 · 38 answers · asked by Chaney69 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just asked a question about if my fiancee is cheating on me and even if he isnt you all have made a good point.HE IS ALREADY doing so much to hurt me so I should let him go.But how do you let go of your first,your high school sweet heart,someone you have spent 5 years of your life with,and the father of your child?I know I need to but I am not sure how too.Thanks

2007-06-04 01:23:10 · 15 answers · asked by mama_mandy05 2 in Singles & Dating

I am having trouble finding a bridal party song. At first I was going to use "All my Rowdy Friends" by Hank Willams Jr. But After a while I decided that I really didn't care for it. Currently I have Let's Get Married by Jagged Edge, but I started thinking about all the children in my bridal party and I think that it wouldn't be a good song for kids to dance to (rhythm wise) so any ideas? something unique? I wanted something upbeat but I think it would be better to do something slow for the little ones. Thanks in advance!!

2007-06-04 01:18:57 · 11 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Weddings

I am 14yrs...I decided I wanted to track my family tree... Have you tracked your family tree? Do you want to track your family tree? do you have any tips/advice for me and others?

2007-06-04 01:17:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The problem is: my parents have to sell the apartment we are living in. But I have lived here for the past 17 years (meaning the majority of my childhood). the reason why we have to move is that they (my parents) have to pay a debt before it is too big. I don't like the fact that we have to move, but... I just hate the idea of having to part with this area. close to everywhere i need to go, reasonably priced. plain and simple, a dream.
I DON'T WANNA MOVE! but yet: How can I make it easier?

2007-06-04 01:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by toma_calin86 4 in Family

In whatever. love, game, life in general.... ?

2007-06-04 01:11:42 · 17 answers · asked by freebird31wizard 6 in Singles & Dating

how far , how much ........

2007-06-04 01:11:29 · 12 answers · asked by SHIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

a) be in love with your partner

b) respect your partner

2007-06-04 01:10:46 · 27 answers · asked by tuthutop 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-04 01:09:00 · 7 answers · asked by ready j 1 in Singles & Dating

i just got married and my husband and i are both in the millitary. right now were at two different duty stations. but my time to get out is in two years i cant be moved to his duty station enless i reenlist. which is something that i dont want to do at all. my husband is staying in the millitary and getting orders to go to japan. i can go with him once im a civilian but what kind of jobs can i do? i dont want to get out the army and be some army housewife with nothing to do but have children. and in another country where theres barely any english. i dont know. i just dont want to feel like im depending on my husband once i get out the millitary. but since hes staying in and im not i have to move to where ever he gets stationed at. and thats hard to find jobs constently. so what do i do? if i reenlist to go to japan with him then i'll owe the army more years of my life and anything can happen to our future then.

2007-06-04 01:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by ms.me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And why

2007-06-04 01:06:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not sure but I think my fiancee is cheating on me.He never calls anymore,lies to me all the time,and never shows up when he is suppost too.I recently found out that he has been hanging out with a few girls down at his friends house but didnt want to tell me.Lied about where he was and who was with him.The girl seems to kinda like him.I met her and all she did was talk to my fiancee and hit on him in front of me. Am I just jealous or could there be something going on? He hasnt acted like this since we were kids.
Thanks

2007-06-04 01:04:46 · 31 answers · asked by mama_mandy05 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm sorry if this is a sensitive subject. My fiance and I have never bought jewelry before (other than the engagement ring). We want to get 2-tone rings with no diamonds. We have no idea what an average ring costs. We are just beginning to search and don't really know anything about rings.

2007-06-04 01:01:38 · 18 answers · asked by muchadoaboutnothing 3 in Weddings

i am the same whos age is 18 and said i am in love with a boy who is a muslim. now i am ready to forget that boy and want to concentrate on making my carrer.but my parents are not allowing me to live far and study.i am from Ajmer(Rajasthan) and want too study in delhi but my parents are not allowing me. what should i do?i have told them all the benefits and the drawbacks of the course which i want to do but they do not want to leave me alone?

2007-06-04 00:55:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We met online and talked/wrote for nearly a year before meeting. Since then, we've lived together just over a year.

We've talked about the big stuff: kids, religion, fiances, sex and where to live.

While online, we also talked a lot about where and how we grew up and how that affected us, what bugs us and what we want out of general in life.

When we fight, we've talked about it and we're not having the same old fights all the time.

However, living together and being married might be different and it's sometimes the little things that can lead to conflict more so than the big things.

What do you wish you talked to your partner about before you married? What do you wish you new about your husband or wife before you tied the knot?

Did marriage change things and how? What do you wish you said or did differently?

What do you believe makes your marriage strong and work?

Any advice, thoughts, opinions, suggestions and/or websites would be appreciated. Thank you.

2007-06-04 00:52:59 · 21 answers · asked by Fat Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend had broken up but are trying to work it out . Now there is this girl who he says is his friend but I know what she is doing.How do I get her to back off with out makeing my BF mad that I did not trust him with a friend that happens to be a girl?

2007-06-04 00:51:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have only about 45 days to my date of marriage. Would be great if you can give me a solution to get this at the earliest. Thanks!!

2007-06-04 00:44:09 · 3 answers · asked by VPJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex wife wants to take my children out of state to move. They are my life, I don't know what I will do without them in my life. Its hard enough not seeing them everyday, now not seeing them for months.

We have joint custody.. Can she do this to me?

I haven't talk to an attorney yet.. I'm so broke right now.

Florida is the state...

2007-06-04 00:40:05 · 10 answers · asked by Vindicatedfather 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I love my husband dearly but I can't keep up wih him! Most night's he constantly wants sex and I'm just too tierd since running around all day after Harrison. I am pregnant and my husband thinks its in his best wishes to always be cuddling me and kissing me. I love it some days but then other's I find it totally annoying. I am pregnant and I need to relax, I am too exauhsted when we go to bed to 'snuggle'. Why does he suddenly have this constant need to be with me? And be very sexually and intamit with me?

2007-06-04 00:37:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-04 00:35:47 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Newly wed couple. husband overseas waiting for immigration. Like normal couples they have arguements on the phone over issues. Husband starts nude sexual webcam chatting, wants to meet those for fun/sex. Has job stability problems. Tells in chats he sleeps around.
He tells wife what he said in chat is fake, false, fantasy. nothing more. He did in frustration.
Divorce is filed, but he is asking to rethink.

Was it not ok to argue like normal couples? Did the wife cause him to stray? Would u reconsider and save the marriage?

2007-06-04 00:32:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How long did you date before you got married? How long in total have you known your significant other? Did you ever break up and then get back together? Any sweet stories on how you met? Or why you knew they were the one?

2007-06-04 00:27:53 · 31 answers · asked by muchadoaboutnothing 3 in Weddings