Okay i was in a relationship for 2 years with a girl and now we are not together anymore but the girl was pregnant when i met her and now her son is 2 years old and he calls me daddy and knows only me as his dad. And my ex even tells him im his dad (when im really not). Me and my ex still talk and see each other and we even still get mad at each other. But now she is in a new relationship with a guy and it hurts me a little bit knowing that i still love her. And in order for me to get over her completely i wanted to lose all contact with her, but whenever i think about the child i feel bad. We both said to each other that we will always love each other. I have been with different girls but my heart is still with her. And just this past weekend i told her im not watching the child anymore and i told my ex to loss my phone number. And then i tried to call her the other day but she wont answer her phone to my call. What should i do?
2007-06-04 01:37:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to see the child and still love this woman why are you not trying to get back together with her? If you want the child and want the woman go get it.
2007-06-04 01:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by Wicked Little Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see your son. You don't have anything to lose except your pride. Even if she won't take you back she will admire the fact that you still care. If it don't work out at least you will have made an effort to stay in the child's life. He may not be a natural son but apparently he left a place in your heart.
2007-06-04 08:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋