If you love some one and he beats you on a regular basis What would you do ????? How do make it stop???????

Answer 1

I hope this is hypothetical, but still I know first hand that when you're in love it's hard to just walk away. It may be hard to report him. It may seem unimaginable to try and fight back. But, ask yourself this-what makes his life more worthy than that of your own?! The abuse only gets worse when he isn't forced to stop because you're giving up your most powerful weapon-your power. You have to report it! You have to find a way out and stay out. Think more about your lively hood than his. There's no surefire way to make it stop, unless YOU'RE ready for it to end! Good luck. I hope this helps you in some way.

Answer 2

As a victim myself, I can honestly say that the ONLY way to make it stop, is to leave him. It dosn't matter how much you love him, and yeah, it's gonna hurt to do it. But I promise you that this is your only choice. I married my highschool sweethart, and the beatings started even before we got married. But I loved him so much that I would go through hell and back just to be with him. But this relationship was too toxic for either of us to be in. As hard as it was, I had to leave. And I am not going to lie; it's been almost 20 years since I left, and still think about him and miss him to this day. Now, at this point I need to tell you that since, I have been married to someone else and have four wonderful children. I am happier with the end result. I wouldn't have all that I have now had I stayed with him. I may not even be alive to enjoy such wonderful gifts ( my children).

Answer 3

i wonder if its you that hes beating cause i must say that ur nickname have a hidden face if your life is going wrong. What i will do in a situation like that u know what our girls are sucker for punishment they can beat us till were lying but we always go back but you know what its called selfrespect if u let him beat u the whole time you have no respect for u whatso ever there is much more in u as person that meets the eye and you can stand up for your rights leave him, go to a place where tahy can help get yourselvve on track can give you advise how to handle such a situation if my guy aver think of hitting me he will sit with his *** in jail and i would be so kind and go and feed that asshole some peanut cause im more worth it

Answer 4

Leave him. You know there are better people out there.

Please say these 10 things to yourself;

1. I can't change anyone, ever.
2. I am worth happiness.
3. I can date anyone I want, and it will be fun.
4. Abuse, is against the law (physical or verbal).
5. This is not normal or acceptable.
6. I can take control of my life.
7. I am not afraid of being alone.
8. I believe in myself.
9. I respect and love myself more than anyone else.
10. I deserve to be loved and treated better.

Answer 5

What the???? Come on if he beats you how the hell can you love him?? All he does is beat you up! You need to get out now! I've seen many women that have been beaten up by their partners and have stayed with them because the "love him" I know its hard but your life would be so much better without him! Leave now!

Answer 6

I don't believe you can make him stop this domestic violence. You need to leave him and ensure you have the support of friends, family and possibly a counselor to help you recover from this abusive relationship. The only way he will stop being violent toward you or to other future girlfriends is if he recognizes he has a problem and undertakes intensive therapy.

Answer 7

My dear, you may love him, but he has issues and may not know how to show love or even feel love...Therefore your love for him is making little impact on him and you have simply become his punch bag...

You need to escape this abusive relationship and confide in a friend or relative and ask for thier support and go somewhere where you are safe for the time being.

There are several numbers you can call for support for yourself and they will also offer councilling for him too if he is ready to face up to his problem.

Try:http://www.webzone.uk.com/dma/dom_display_home.jsp?pContentID=72&p_applic=CCC&p_service=Content.show&

Or call: 0800 027 1234 in the UK

or

1-800-799-SAFE (7233) National Domestic Violence help

Answer 8

Love is a many splendered thing but unless you both are into some sort of "Kinky stuff", beating is not part of the love equation. It's time to pack up your stuff and seek help to break away from this potentially life threatening situation

Answer 9

You LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. I really don't think a beating says "Honey, I love you", do you? The abuse will only get worse as time goes by. He might even beat you to death. It happens more then you think. Call the cops on this JERK so Bubba can play "house-house" with him when he's in jail. LEAVE and NEVER go back.

Answer 10

How could anyone in the right mind love a person who beats them?!? Either leave him or be ready to make a permanent exit to the cemetery. So many women die because of this, being afraid to be alone so they don't leave, and being afraid to put the jerk in jail so they don't report the abuse. Leave the guy or put him in jail. Good luck!