i am the same whos age is 18 and said i am in love with a boy who is a muslim. now i am ready to forget that boy and want to concentrate on making my carrer.but my parents are not allowing me to live far and study.i am from Ajmer(Rajasthan) and want too study in delhi but my parents are not allowing me. what should i do?i have told them all the benefits and the drawbacks of the course which i want to do but they do not want to leave me alone?
2007-06-04 00:55:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am assuring hem continously that i will never repeat it again in future then also they are not ready to listen me and study at my place is not well enough as i will not get a proper kind of job.i really want to study. wht should i do?
2007-06-04 01:12:05 · update #1
Your parents cannot stop you. You are 18. You convince them by stepping out as an adult and go to school and show them what you can do there.
2007-06-04 00:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well sometimes in the US kids experiance this same thing but over here when you turn 18 you can leave the house i think you should explain to your family that yo just simply cant be happy any other way . That you are thinking about your future and only want the best for yourself. Promise to contact them everyday and visit whenever you get the chance. Try to prove that your responsible by going on a short trip now and keep in contact while your gone .
2007-06-04 01:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by SHIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you have deeply offended your parents by your indiscretion.Even if you have changed your mind it would be mighty diffifult for the parents to believe you to leave you alone at Delhi. Please humour them along and come to Ajmer and get admitted to school.If you are really capabole ask your teachers to ask your parents to desist from wasting your talents at Ajmer.A year or so of good behaviour plus the teacher's persuasion may help you.Go slow about the matter.
2007-06-04 01:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sai Ram. I can understand your frustration but I can also understand the fear of your parents in the light of your earlier immature and problematic (in their view) behavior. They are naturally afraid that away from the parental discipline, you may again be carried away by the hormones and present day fads and ruin your life. Though you are legally a major, you are still financially dependent on them. My advice to you is to complete your graduation (atleast) at your place and then get a job before you try to lead your own life.
If you cannot convince them, better to follow their advice for now.
2007-06-04 01:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enlist the aid of some adult your parents respect that knows you and thinks your plan is good. Have him talk to them and perhaps something can be worked out with you staying with a mutual friend in Delhi. They are probably worried about you being there alone.
2007-06-04 01:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 18 you are an adult you can do whatever you want and your parents can't stop you. you should consider talking to them and then maybe you can compromise. If you are ready to forget that boy you should tell him in nice gentle way because someone can't force you to be in love. It's good that you've told them all the benifits of doing this and i truly think that you should do what you want and your parents shouldn't stop you!
2007-06-04 01:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for an exchange study - maybe to Australia/New Zealand - involve yor parents, they will realise your concentration on study and wil worry more if you leave India - good luck (study overseas is still a possibility you can research)
2007-06-04 01:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave home and live your own life as you want and think is best for you....if thats not possible then be prepared to live your life the way your parents want as that is the culture where you are from....unless you change it ...it will not change cause your parents were brought up the same way.
2007-06-04 01:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by coolred38 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them more about the program you want to go into and how you want to spend your life. Porve to them you are mature enough to move away.
2007-06-04 00:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by dawniebear22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after all they are your parents!!!!!
they will think of your good future!!!!!
plz tell them once more !!
otherwise you if you think that your future is more important that boy then concentrate on your career
i hope you understand that!!!!
2007-06-04 01:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anuj B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋