Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

Or to even feel a bit hostile towards the idea?

2007-06-04 08:07:27 · 20 answers · asked by Lane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Please give me an advice on how to dump this guy. I've been dating him for 13 months. his ex-wife and kids depend on him too much. I realize I am not ready for this. I want a man with no kids. (but later on, have one of our own). I am afraid I would have to pay for everything if we get married. so, help and do not be cruel please. I need something I can really use so I can get out of this but I don't want to offend him. thanks.

2007-06-04 08:07:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife thinks I am a liar. We are newly married. Even for small stuff
she thinks I am not telling thr truth. She sometimes accuses me that
I am lying. She says I have a habit of lying.

One example is ...she asked me if i know which door the neighbor uses..
backdoor or the front ..and i told her I did not know..and she
said I lied to her..and she says she wants to hear the truth..i told
her i do not know which dooor they use..and she said I lied that
I know..

well i am not sure why my wife is concerned with small stuffs. What should
I do so that I do not get pissed off..may be it will go over with time.
i do not want to loose my temper or start a fight over it ..trying to
prove that I did not lie...i clearly did not lie

any suggestions dealing with these kind of situations

Thanks

2007-06-04 08:06:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy that is a close friend. He says he likes me but doesnt want to go out. He wants to feel my boobs though. How do i tell him to stop asking but still have him like me?...don't say he isnt worth it b/c he is.

2007-06-04 08:06:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys think it is nasty if a girl drinks beer or do you think it shows her down to earth bad A** side that she doesn't care?

2007-06-04 08:05:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey Everyone!! So I have a situation. I have been seeing this girl for a little over three months. We have totaly been acting serious, but just arent together together yet. We are TOTALLY into each other, and rock when we are together. She has a pretty jaded past, let downs, disappointments, etc. and is very very scared to move forward with this. She says she totally wants too, but is just so scared. So I was like Ill let you go then, and she said please no just give me like a week to just clear my head. I was like fine. That was last Thursday, amd it totally sucks already!!! haha it really does! I totally like her alot! Anyway, is there anything I can do here? Can I text her or something, or better to just leave it alone?? What can I do!!! Im goin CRAZY!

P.S. I was thinking of sending her a text that said: "Just a heads up, this totally sucks! I miss you kid!"

wouldnt that be funny??? Haha

2007-06-04 08:01:24 · 24 answers · asked by Tim R 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were married for almost 30 years. We each have a tattoo with both our names on our arms. What do I do? Do I keep it because of the 30 years invested in the marriage? Do I cover up the names because we are no longer married? How will another man feel if I have my now ex-husband's name tattooed on my arm? What do I do?

2007-06-04 08:00:13 · 40 answers · asked by Sue W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he was a english teacher in korea, a car knocked him from his bike, my heart is broke, is there ever any light at the end of the tunnel ??

2007-06-04 07:59:06 · 42 answers · asked by PAUL D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

because I have basketball, and I think the toe broke when I put my foot into the shoe. Can you break a toe? I didn't think it was possible. My wife says I'm a moron.

2007-06-04 07:55:16 · 23 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My stupid sister is always doing retarded and mean things like eating all the good food then blaming it on my brother and me and calling us selfish little brats when she is buying everything in the mall. she is 1 1/2 years older than me and she has a short temper, and she doesn't isten to me when we are arguing. She is also a snitch.(but she doesn't think she is.She thinks we are.) I WANT REVENGE. I am sick and tired of her and I need revenge. I've put up with 8 years of her without ever getting revenge while she has been putting soap in my toothbrush, messing up my hair, and throwing me to the ground. I ABSOLUTELY MUST HAVE REVENGE!!!!! What should I do?

2007-06-04 07:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by Chocolate 1 in Family

he has a girlfriend, but he flirts with me constantly in school and he told me he likes me but he wont break-up with his girlfriend because he likes her too much..

WTF.
HOW DO I STEAL HIM AWAY FROM HER?


she is kinda nastyyy too.

2007-06-04 07:53:08 · 80 answers · asked by She Called Me A Trooper™ 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I am 15 years old and I live with my mom and my step dad. All my mom and I do is fight and she is always telling how everything is my fault and she should have never had me cause I was a mistake. Well its getting really really bad and my teachers are starting to notice stuff. I am really close with my band director and one night after practice she took me to get ice cream so we could talk...she told me that I needed to go talk to a counselor and see what options I have. I don't want to go stay with my real dad, and I could go stay with my grandparents but they live in Pennsylvania. So what options do I have? They aren't physically abusive all the time and even when they are I don't get bruises and stuff like that to prove it so what do I do??? I really need to know

2007-06-04 07:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by minifall 1 in Family

My grandma is so nosey! she is so nosey that she has a recorder on the phone so she can listen to whatever i say in my conversation ans now she is getting a thing on the computer that tells her what ever i am on and what i do or say on it!!! i don't know what to do she is way 2 nosey i like 2 know she cares for me but she has gone 2 far!!! What do i do?

2007-06-04 07:49:05 · 30 answers · asked by caitlynne p 1 in Family

I'm 16 years old and I recently sent out a request on yahoo answers that if anyone wanted to be my friend, to just send me a request. I also gave the address to my page, which a person could just click on. Well I was VERY surprised when I got a message from this person saying that I was ugly and I was devastated. This person is also 16 and his profile looks really messed up I mean hes very emo-ish (lol). But anyways I couldn't believe it! I have NEVER been called ugly in my life only pretty, even strangers have told me that I'm pretty and my friends say that I'm pretty and good looking also. I have blonde hair, blue eyes and am skinny, I really am pretty but I have no clue why this person would randomly send this message?? why?????

2007-06-04 07:48:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years, we always liked each other but last year he got an american girlfriend, he still kept on saying how much he liked me, even when she was in the country and when he was there with her. He would always say he didn't think it was working out between them. When he got home from a visit to her, he asked me out for a drink so we met and the inevitable happened and we spent the night together. A few days later I heard on the grapevine that him and this girl were engaged?! How can I get back at him for treating me like an idiot! I know it is my fault too but I didn't know they were getting married I thought they were on the verge of breaking up! Revenge tactics please.

2007-06-04 07:46:49 · 38 answers · asked by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 in Singles & Dating

How much does it cost to repolish a plain and simple platinum pt950 ring?

2007-06-04 07:44:24 · 7 answers · asked by TheWanderer 2 in Weddings

When my girlfriend proposed to me some 3+ years ago I said I would do it on 1 condition - NO BIG WEDDING! This was both of ours 2nd time and I wasn't even sure getting married again was the right thing to do... BUT - she was SO in love with me and so sure about this - I thought it will work out Next week we will have been married for 3 years and we now have 2 daughters together - and I have to say - I never thought I could love someone like I do my wife.. I am just CRAZY about her... which brings me to my question. She recently mentioned that she really wanted a big wedding with me and she only went along with it because its what I wanted. Also - she mentioned that I never even proposed - and when I look back on it now I realize what a DICK I was and I'd do anything to make it right. Our anniversay is next week - I was thinking of taking her out to dinner then getting down on one knee & finally proposing... I also jotted down some vows I would have said at our wedding. any thoughts?

2007-06-04 07:43:31 · 9 answers · asked by Doogie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She is more concerned with so called friends who do nothing more than hanging about street corners.She has also become involved in minor trouble through these same friends and I worry for her future.

2007-06-04 07:38:44 · 16 answers · asked by jayemess 4 in Family

I'm just curious. I'm waiting. However, whenever people find out I'm waiting, they always ask me why. I have never heard anyone ever ask someone who wasn't waiting why they weren't waiting.

So, for curiosity sake - for those of you who aren't waiting - why not?

And for those of you who are waiting - I'll go ahead and ask you why, too.

2007-06-04 07:38:41 · 28 answers · asked by muchadoaboutnothing 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone been through the same thing? She has a strange history, affairs with priests and married men, all of whom have now died? He is very rude to me and I don't want a divorce because I strongly believe in my marriage vows and I want to keep a father for my children who are all under 18. Any suggestions?

2007-06-04 07:38:36 · 85 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are in a role reversal marriage. My husband stays home and takes care of the house and I work full-time. Lately, I almost find myself making excuses for why he is home. Is there any reason why I should be embarrassed that he is a full-time homemaker? I say this because a lot of people will automatically say, "Oh, when he is going to get a job". Any advice?

2007-06-04 07:37:00 · 40 answers · asked by Claudia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got dumped by my boyfriend of like forever! I mean there are so many great guys out there and that i know. so what do i do now? I just need another sweetheart type of guy. I guess it wasn't that bad, he didn't have the sweetest personality and personality means alot to me.
Do I go and find another guy? Or should I wait awhile?

Huhhhhhh! I'm just so upset an confused!

2007-06-04 07:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Singles & Dating

I want a gothic, medevil, vampiric wedding. I am having trouble finding things you need for a wedding other than the dress. Can anyone give me helpful websites. Also looking for ideas for a gothic themed wedding. Black horses, the whole 9 yards. Also running into dead ends looking for vampiric wedding attire for my man. If any of you have had a dark wedding please shed some light on where to find stuff.

2007-06-04 07:26:37 · 15 answers · asked by Alexia 1 in Weddings

I am 21 yrs old still in college who is divorcing after 3.7 months of marriageLong story short we took 4 month break before marriage i had a fling w/ex.bfand got married unaware i was pregnant w/ ex.bf child.I will only be getting about 6,450 from the divorce not much.My parents are at their summer home not coming back till november.They would not even listen past words divorce and refuse to talk about anything till they get back told me to find a way to take care of myself in mean time.My cousin foud a house her mom owns as house flip she rents out about 25-30 min away from where my family(relatives),parents live, and my ex.bf lives in the same town 5 mins away.The home is small bugilo w/back yard.The area is what she calls blue collar workers town but i have heard that area has a bit of a shady reputation.This is not the sort of place i ever expected to live.Am i beeing a snob?
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2007-06-04 07:25:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible in India for a wife to claim rights on the property owned by her husband during divorce?

2007-06-04 07:24:41 · 6 answers · asked by kk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom is soo strict on me. i dont have much freedom, much less than my friends anyway (im 14). shes always checking up on me and making sure im not doing anything bad. i thought if i behave myself she will loosen up but thats not the case! when i go to friends houses im home early, i got As and Bs on my report card i mean what else can i do?! we dont always get along because of her strictness which causes even more anger. She always takes privledges away from me. WHat can i do?

2007-06-04 07:23:16 · 14 answers · asked by SFGiantsLuver 3 in Family

My parents had "Siempre" (always) engraved in theirs along with the date of their wedding. What did you have engraved - or plan to have engraved?

2007-06-04 07:23:04 · 22 answers · asked by muchadoaboutnothing 3 in Weddings

Looking for an idea, can be dirty too, but tasteful....I'd like to get something funny, naughty and also sentimental (like a little wedding-care package).

2007-06-04 07:10:40 · 9 answers · asked by Adoodyhoo 2 in Weddings

2007-06-04 07:07:17 · 36 answers · asked by gerald k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have worked in the education field for several years, and have noticed (even since I graduated from H.S. 10 yrs ago) that there is a huge increase in cheating amongst students.
I also have noticed that Yahoo Answers "Homework Help" is flooded with students wanting answers to their homework assignments, rather than researching and learning on their own.

Is this generation just lazy?!?!..or is it due to the technology that they have available (i.e. yahoo answers, internet access, more creative ways to cheat & not get caught)

Do you think it is due to the fact that our states and country are putting less of an emphasis on ethics, morals, beliefs?

Or do you think it is the parent's faults?

Or perhaps, the blame lays in the school systems...teachers and administrators not doing enough to crack down on cheating?

Where has the drive to accomplish on your own gone to???

Maybe you have a better idea as to why!

Would love to hear your thoughts and comments!!

2007-06-04 07:02:23 · 14 answers · asked by educationmajor 3 in Family