he has a girlfriend, but he flirts with me constantly in school and he told me he likes me but he wont break-up with his girlfriend because he likes her too much..
WTF.
HOW DO I STEAL HIM AWAY FROM HER?
she is kinda nastyyy too.
2007-06-04 07:53:08 · 80 answers · asked by She Called Me A Trooper™ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tramp, get your own guy.
2007-06-04 07:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by diobalik 3 · 9⤊ 1⤋
If this guy left his girlfriend for you, then he would just as easily leave you for someone else.
BUT...since your question is how do you steal him away and not the better question of whether or not you should even try:
Show some confidence in yourself. Be sexy and simply tell him that you want him....but that he has to break it off with his GF before you guys can get together. The longer you linger over him when it's obvious he isn't going to leave her for you...then you start to seem insecure and pathetic, and NO guy likes that. If it doesn't happen, move on.
2007-06-04 14:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Forreal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With respect, it's as nasty to try and steal another girl's guy.
Sounds like he is not so great either. But the bottom line is he has made up his mind that he likes HER too much (i.e. better than you). Dont waste your time, because even if you manage to steal him you will be setting the tone for the relationship: the second he sees someone else he's attracted to he can justify cheating on you as easily as you have justified stealing him away from his girl. Cheaters often beget cheaters. But if you are willing to endure that, go on....live and learn the cruel lesson. Or avoid them altogether and have a clean conscience. Your choice.
2007-06-04 08:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Karibuboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the easiest way would be to befriend him as much as possible, try to hang out with him and show him that you're a better girl for him than his current girlfriend. However, if you encourage him to cheat on her, and he goes for it, think about this: If you become his girl and yet another girl comes along and does the same thing you want to do, would he cheat on you as well?
People leave their significant others all the time for other people, and sometimes they are definitely changing over to someone else who is better suited for them. But trying to get someone to cheat on their significant other isn't a good way to go either, so try to avoid that at all costs.
2007-06-04 07:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by Zuzana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would u want a guy who could so easily break up with someone else for u? he is with someone else, would u want another girl to do this to u? just not good business. shows lack of compassion and goodwill toward others to even think such a thing. means u want to go after someone Else's man without a care to how the other girl would feel, means you may have some selfishness issues, and no there isn't really anyway of getting someone unless u throw yourself on him, do things with him she doesn't do. but than if he would do that he may be just a shallow guy and not be what u are really looking for.
2007-06-04 07:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by kayla wayla :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you get him, you'll be the girlfriend, and he'll be out flirting with some other girl who thinks you're "nastyyy".
2007-06-04 07:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shes nasty? Look at your self. Your going to be the bigger slut here sweetheart... He likes you he doesnt love you and isnt it obvious enough that he wont leave his girlfriend? He probably just wants to **** you and leave you. Jajajaja so who really is going to be the "nastyyy" one here? If they break up ok but you need to leave your skank as out of it.
2007-06-04 07:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Magda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm... well, I can somewhat understand this question.
My honest opinion? Be yourself. If he likes you, he will come to you eventually. If you try to steal him away, YOU will come away looking "nastyyy" instead of her, and you'll send him running right back to her.
2007-06-04 07:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it he's a pig for flirting with you when he has a girlfriend. Your not much better for allwoing him to get away with it. Try to learn to respect yourself and leave that girls boyfriend alone. Ever heard the saying what comes around goes around?
2007-06-04 08:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by ronalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm yeah u don't that's kinda hoeish. He doesn't break up with his girlfrined because she is probably better than you, she most likely didn't "steal" her way to a boyfriend. Find a guy that is single is nice.
2007-06-04 07:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by vintagous_goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be creative and find your own. why are so many girls obsessed with getting other girls boyfriends? maybe some of the guys do need to "be saved" from their current relationships, but that should be between the guy and his gfriend. don't waste your time getting in the middle of it. you'll just end up looking like the "relationship wrecker" and don't you deserve to have someone care about you completely and not just treat you like "the other girl"?
2007-06-04 07:57:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋