I am 21 yrs old still in college who is divorcing after 3.7 months of marriageLong story short we took 4 month break before marriage i had a fling w/ex.bfand got married unaware i was pregnant w/ ex.bf child.I will only be getting about 6,450 from the divorce not much.My parents are at their summer home not coming back till november.They would not even listen past words divorce and refuse to talk about anything till they get back told me to find a way to take care of myself in mean time.My cousin foud a house her mom owns as house flip she rents out about 25-30 min away from where my family(relatives),parents live, and my ex.bf lives in the same town 5 mins away.The home is small bugilo w/back yard.The area is what she calls blue collar workers town but i have heard that area has a bit of a shady reputation.This is not the sort of place i ever expected to live.Am i beeing a snob?
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2007-06-04 07:25:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shady means it has a rep for slum lords and some drug problems.
2007-06-04 07:28:45 · update #1
Maybe not a snob, but someone who cares about where they live. Right now not much of choice but you can make a postitive out of this with realing the mistake you had made and learn from it. Blue collar neighborhood doesn't always mean crime and drugs. You also can keep an outlook for a small apartment in better part of town.
2007-06-04 11:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sick of this question. I think you made your bed now lie in it. It's time to grow up sweet pea. You ******* like a woman, got pregnant like a woman, cheated on your man like a dumb a.ss woman, now go ahead and step up to the problem LIKE A WOMAN! It's not for your mother your aunt or your cousins to FIX your mess! Fix it yourself. You did the crime, do the time. And as for your getting $6400 from the divorce, if it were me, you wouldn't get a dime.
2007-06-06 06:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, but sometimes you have to start at the bottom before you can pick yourself back up. Make the best of it, you may actually like the little house. Good luck and try to enjoy what you have made of your life
2007-06-04 07:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look at the situation you're in. You're no better than anyone else.
I would recommend that you be sure it is a safe neighborhood for a woman living along.
2007-06-04 07:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Schwinn 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
All depends on why you worry about living there. Is it the threat of crime or do you feel you are above "blue collar" people? Heck, you're 21, pregnant, and getting divorced.......kinda "Jerry Springer" in my book.
2007-06-04 07:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by johnnymaddskills 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it's your only option then I say go for it if not don't you have keys to parents house go stay there or drive to wherever the h e l l they are and make them listen
2007-06-04 07:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are going to college - look around for a place that is looking for roommates -- look at your local college - they should have a bulletin board or something hanging up w/ this information- get a job - sometimes colleges have jobs there even........ you don't want to live in a bad neighborhood - Keep going to college -- because if you spell being .. "beeing" - you need it..
just kidding!!!
2007-06-04 07:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You lost me at "3.7 months."
Why can't you be more specific?
Like to 4 decimal places?
2007-06-04 08:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I think you are just disappointed with yourself and deflecting it to the neighbourhood.
2007-06-04 10:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't raise your kid in a bad neighborhood. Period.
2007-06-04 07:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋