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theres this guy that is a close friend. He says he likes me but doesnt want to go out. He wants to feel my boobs though. How do i tell him to stop asking but still have him like me?...don't say he isnt worth it b/c he is.

2007-06-04 08:06:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

If you say a guy who just wants to feel you up is worth it, you need a better class of friends.

2007-06-04 08:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by diobalik 3 · 0 0

He isn't worth it. If he was, you'd be letting him grope you. Are you in middle school? The type of mentality is that of a young inexperienced teen...He doesn't really like YOU, he likes the idea of "getting lucky". If it's not with you, it'll be with the next person he sees as an easy target.

This is life, men are pigs but now u have to learn to take advantage and control of the situation. If you let him grope you now, within a week or two you will be broken up, heart broken and depressed.

He also doesn't respect you. A close friend would never treat you or talk to you like that.

2007-06-04 15:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by RitzFitz29 5 · 0 0

He is a friend - or he is a love interest - or he is a sex object.

You need to figure out where he falls in your universe.

And how he feels about you. If he wants to feel your boobs, he's not a friend. And if he doesn't want to go out - then he thinks of you as a sex object.

Your call. But at least be honest about what's going on

2007-06-04 15:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 1 0

Just tell him not to. And that is pretty wierd don't you think? He doesn't want to go out with you but yet he wants to feel all over you. How bizarre is that. Maybe you should get to know him a little better on the personal level.

2007-06-04 15:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You approach him nice and calmly and sit down to talk to him about the situation and say "We are the best of friends and even though you don't want to go out I still want you to have those feelings you have without wanting to touch and caress my breast.

2007-06-04 15:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by lil D 1 · 0 0

If he touches you at all without your permission then its an assault. Touch your boobs and its sexual assault.

Sorry dear but its down to you to make it 100% clear that he cant touch. Shout at him if you must.

He finds you attractive (one part of your body anyway) so I dont think thats going to stop.

BTW You owe it to yourself and all other women to be very clear on this.

2007-06-04 15:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0 0

Well , i have a little advice for you. If this guy really did like you , trust me, he wouldve asked you out. This question is a little weird, lol, but i wish tha best for u hun.

--Luvv naye

2007-06-04 15:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by naye naye 1 · 0 0

I agree with DioBalik. You need a better class of friends and you need to think of your self a little higher. You deserve better.

2007-06-04 15:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He's not worth it but you're not mature enough to realize it.

2007-06-04 15:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mad Man in a Blue Box 4 · 0 0

Tell him that 'close friends' don't participate in these activities. Period.

2007-06-04 15:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by Moondog 7 · 1 0

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