I just got dumped by my boyfriend of like forever! I mean there are so many great guys out there and that i know. so what do i do now? I just need another sweetheart type of guy. I guess it wasn't that bad, he didn't have the sweetest personality and personality means alot to me.
Do I go and find another guy? Or should I wait awhile?
Huhhhhhh! I'm just so upset an confused!
2007-06-04 07:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by **Amanda** 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u should wait a while... and let things set a bit like a cool-off period -- enjoy the 'SINGLE' life a bit...! -- get out with friends..
& wen all dat frustration is over, u can find another guy.
2007-06-04 07:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by bjxtreme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this opportunity to be into yourself. Sure, you feel like this is the end of the world but again take this time for yourself. If you have just broken up, then don't go another guy because that guy will just be a rebound. Plus, you don't want to jump into another relationship only to do comparisons between the two guys, one being your ex. Be a floater and enjoy the freedom. Take a year off before jumping into another relationship. You need to be sure that your ex is out of your system.
2007-06-04 14:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by bmoregirl_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl wait for a while. Give yourself some time to heal and get over the breakup so that when the next guy comes along you won't be carrying any baggage. Also don't go looking for the guy let them look for you. I've done it myself. If you wait the man of your dreams will come along. While you're allowing yourself to heal do something that you enjoy to do. Don't focus on not having a boyfriend. Focus on being happy with yourself. A man does not complete you. So you concentrate on yourself.
2007-06-04 14:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by sparkles52986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do right now, is take care of yourself. Do what you feel like doing. If you feel like shopping, then do that. If you feel like seeing a movie by yourself, then do that. This will make you feel better about yourself. And then, who knows. You might meet someone while you are just living your life. You can also hang out with friends too. This will help take your mind off the whole situation. And plus, friends have connections. They may be able to help you out. But don't worry, times will get better.
2007-06-04 14:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by corrola_1995 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you must realize that you are number one, second of all there are other fishes out their that are waiting on you so get up wipe your tears away stand tall and go out there and find someone else that will treat you for who you really are because you are special
2007-06-04 14:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lord Wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait awhile to get over this guy........Any guy u meet now, will most likely be the rebound guy...........Or just have fun and hang out with different people.........Dont rush into another relationship........
2007-06-04 14:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah just wait the right guy will come along to you...hey you seem like a pretty cool girl to be around....but hey he wasnt meant for you the right guy will come along just wait...*soft voice* it you wait he will come lol
2007-06-04 16:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you can do better. Just keep on truckin 'till you do, honey!
2007-06-04 22:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by chris j 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a gorgeous babe Amanda...take your time. There will be plenty of guys when you're ready....
2007-06-04 14:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by Dr_M_VanNostrand 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you add me to your contacts?
2007-06-05 15:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by ((Ospr3y)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋