my x bf *since 2005* has had his 2 close friend call me out of the blue with bizarre reasoning. He has been keeping his tabs on me since late last year. One was Ohh i need help with my business. the other one was "Hey. are you stil in touch with your x boss from 4 years ago?" Is my x bored out of his mind or trying to get back with me just doenst know how to come out out of his shell? btw he is 33 years old and YES, this does look like high school behavior. and Yes, we split on very bad terms, we are okay now talking at least. Any suggestions? Thanks!
2007-06-04 01:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by megaherzfan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here are little details i forgot to add
I am getting a kick out of him and his friends calling with strange excuses. I am looking at this way, it is a unscripted sitcom/reality show. Every week there is something going on. btw whenever i am bumping into him, he is afraid to hug me or touch me.
he is not a bad guy, really really not. just for some reason acting wierd. NO HE IS NOT a stalker.. lol
2007-06-04 01:48:18 · update #1
YES he is definitely trying to get back together with you and if what he is doing right now doesn't work he's going to try and make you jealous definitely highschool behaviour
2007-06-04 01:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so u are talking so it lik ehe wants to know what ur up to am 32 and my ex got his friends to ring up up after a seven years reletionship as he couldnt cope with not knowning what i was up too
2007-06-04 08:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be afraid, very afraid. u r talking now with each other. why ruin it with going back to the way it used to be. if u r lonesome or need a friend, I suggest my dear to buy a dog.
2007-06-04 08:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by wee willie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id say he is stalker material,. thats kinda creepy, i can understand how your freaked out. its one thing to have him call you up, but for a guy to get other guys to call you, well, that is odd.
id keep my distance and start checking caller id before answering from now on.
good luck, moving is also a possibility, lol
2007-06-04 08:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by midnyghtcloud 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bad terms + high school hehaviour = sh!t , omg !!!
ask him what r his intentions .
if he wants u back, then make it clear that there's no place in ur heart for him.
2007-06-04 08:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by eMJy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no suggestions. But one question (the only question actually) : do you still love him ?
If no, find a bar and meet your girls there instead. You'll have more fun, believe me!
2007-06-04 08:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Pauline 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to grow up and get a life
2007-06-04 08:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by patricia.quigley@btopenworld.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont need him do u? change cel# move if necesary...if ur interested in him tell him if not tell him to leave u alone
2007-06-04 08:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well ignore him and his friends too...maybe he's got nothing else to do.
2007-06-04 08:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by teen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋