Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

the only problem is she wants to take him 2 the cleaners.Hes offered to give her the house the car and all the contents and take care of all their sons needs and wants.he just wants her to leave his stocks and bonds and half of his retirement alone. does anyone have some good advise on what he needs to do about this situation

2007-06-04 12:43:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I kinda have a medium chest size is this still ok to wear a bikini if a guy likes them on girls. oh btw heres my myspace so you can tell my if im good enough to wear a bikini www.myspace.com/brookebaby753

2007-06-04 12:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you want as a annv gift. Guys are so hard to get gifts for. We are in Iraq, so I cant take him to the movies or anything like that! Please help. I have 20 days and if he has to get mailed here, I need to know what to get like today! Thanks

2007-06-04 12:34:07 · 1 answers · asked by Just Another Cali Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

-avoid eye contact, but when metw ith eye contact you hold it.
- smile
- pretend that you are completely busy with somthing, and avoid the girl
- not speak witha girl in school( because she has her friends around her)


Most of all how ca i tell a shy guy is working his way to ask me out? because he is always around me when we are alone and seems to look up and then down seeing as to what i am doing. but then walks away slowly. ps. i think he likes me since he asked me to study at his house with a friends of his and was very nrvous and fumbling around.

2007-06-04 12:23:15 · 4 answers · asked by aleandria 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it women say they want a nice, sweet, charming, romantic guy. and when they get'm they treat'm like ****, and usually cheat on them with an asshole who usually sniffs coke drives a nice car their mom got them listends to techno and usually ends up beign abusive. and then u guys stay w/ them, infact, you stick to them like flies on s.h.i.t. until they dump you guys. then you rebound on a nice guy again, and then the vicious cycle starts over. i've seen this happen, and hear of it all the time. please, tell me what goes on in your guys's heads!!!!

2007-06-04 12:20:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend left me when he knew i was pregnant and i was upset so i told my mom ( im 18) and she was alll sad but my step dad kicked me out and she was all mad. and then the only thing i had to keep my hopes up was that i was going to give birth to a beautifull baby who i will love. i just found out my baby(34 weeks in) died becasue of its heart. i have no family, no boyfriend, no baby, no home. my life is a mess and i just want someone to talk to.

2007-06-04 12:19:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think she does?

2007-06-04 12:17:06 · 29 answers · asked by - 2 in Family

I never had girlfriend due to isolation to people.
I have no social skill at all.

I won't give excuses why.
Just need to know how to get better.

I don't wanna know BE YOURSELF thing.
I wanna know something that actually works.

2007-06-04 12:12:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am interested in making my own bouquets for my wedding. I am using roses and calla lillies. How many stems makes a good size bridal bouquet? How many for a bridesmaid? Thanks in advance!

2007-06-04 12:11:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN HAVING SOME PROBLEMS LATELY AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FOUND TEX T MESSAGES ON HIS PHONE AND A PICTURE OF A GIRL AND HIS CAR HE WANTS TO WORK OUT BY SEPERATING WE LIVE TOGETHER NOT TEMPORARILY JUST SO HE CAN CLEAR HIS HEAD BECAUSE WE WENT THROUGHT SOMETHING VERY DRAMATIC TOGETHER ABOUT 18 MONTHS AND I HAVE NOT GOTTEN OVER IT YET AND IT DEPRESSES ME SOMETIMES BUT THROUGH IT ALL I STILL LOVE HIM AND HE STILL LOVES ME HE THINKS WE SHOULD BE APART FOR A LITTLE WHILE AND WORK ON US WHILE NOT LIVING TOGETHER BUT I THINK ITS JUST A SLOW BREAK UP AND I RATHER JUST BREAK UP WHAT DO I DO?

2007-06-04 12:10:41 · 3 answers · asked by CUTIEPIE79 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 12:09:06 · 2 answers · asked by haniah m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with the same guy for 8 months. He regularly says he loves me and I love him. We both live in a city where we are both not from. He doesn't have a lot of friends here and neither do I yet, but a lot of my friends visit etc, so he's met quite a few of them. However, here's where the problem starts... I have never met ANY of his friends. His home town is only a few hours from here (mine is 1700 miles) and somehow we've met 10 of mine and NONE of his! Now we are finally going to his town next weekend and he's acting all stressed and weird... I don't know what to do.

2007-06-04 12:07:34 · 26 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyway, we have 2 kids and seperated due to her lies and not wanting to support my business as I had helped her start her own. After the seperation I wanted councilling and she flatly refused as she just wanted space, which was fine. During our 7 year relationship said she hated me, lied, stole from a business account and did not accept her responsibilities (I did the cooking and ran the household budget). I asked her if she had cheated on me and she said she had not, which I believed as she is a christian. 9 months on I have moved on,am happy looking after our 2 boys 3 days a week, she knocks on my door saying she has some confessions.She wants to tell the truth and has told me that she did cheat and has been with 6 guys in the time we have been seperated yet has only ever wanted me.Says one guy has threatened her with violence.Has she come back to me because I am a good provider and husband or is she scared. Do I accept apology,goto counceling,Does she deserve my love/trust? Help

2007-06-04 12:06:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I find that sometimes I make friends with people who I later find out have at least some of the characteristics of a totally insane person or what could be termed an "antisocial personality."

2007-06-04 12:05:08 · 10 answers · asked by Scotty 3 in Friends

Does my boyfriend love me because when people say stuff about us like me and him are a cute couple he don't say anything but when he's around me he says things like flirty i think he only shows his love feelings to me not to everyone else?

2007-06-04 12:03:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 12:02:48 · 26 answers · asked by Aubrie F 1 in Weddings

My friends ashley,emily and summer have really sick minds. Whenever i say basketball they are like " go fetch ur own balls" it gets so friggin annoying! me and my friend jamie are sick of this. we ignored them today but they kept on doing that!

P.S we are all 13

2007-06-04 12:00:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and have had sex for most of that time. We just decided to not have sex from here on out until we get married (when we graduate college in a year or so).

We are doing this for two reasons. 1. We feel like we've been putting sex above mental/emotional intimacy. 2. We're Christians and while we don't think that our having sex before marriage is wrong, we think it is out of repect for God that we wait to give our bodies to each other until we do get married.

I just wondered who else has done something similar or if you have thoughts on this. How did you deal or how do you think we should? Tips on how to not break our new vow? It's gonna be tough...

2007-06-04 12:00:09 · 4 answers · asked by Straight Shooter 4 in Singles & Dating

I am in 4th grade and I really like this boy named Kevin in the other class. He does not like me what should I do? He is so cute and everyone else has a boyfriend but me!

2007-06-04 11:54:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAT SHOULD I DO

2007-06-04 11:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by Glass Mohajeri 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay- well my hubby and I are both 21,we have a kid together and another one on the way..
Whe nwe got together we seldom had this problem ( premature ejactulation)
And when it did happen I bit my tongue, I didn't want to hurt his feelings or pride..

But now, it happens almost EVERY SINGLE time. It is to the point where I dont even want to have sexbecause I know it is just doing to be a huge dissaopintment!
When he starts foreplay now, it jsust REALLY pisses me off!

2007-06-04 11:51:21 · 11 answers · asked by SS_COPE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm almost 16 and it seems all guys around my age are only after one time hookups and never anything more. now whenever a guy is interested in me i cant help but always assume he'll be interested only till we hookup and thats it. It not like im looking for a serious relationship at all but it would be nice to find a guy who i can go out with on dates with and hang out with more then just once. are all guys my age like this? what do i do

2007-06-04 11:50:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my wife cheats with a married Air Force pilot screenname(LiftrPlt) I would like to inform his wife do you think this is right?

2007-06-04 11:50:02 · 4 answers · asked by Theron H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is sex once a week good? Twice a week better? What about the third, fourth and fith time? At what point does the amount of sex you have (with a partner guys...) become excessive and potentially a problem?

2007-06-04 11:44:30 · 16 answers · asked by J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. We are both in our mid-20's and we both agree that we are the ones for each other. Lately we have been arguing over the littlest things. The arguments are over such trivial things. Should I be worried? Is this normal?

2007-06-04 11:43:40 · 26 answers · asked by whattodo1 1 in Singles & Dating

A very close friend of my wife's is so close it makes me feel uncomfortable. My wife is quite flirty but this is different to flirting - they act like a couple. Whenever we are out as a group I don't get to walk with my arm around my wife because he always has his around her. On one occaision she was holding his hand, so I held her other hand - she kept dropping mine until I went away and later told me that I had made her feel uncomfortable. This man has told her that he loves her. My wife has assured me that she only loves me and would never leave me, yet I seem to see less of her than he does. My biggest problem is that I don't know how to bring this up without sounding like the jealous husband trying to keep her from her friends. Should I say anything?

2007-06-04 11:40:21 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I just started seeing this guy, and everything's been going great...problem is, everyone says he has been with countless numbers of girls and is a player...I haven't seen it, and he's genuinely making an effort to impress me...he also just asked me to be his girlfriend, saying he's ready to settle down (he's 30). So do I believe what I've seen from his actions, or do I believe the rumors?

2007-06-04 11:34:25 · 23 answers · asked by BabyLuv_405 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend had a big agurement and i dont knw if to break up wit him or not!

2007-06-04 11:33:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met the perfect girl. She's a 20 year old virgin that doesn't drink or smoke. She's always happy. She's sweet. She's smart. She the prettiest girl ever. She's forgiving. She's understanding. She always positive and kids love her. Everything I believe in, she believes in.
The problem is I seem to be the only one in love. She's hard to read. She acts like she loves everyone. I told her how I feel, but she doesn't think she's ready to date. (she's never had a boyfriend either)
I want to wait forever for her, but I don't know if it's the right thing.

2007-06-04 11:31:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK My husband had a meth problem a few years before we met. I have found things in the past that I have overlooked. I recently found some evidence that he is using again, I don't know how often or how much. I know if I did some digging that I wouldn't like what I found. His dealers phone number was on our phone bill.

Here's my dilema. I am a SAHM and I go to college full time. If I left my husband I would have to quit school and take a dead end job to take care of my 3 kids. If I find that he is on meth I have no choice but to leave. He's a truckdriver and home less than 4 days a month and never alone with the kids. There also hasn't been any money missing from the account.

Should I keep looking away long enough to finish school (2 years) so that I will be financially able to care for my kids. I could do some digging, get a job and struggle for a while. Is it wrong or selfish for me to look the other way? BTW he really isn't a great hubby. He's become a moody, needy pessimist.

2007-06-04 11:29:26 · 10 answers · asked by kidzrdrivinmekrazy 3 in Marriage & Divorce