me and my boyfriend had a big agurement and i dont knw if to break up wit him or not!
2007-06-04 11:33:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think it depends on what the fight was about...if you honestly love them then you need to stick it out && talk about it...if not then maybe its its time to move on to bigger fish
2007-06-04 11:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends, do you guys fight alot? If yes then maybe you guys should take a break from each other, but if not then try to work it out if you love him. Both of you have to put effort into the relationship to keep it strong. In a relationship there is always going to be arguments, no relationship is perfect, but if it is constant fighting and bickering it gets old and its time to move on.
2007-06-04 18:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by lissette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its an argument,all couples fight once in a while and its normal.all u need to do is talk it out and see if u guys can come to some type of settlement on whatever u guys argued about.BUT if it something more than just arguing,and u guys r fighting everyday,then ya maybe u two need a break from each other.if it was just an argument and u think u guys can talked it over then u shouldn't just break up.see and try to fix it,if it can't be fixed, then ya now its time to break up...good luck
2007-06-04 18:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by leen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay hold your horses. first think about why you're with him. do you want to give that up?how long were you together? and how often do you fight. if this is one of the first, then don't break up with him. one of the biggest mistakes i ever made was dumping a guy because of a petty argument. talk it out. calmly ask him why you're fighting. you don't want to fight because you care a lot about him. losing him would be terrible. try to put it all behind you and try to prevent future arguments. Talking is the BEST thing you can do. if was meant to be then you'll get out of the sticky situation with ease. just talk to the boy!
2007-06-04 18:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give each other some time to cool off, dont tak for a day or tow, that way, you can actually think about the situation instead of acting on just feelings alone. Once you do that you can talk to each other and see where each of you had the problem.
2007-06-04 18:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by rusty71987 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he will sit down and talk about whatever it was you were arguing about so that maybe you both can decide how to work thru the problem together...yelling at each other never solves anything I know from experience...if he can't talk about it then maybe you should move on and let him deal with whatever issues he has...if it's real love then it can work thru anything...
2007-06-04 18:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by tiggerme20006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give him another chance and he should give you another chance, everyone deserves another chance and everything deserves to be forgiven...i think of arguments as a good thing in a relationship...only because it's natural and it shows the relationship is going good...you are going through the normal process...my friend had a fight with her bf and she decided to forgive him, now they are major happy!!!:) hope i could help!
2007-06-04 18:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by The Queen of Acting<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arguments are arguments but if you feel the arguments are getting violent and the relationship needs to end, then I would especially if your a teen. you don't need that right now!
2007-06-04 18:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what the aguement was about.. and its good to ague sometimes cause it shows that you 2 aren't alike that u both have different opinions.
2007-06-04 18:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had big fights with my bf but we always made up after. give him another chance.
2007-06-04 18:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by courtney k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋