MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN HAVING SOME PROBLEMS LATELY AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I FOUND TEX T MESSAGES ON HIS PHONE AND A PICTURE OF A GIRL AND HIS CAR HE WANTS TO WORK OUT BY SEPERATING WE LIVE TOGETHER NOT TEMPORARILY JUST SO HE CAN CLEAR HIS HEAD BECAUSE WE WENT THROUGHT SOMETHING VERY DRAMATIC TOGETHER ABOUT 18 MONTHS AND I HAVE NOT GOTTEN OVER IT YET AND IT DEPRESSES ME SOMETIMES BUT THROUGH IT ALL I STILL LOVE HIM AND HE STILL LOVES ME HE THINKS WE SHOULD BE APART FOR A LITTLE WHILE AND WORK ON US WHILE NOT LIVING TOGETHER BUT I THINK ITS JUST A SLOW BREAK UP AND I RATHER JUST BREAK UP WHAT DO I DO?
2007-06-04 12:10:41 · 3 answers · asked by CUTIEPIE79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like he wants a mutual break-up and is trying to be sympathetic and break it to you easily. I would just tell him that if he wants to break-up that you understand and that you wish him all the best. It sounds to me like this guy is not interested in being your BF anymore and may already have someone else on the side just let him go.
2007-06-04 12:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you owe it to yourself to be with someone who wants to be with you. If you are feeling like he is strayin then let him go. Yes--it is hard as hell and depressing, but you will be ok after a while and hopefully someone will treat you like you deserve. I really understand and am going through my own bizness but I feel like I did the right thing in the long run. Not so much for her, but for me. The longer you take to make a move out--the harder it is. Dont stay longer than you need to.
2007-06-04 19:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by wa8n4her 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't tell you what to do, but the advice I think would be a good choice is to break up with him, and find someone better, you deserve to be loved. I hope you find someone better, good luck, and tell me if things turn out ok.
2007-06-04 19:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋