Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

a chech up you get 1 a year

2007-06-04 14:40:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How is it that im not ugly?

2007-06-04 14:39:58 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean somebody who makes a big deal of allmost everything, wanting a lot of negative attention. Somebody selfish and trying to wake up feeling of guilt?
I'm just curious. So if you want to, tell me about it. I know from experience that these people can be sooooo draining if you don't put up a wall inside and just let their negativity bounce off.

P.S. Negative attention means contacting you when they have something to complain (never when they feel good), adding a downside on things you say, provoceing/ asking for trouble by their behaviour........ The list is endless......

2007-06-04 14:34:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-04 14:31:51 · 1 answers · asked by I love screwdrivers! 5 in Friends

Im going to get the negative comments but I need to put this forward, as I don't know anyone in real life to ask in fear of them telling her.

At the beggining she was slim and ate like a normal person, after some years she began eating more sweets and cakes and drinking wine every night. She has gained like 30lbs (5'4 - 125-130 was her weight at 19, shes now about 145-150 at 23). Yeah she is not obese but constantly gaining, her butt has balooned and everywhere is softer and chunkier.

I am not worried about her state now, she is healthy but this is a long term relationship and I dont see it ending anytime soon. She will constantly gain fat and im worried she will ruin herself with that. I dont want her to become obese or ruin her health, and to be honest I dont find it attractive. I'm not shallow, but you dont like seeing your partner change like this, who does?

What do I tell her? I feel anything I say is detrimental to our relationship, she is quite sensitive. What would you do?

2007-06-04 14:31:44 · 65 answers · asked by mecicoplajjer 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a Mr. Mom on my hands. He's a great father, good overall man, non smoker and non drinker...problem is, he's perfectly willing to continue to allow me to work two jobs for us to make ends meet, while he works his 8-5 every day and watches my son while I'm working my second job. I'D RATHER BE AT HOME WATCHING MY SON!

Ladies, I know what you're going to say, and it's what I should do, but I'd hate to kick his lazy butt out, cause then my son would be watched by my pseudo-husband's sister, cause I'd still have to work 2 jobs for a while to be ok.

Just go ahead...let me have it.

2007-06-04 14:29:40 · 21 answers · asked by ron-D 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-04 14:29:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 13 and I know you are thinking your too young to date and w/e but please dont say that. I'm a teen I can make those kinds of decisions. But IDK what to try to figure out what I can do with my bf for not alot of money. I thought of movies but thats about it.

2007-06-04 14:21:19 · 7 answers · asked by Lydster 4 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl and I have asked her to go to a movie out to dinner/lunch coffee ect. Each time she tells me she will have to call me after she checks her schedule but she never does she does flirt back with me when I flirt with her and sometimes she does initiate it. However I have only asked her a few times over the past year or so because I didn't want to look to desperate. Also, I recently graduated from highschool and I had my party this past weekend. She came to the party and we talked for over an hour. Then when she went to leave I walked out with her and asked her to go to lunch with me sometime and she gave me the same response she would call me. I did get a hug and it was a good hug but I really think she is playing hard to get because when I was talking to her her pupils were really big and she would mimic the way I was standing. I just think she wants me to make the first move. I will take guys and girls on this one but would prefer girl

2007-06-04 14:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by Eric S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 14:19:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok.my friend gave me a long lecture about the word "gay" and she even started to get depressed about it and started crying she didnt talk to me for a while because i said "this shirt is gay" and she got mad because someone she knows is gay,i said "I don't need a lecture from my own friend" I understand being offfended if you were gay but shes not! Do i have the right to be mad does she? what should i tell her next time?

2007-06-04 14:18:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm actually admitting something here to the world, that I don't admit to my wife. I don't trust my mother-in-law, really I don't. I always throw away the food she makes me in case it's poison.

2007-06-04 14:17:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you are my girlfriend and we are in a fancy restaurant one romantic evening. All of the sudden I start giving you reasons why I love you. How would you feel? What would you be thinking?

2007-06-04 14:16:59 · 5 answers · asked by lumi 4 in Singles & Dating

If somebody obviously did something hurtful, do you think years later, they will eventually regret it? I know that people are immature and won't always recognize the levity of what they did to you, but do you think years later, they realize it?? This guy that I knew dated me while having a gf that I didn't know about...I made it obvious I was hurt. Do you think years from now there will be regret for making me feel so bad>

2007-06-04 14:15:50 · 23 answers · asked by janet_smith2007118 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 2 years has his regular page with all our friends and of course me, his girlfriend on his top 8. Then, a couple weeks ago while browsing a mutual friends' profile i noticed a new friend that i didn't recognize so I checked it out to see if it maybe it was another old friend. Turns out my bf has created another "his"space. Problem is he's forgotten to mention it to me or add me even though he adds not only a few close mutual friends but also a few very attractive girls that are studying his major, whom I've never even heard about....and trust me i thought i knew everything since we live together. Wrong. He is laso listed as "single". I waited a while thinking maybe he was too busy and forgot but the profile shows he updates it daily and he still hasn't said anything. I know he loves me and he has never given me any reason to be suspicious before so I don't wanna jump the gun. So what do you guys think?

2007-06-04 14:13:29 · 16 answers · asked by elenewende 2 in Singles & Dating

stop thinking about some one which i like. But I couldn't tell her because she is my boss. and i couldn't stop thinking about her because i see her almost every day.

2007-06-04 14:13:10 · 1 answers · asked by ktown 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to date frd 3 years ago but we got seperated because i moved now just recently i met him again over myspace and we want to go back out should i start out where we finished or should we start over new. Mind you , we never broke up and hes really hot

2007-06-04 14:13:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dads roomate came to our house this weekend. We met there family and OMG there son is soooo cute!!!!! And he's only 8 months older then me. I'm gonna be in the 9th grade. The good news is, is that he's friends with my brother whoes 16 he's 15 and i'm friends with his sister whoes in college. By the way she knows that i like her brother:) Also hes really smart on the football and wrestling team and looks half hawaiian half Bangladeshi. From what i heard from my brother is that every american girl in school likes him. FYI Both of our familys are from Bangladesh!!!!!! The bad news is we live in two different counties and go to 2 different schools. These counties r right next 2 each other but there still 2 different counties. And we usually invite them or they invite us once a month. I can't wait that long!!!!!!!!!! What can i do???? Sorry if I added 2 much detail.

2007-06-04 14:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have no idea what a one night stand is, but everyone else in my grade does.
please help me!

2007-06-04 14:11:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 14:10:18 · 24 answers · asked by shelby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like he nice, but he is also aggressive he funny

2007-06-04 14:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

believe or not.. if so is it when you look at someone and just know your going to like him( the thought that hes funny or cute hasnt popped into your mind yet)..how do you know the difference, not just i guess lust..

2007-06-04 14:04:37 · 18 answers · asked by nickydig9 2 in Singles & Dating

Would a guy or girl not want to date someone because they never had a relationship before??

P.S. : This person never had a relationship before because they were shy in MS and HS and they lived in a VERY small town. It's not like they are extremely fat or something...they are average sized.


Do you know anyone that got a bf or gf later in life?? Did their bf or gf care that they never had a relationship before??

2007-06-04 14:03:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A couple of days ago my Step Mom called to say he has lung Cancer and that she request that my sister and me call on Fathers day.?
The problem is that my father is not in my life. I guess he was a great father to his second wife and her kids but as for me and my sister we where the forgotten children.
He left our family when i was about three and my sister was around 6 years old. He never helped my mother or us in anyway the only thing i can recall about him is that we could not find him . In later years we have kept in contact from time to time . I am now 47 years old and this still bugs me.
Should i call or send him a card?

2007-06-04 14:03:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What if we took "fidelity" out of marriage and recoginized it for what it is???

A financial merger. Each spouse is a partner. What if we agreed to keep the merger intact, agreed that neither of the parties was going to be the other's sole eternal turn on, acknowledged our sexuality, and allowed an occasional,discreet, perhaps shared, oh, "liason", with another party.

What if we agreed that the union would remain intact and that each partner could "liason" at their own discretion, together, separately, whatever they're both comfortable with.

I'm not talking about constant abuse. I'm talking about that rare occasion you just know your gonna regret passing by....

Would the kids be raised with two parents?

Anyone out there secure enough to admit that their partner may one day desire someone else? Why does this have to be "the end"?

Lets face it, at 54% divorce rate, we may want to be more realistic in an adult relationship.

2007-06-04 14:01:07 · 17 answers · asked by Puresnow 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-04 14:00:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

around what age to guys actually start taking things more seriously? i've asked around and people usully say after college ages 23-26 b/c they've gotten a lot of things out of there system, is this true?

2007-06-04 14:00:41 · 15 answers · asked by heaven1904 2 in Singles & Dating

I just what to know...
1.would you rather date a....
blonde
brunette
redhead
blackhair
2.would you rather date a....
smart girl
sporty girl
plastic girl(its an expression!)
3.would you rather date someone for...
popularity
money
looks
personality
all of the above
4.would you rather date a girl who is...
tall
short
inbetween
...just wandering...please number ur answers...thnx...

2007-06-04 13:59:13 · 9 answers · asked by Boo boo's lover girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, There have been rumors going around to my husband cuz he is in the navy submarines he is gone all the time.. that i am cheating on him and I'm 7 months pregnant and he doesn't think it is his. I have never cheated i mean im almost 19, he;s the second person i have ever slept with. And I'm an honest out going person.. I love him and he means everything to me. But what if he really doesn't want me.. What man will? Im 7 months pregnant! that means married and with a child.. who would want that.. I just wish he would come to his senses im just scared of whats gonna happen if he doesn't ever wanna be with me again.

2007-06-04 13:57:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We recently found out that his ex wife who recently remarried is wanting to relocate to Texas (my homestate) with her (now) husband and take her son with her after telling my fiance' he can have custody through signing an agreement. This agreement wasn't notarized let me include. We are afraid we'll have to go to court and fight this and we don't have the funds to fight this in court. Can she legally do this having sole physical and legal custody of her son after signing this with my fiance'? Let me also include her now husband and my fiance' are both ARMY in which we have a house here in NY and she's moving to be with her (now) husband in Texas considering he's stationed there and we can't just pick up and leave due to our home purchase. What are the chances we'll get custody of his son without having to deal with court or having to deal with court?

2007-06-04 13:55:25 · 9 answers · asked by Nichole W 1 in Marriage & Divorce