I like this girl and I have asked her to go to a movie out to dinner/lunch coffee ect. Each time she tells me she will have to call me after she checks her schedule but she never does she does flirt back with me when I flirt with her and sometimes she does initiate it. However I have only asked her a few times over the past year or so because I didn't want to look to desperate. Also, I recently graduated from highschool and I had my party this past weekend. She came to the party and we talked for over an hour. Then when she went to leave I walked out with her and asked her to go to lunch with me sometime and she gave me the same response she would call me. I did get a hug and it was a good hug but I really think she is playing hard to get because when I was talking to her her pupils were really big and she would mimic the way I was standing. I just think she wants me to make the first move. I will take guys and girls on this one but would prefer girl
2007-06-04 14:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by Eric S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really like this girl and I can feel that special connection between us but I just dont know if she feels it too.
2007-06-04 14:20:17 · update #1
now that I have asked her I guess I just dont know how long I should wait until I ask her again.(I asked her on Sunday)
2007-06-04 14:26:22 · update #2
u should ask her. Meet or bump into her and get her dinner
2007-06-04 14:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Just Loving It. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.. maybe she like someone else.. a girl has her own limit if she say she'll call u then didn't.. she doesn't have u in her mind..that's a No..doesn't really matter how many time u had ask her out.. .flirting with you doesn't alway mean there's a something between two people.. maybe she wants to be friends but don't want to say no don't want to hurt you... don't guess what the girl thinks.if you wanta know for sure ask her straight and see how she react..if still the same thing... wait awhile.. then you can move on..
2007-06-04 21:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by rainbow_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she is playing hard to get because most of us girls don't know what would happen if they start to like a guy just a little to much and then the boy gets scared and "runs away". She might be a little nervous to call u because she might like u as much as u like her. Don't worry I think she will prolly come around and she might even make the first move ya never know. I hope this helped!
2007-06-04 21:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by K8e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since she wont go out with you....why not get a bunch of people and invite her to tag along? That way she'll feel better about not being alone with you. I say be up front with her. Try to grab her alone one day and just tell her str8 out..."Listen ____ I really like you and been tryin to ge with you for a while. Whats good? Etc"
Man up and step to the plate and blunt about it. I dont mean to sound rude but thats how you got to be. If you see it doesnt go anywhere...let it go....She'll come around once she sees that your not chasing her. Good Luck sweety.
2007-06-04 21:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Luvly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
naw sorry to break it to you.. hard to get is believably for the first couple of weeks or for a month.. but this has been going on for a year
if the girl likes you back the same way you do then she'll be specific about the plans and pickup fromt here
2007-06-04 21:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for me if a lady does not get back she is not interested so i back off and just be friendly --- best wishes
2007-06-04 21:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋