Hi, There have been rumors going around to my husband cuz he is in the navy submarines he is gone all the time.. that i am cheating on him and I'm 7 months pregnant and he doesn't think it is his. I have never cheated i mean im almost 19, he;s the second person i have ever slept with. And I'm an honest out going person.. I love him and he means everything to me. But what if he really doesn't want me.. What man will? Im 7 months pregnant! that means married and with a child.. who would want that.. I just wish he would come to his senses im just scared of whats gonna happen if he doesn't ever wanna be with me again.
2007-06-04 13:57:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand your quandry, unfortunately there is nothing for it but to prove to him that the baby is his. Submarine wives are notorious for being unfaithful, and often when submariners go out it is accepted that she will cheat. If you happen to be one of the few that remain true, then I commend you, and I hope that you are able to convince him of your fidelity.
2007-06-04 18:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor should be able to tell you based on your ultrasound, the day of conception. And since your husband is in the military this could be done at a military hospital for free. Then if you got pregnant when he was there and probably with him then that would take away the doubt of the child not being here. But you two need to address the trust issue cause with him being away often this problem will never go away if you don't build trust. It doesn't help that good women are getting bad reputations because of bad military spouses. But for the moment if you can show that the kid is his then maybe he will realize that the child is his and start back being affectionate.And also the military can do a blood test once the child is born. And this has to be requested and it is free.
2007-06-04 21:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by True 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. Tell the truth and it will all work out for the better. Just tell the truth and offer a paternity test. Offer to go on Jerry Springer and prove to the world that he is your man and there is no other. By the way, having a child at 19 doesn't make you unattractive, or not wanted by men. He will see the light and believe you when he returns and all will be perfect. Just enjoy being pregnant and get on the pill as soon as you have the baby.
2007-06-04 21:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you did not sleep with anyone else you have nothing to worry about.in any case get the paternity test.no man should be tricked into playing daddy to another mans child!if the test shows he is the father then you two will work through it,if not find the other idiot and make him support his child and set your husband free.he deserves better than that! my husbands ex-wife tricked him into thinking that 2 of the kids she had was his they arent she just wants money cause the only job she ever had was laying on her back! good luck i hope you are telling the truth but if you are lying i hope your husband finds out now!
2007-06-04 21:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good realtionship he will trust you. The basis of any good relationship is based on trust. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. I am sorry to hear this. Good luck. And there are men that are out there that would want to be with someone with children. But you have to be ok with yourself before you can be with anyone else.
2007-06-04 21:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by pink 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slow down alittle. First of all you need to be honest, If you didn't do anything just tell him. Second, if he is doubting that your baby is his, you do have a problem. Don't let fear run your life. People will try to tear your world apart, don't let them
2007-06-04 21:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by luteachris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u slept with him 7 or 8 months ago then why would he doubt it? but if u didnt then u got a problem..
2007-06-04 21:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on Maury and take a DNA and lie detector test. Prove to him how far you are willing to go to prove your innocence.
2007-06-04 21:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he should trust you. Also tell him that you can take a test to show him he's the father, but it will cost him dearly. Tell him that he either trusts you, or to take the test and get a divorce.
2007-06-04 21:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋