Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

which one's worst, cheat on someone physically or emotionally?

for me, i think emotionally. becos, physically, you can compete with that. but emotionally, you can't. since wen can you teach a heart? right?

2007-06-04 18:57:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I find the girl thats sitting next to me in class to be really cute, and since I'm a shy/nervous guy (plus I don't want to say something stupid to embarass myself or make me look like an idiot) , I haven't talked to her yet....what's a good icebreaker to start the conversation/possible friendship?

2007-06-04 18:55:11 · 10 answers · asked by mormantie 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother's entering menopause, but that's not the cause of her Bipolar moods, depression, and verbal abuse; fore it has existed for many years now. My father left our family leaving us all verbally and mentally abused. I was the only one who had experienced both forms. Now that it's just the three of us, my mother and younger brother, I am left to be verbally and sometimes physically abused by my intermediate family. Everyday I cry, I plead for them to stop yelling at me, this "family" always takes sides, we gang up on eachother. Everyone is unhappy but my mother is too stubborn to admit that anythings wrong and refuses to get anyone help, plus she blames all our unhappiness on myself. My younger brother reflects an exact image of my father, and curses me daily, for hours even, without me getting a word in edge wise. And if I try to yell back, or defend myself from physical violence, then my mother threatens me with a police call and abandonment. She dreads that she raised a "whore."

2007-06-04 18:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-04 18:51:55 · 16 answers · asked by Tina C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what should i do i like this guy and he a little older then me. but i like him a lot. it like i love him. i liked hime for 2 year or more now. should i let him go or sit him down and talk?

2007-06-04 18:49:37 · 6 answers · asked by katie h 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello this is really been getting to me.
Right now I put tons and tons of effort in to keeping a slim figure. But I hate being on constant alert all the time,. Sometimes I just want to buy a pack of choco chip cookies and sit in front of the computer and gorge.
But I know i'm at the prime age of looks! so I want to keep them a bit longer.
Anway What age do you think I can just forget about having a good hot body. I was thinking when i've had my first child? Does everyone think this is an okay age to relax. Or should i wait till im an old grandma? l

2007-06-04 18:48:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend keeps on smaking my butt and i'm married and completely happy. shes my good friend however she doesnt get it when i tell her i'm married and that's not cool to do that.i know my husband would be furious if he finds out that she keeps making me feel uncomfortable.how or what should i tell her to make her get the point! i mean damm i have 4 kids and a husband what esle do i need to say that she doesnt get?
someone answer this. cuz i'm not trying to be ghetto and really hurt her feelings.

2007-06-04 18:48:11 · 7 answers · asked by # 1 wifey!!! 2 in Friends

I'm 14 and my bf is 16. HE loves me. I think I love him too. But the problem is that i'm thinking that is this relationship right at this age?? what do u guys think? Support ur answers with a reason please. Thank u 4 answering.

2007-06-04 18:45:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to send her a love poem i am 14 and want to send her a perfect poem nothin to fancy like emily dikinson or stuff like tat

2007-06-04 18:44:01 · 4 answers · asked by marcopolo523 1 in Singles & Dating

he cant come back in my life .i cant live without him i accept my mistakes but he cant accept his mistakes?who was wrong may misunderstanding ,doubts,his 5 sisters and mother have ruined my home my marriage life,now i am 24 years old every thing is finished between us.

2007-06-04 18:41:08 · 7 answers · asked by life of rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out recently that I might have a daughter out there and would like to find out the rates for Idaho on child support so I can know how much to set up payments for. I hope to do this with out having to go to court or anything. I'm not the debeat type, just want to do what is right with out being an jerk.
My ex left me while she was pregnant saying the baby wasn't mine, now she's saying it is.

2007-06-04 18:37:57 · 4 answers · asked by shdwkat2099 3 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy and i know that he realy wants to have sex but i'm not sure if i'm ready,but he told me that if i didnt that he would brake up with me.i hate always doin and sayin and acting and wearing cloths a certain way because he makes me but for some reason i do not ever wanna break up with him and he realy dosent need to break up with me help!

2007-06-04 18:37:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 18:36:09 · 6 answers · asked by dip 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my first time is what im talking about.. it hurt when he tried to finger me and it kinda hurts a bit to put a tampon it.. its going to kill isnt it..?? id really like to know.. details please.

2007-06-04 18:32:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok since obviously plenty of ppl didnt understand me earlier im really going to clear it up for everyone i want to spend some alone time together with my girlfriend. but im her first boyfriend so naturally her parents are protective. i just want to know how we can get some more time to eachother to be able to talk and kiss because we seldom get to because of her parents.

2007-06-04 18:30:29 · 2 answers · asked by musicjammer963 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 19 and one of my cousins. he's 22. i think he wants me now. he always says hi to me more then he used to. he smiles at me a lot. he winks at me when people won't notice. he makes signs to me. basically i'm taking hints that he wants me or something. but what should i do i mean he's my cousin and i don't want to do anything with a cousin. that would be so weird.

2007-06-04 18:23:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my b/f's mom pretty much hate each other. Me and my b/f have been together for about 4 years now and she is always depressed b/c her lover on the side doesnt talk to her that often b/c he is MARRIED and she tries to break them up and it doesnt work even though they always mess around.... but anyway.. she always complains about me and tells me to my face pretty much "what I need to do" to where I dont go to her house all the time to spend time with my b/f. (he still lives with his mom because we are in college) She is always talking rude to me and giving me dirty looks and she is just a heartless BI##H if you know what I mean. She always acts like she wants to kill me with her dirty looks and I just cant stand her at all! What do you think I should do?

2007-06-04 18:17:41 · 11 answers · asked by pink_flamingo1211 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-04 18:16:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK women that would have sex with any man, not just the cute guys

2007-06-04 18:11:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

repeats himself twice? I was working closely with a cute guy for a few months, we flirted, laughed, made eye contact the whole time. The project ended last week and on our last day, he says "Yeah, we're done." Then I agreed and seemed somewhat relieved and he said it again, "We're finished".

Does that mean he dislikes my company? Why did he repeat himself twice?

2007-06-04 18:07:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl at a party for the first time, and got her number.

I'm going to ask her out. We are both in our twenties.

What's a good place other than a bar, coffee shop, or movies to go out as friends?

I was thinking going golfing. But it might be expensive for both of us.

What's something cheap we can do and which can get us to interact a lot? I'm not good with conversation

2007-06-04 18:06:58 · 5 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

for simply being me.
don't love me for what you intend or hope that I will be,
and if you're only using me to feed your fantasy,
you're really not in love, so let me go,
i must be free.

-Carpenters

Have you ever been in this kind of relationship?

2007-06-04 17:55:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been w/my husband for 11yrs, married for 4yrs. we're in our late 20s. we hv 3 children together (all by him, of course), where our youngest is just a month old. we've been ok up until 6mos ago, when he ran into an old friend. i found out 2mos later that they were having an affair. he didn't deny it, neither did she. h/ever, she supposedly 'took responsibility for her actions' and assured me she 'backed off'. coincidentally, that's when my husband filed for divorce. recently, i found out that they're still together. btw, she has one kid herself. oh and don't worry, i'm getting him for all that i can and deserve.
but what do u guys make of all this?

2007-06-04 17:55:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-04 17:46:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend and i are close but im her first boyfriend so her parents are really protective understandably. but what should i do so we can get more time with eachother? with out any supervision if you follow.

2007-06-04 17:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by musicjammer963 1 in Singles & Dating

As of right now, my feeling are starting to reappear and it sucks because knowing that the person I am admiring can never be in a relationship with me. What should I do?

2007-06-04 17:42:36 · 10 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

The 2 people are both married to others. One has young children, the other has grown and gone children. The man kept saying goodbye and coming back, but the other one finally said goodbye due to the situation being heartbreaking for her. (The man has the young children).

2007-06-04 17:39:03 · 17 answers · asked by Brownie52 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This has probably been asked before but....

When marriages do you think some people get divorced because it is an easy way out? If you ask me, I would say yes, just look at the divore rates now compared to the past
.
I mean have we become soo lazy that we don't want to even work out our problems? Nothing good comes easy....Just wanna know your opinion

2007-06-04 17:34:07 · 18 answers · asked by a person 5 in Marriage & Divorce

yaar i have a crush on net,
this guy is nice and i have talked to him about three times. i hav started likng him...but
how serious shud i be?

2007-06-04 17:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 17:32:28 · 5 answers · asked by zTeve 2 in Singles & Dating