What should i do?

Question

my girlfriend and i are close but im her first boyfriend so her parents are really protective understandably. but what should i do so we can get more time with eachother? with out any supervision if you follow.

ah nvm ppl are so sex oriented in this day and age. we just want to spend time together to talk and things without her parents. i mean just kissing and stuff never that far just for clarification

Answer 1

You will have to earn their trust. Both of you.

Parents are understandably protective, especially of girls, but if they come to know you and trust you they will probably allow the two of you a little more freedom and privacy.

If you are trying to "get into her pants," though, it's best to move on and find a different girlfriend. I am assuming your intentions are honorable, and when I say you have to earn their trust I mean you don't do anything they don't want you to do. And that means be honorable.

You don't give your ages, but it sounds like both of you are fairly young. Try things like double dating where the two of you aren't alone together.

When her mom and dad think the two of you are able to be trusted alone they'll let you have a longer leash and you can earn more trust and more freedom.

Good luck!

Answer 2

i follow, i stole my girl away pretty much and we ended up getting married....we have been together for 6 years now...we are 21 and 22....

just be prepared for the fact her family is going to say this WITHOUT A DOUBT- "Just because its your 1st boyfriend does not mean you have to stay with him, there are other guys out there"....

every man goes through that.....and it sucks, just one more thing to overcome...so brace yourself for it....

dont tell her you love her until either A. she says it 1st, B, you REALLY feel that way, and C. 2 monthes its not a long time, but falling in loves take about that time...its hard to put a time limit on it...but premature "love" is immature love.


how old are you?

if your 16 and have a car....i suggest things like telling the parents your going to movies....goto the park instead, for walks, picnics, bowling....do NEW stuff she has not done, so everytime she thinks of that new thing she did, she thinks of you..

A PET- get a small pet that you both like, even a gerbil, hamster....pets need love, and if she loves the hamster, she thinks of you....

hope my ideas help you....i have been through all this stuff and have plenty more info for ya if you need it...become on of my "fans" and i can give ya more help.....welcome:)

p.s. goto church together,,,,its good for the image, and for God and your faith...the Lord can help you in the category of love....he has a plan for all of us.

Answer 3

Well, you could have her meet you places when her parents think she's somewhere else, but that can get dodgy. My sisters boyfriend brought my mom a cake and, surprisingly, that worked. They started liking him, and until i caught them making out on the couch, my parents trusted him. lol

Answer 4

Try inviting her to your house. As long as your parents are understanding it won't be a problem. Otherwise try going other places such as the movies, or a friend's house.

Answer 5

go "somewhere"
"movies"
"shopping"
"friends house"
"beach"
and turn ur phones off. if any problems arise later just say the phone died.
be creative, and think of things that could lead to other places(ex. we are going to the movies, and then got hungry so went to dinner, and chilled at so and so's house)

Answer 6

Hang out with her in places besides her house.

Answer 7

ya no wonder her parents are protective, it sounds like u just want in her pants!

Answer 8

group dates or just say shes with freinds and your just one who happens to be tere or just leave the last part out. alos you can see her at places she normally goes to(school, church, work whatever)

Answer 9

ditch the parents

Answer 10

have her tell her parents that she is going out with her "friends"