Me and my b/f's mom pretty much hate each other. Me and my b/f have been together for about 4 years now and she is always depressed b/c her lover on the side doesnt talk to her that often b/c he is MARRIED and she tries to break them up and it doesnt work even though they always mess around.... but anyway.. she always complains about me and tells me to my face pretty much "what I need to do" to where I dont go to her house all the time to spend time with my b/f. (he still lives with his mom because we are in college) She is always talking rude to me and giving me dirty looks and she is just a heartless BI##H if you know what I mean. She always acts like she wants to kill me with her dirty looks and I just cant stand her at all! What do you think I should do?
2007-06-04 18:17:41 · 11 answers · asked by pink_flamingo1211 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Avoid her as much as you possibly can! Don't go over there - be honest with your boyfriend that she stresses you out and you need some space from her. If things get to the point where you decide to get engaged, the 2 of you need to sit down with her while you spell out what kind of relationship you would like with her along with what kind of behavior is acceptable/unacceptable. Ask her if you have done anything in particular to her in the past the has offended her and made your request impossible. If she comes up with anything, really listen to her to see if there is some merit to it. If not, tell her you're sorry she feels that way and that it is your preference that you spend the rest of your lives getting along 'cuz you aren't going anywhere.
2007-06-04 19:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to be a miserable person and you know the saying misery loves company. I would call her lover's wife and let her in on their little arrangement. She will be to busy trying to clean up her own mess that she will stop messing around with you and your boyfriend. Plus, the wife should really know. You really can't reason with heartless pple so I would just stay away from her and wait it out and as soon as you both graduate or sooner if you can afford it get your own place together.
Good Luck!
2007-06-05 01:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by tigger46161 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh. the mom from Hell. I have met a few of those in my life, but they where the ones who thought no girl was ever going to be good enough for their baby boy. you know you can met him at other places besides his house. you can tell him you are not comfy around his mom. If this gets serious between the two of you than you might have to think if you would like to have her as a mother in law. My sister married a man with a mom like that. she pretty much ignores the mom and when they do speak..she kills her with kindness. Good luck
2007-06-05 01:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u love your boyfriend u need to sit his mother down and ask her what the problem is? If u all plan on being to gether its not a good idea to hate the inlaws,
2007-06-05 01:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can sit down and talk with her, but it will never get better. She is definitely jealous of you. You are going to have to give up your boy friend sooner or later. His mother will ruin your relationship down the road.
2007-06-05 02:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, yeah i hear you on this one.
Stay as peachy with her as possible.
Be the bigger person.
And avoid conversation with her as much as possible.
Chances are she's jealous someone's taking her son.
dont' worry about it, i know it bothers you cause you want to vent and such but bringing it up to your boyfriend's going to make it feel like you're attacking her. So... try your hardest. STAY STRONG.
2007-06-05 01:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything. she is just pissed because he "lover" is married and she sees that her son is happy and she wants to be happy and will try to destroy yours and his happiness. just go on with life and being happy with your boyfriend. and if you really want to trip her out, be extra nice to her. trust me. it works. i got so many people to back off of me from being nice to them. remember, keeps your friends close, your enemies closer.
2007-06-05 01:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by WonderBread 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she tells you anything, tell her she had better get her own life in order, before she starts trying to straighten out yours!!
2007-06-05 01:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she just jealous of your happiness.....just sit down with her and ask her wtf her problem is....there no way around it other then that....but if she decides not to listen....be a biach back and just ignore her....two can play the game....remember that...
2007-06-05 01:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dada 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go to her house go somewhere else.
2007-06-05 01:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by william w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋