my first time is what im talking about.. it hurt when he tried to finger me and it kinda hurts a bit to put a tampon it.. its going to kill isnt it..?? id really like to know.. details please.
2007-06-04 18:32:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and also you said ill bleed which i knew but how much exactly.. cuz well itll be on his bed w/o sheets which his dad will see it wont ruin the bed will it?
2007-06-04 18:43:58 · update #1
Not to try to scare you or anything, but yes it is going to hurt. Well, it doesn't hurt for everyone, but if it hurts to put a tampon in, then it will probably hurt for you to have sex. It hurt me really bad the first time, it took like three tries because everytime he would go in me I would make him come back out cuz it hurt so bad. But, if you are relaxed that helps a lot. That really is the main thing. Don't tense up or it WILL hurt more. Another thing is it helps if you are lubricated before, that's what finally worked for us.
I hope this helps = )
2007-06-04 18:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will hurt and more than likely you will bleed. Most women do when their hymen is broken.
Please be sure that you are not wasting that special moment on someone that does not love you. You will truly feel horrible the next day, if you have given your first experience to someone that does not care about you as he should.
2007-06-05 01:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts pretty much the whole time the first time. If he is gentle and goes slow, it hurts a lot less. Explain your nervousness to him, and don't be afraid to ask him to slow down, or whatever you need to make it easier for you.
2007-06-05 01:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by boogy415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really hurt when my boyfriend tried to finger me too...so the first time will probably hurt, yes.
2007-06-05 01:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by rcie1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yer if it hurts putting a tampon in or him fingering you then yer. you may even bleed but it shouldnt hurt as much when you do it the second time.
2007-06-05 01:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my u might need sedation it`s going to be soooooo terrible !! Wonder how 50,000,000 women survived and r still doing it today with pleasure. Relax girl, ur not giving birth to a 15# baby, ur just going to have sex. U will survive.
2007-06-05 01:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women have the same problem . talk to your doctor about it dont be embarased and always use lubracation that will help a lot and try not to get so tense that will help to. good luck
2007-06-05 01:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by susan w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not going to lie. the first time does hurt. it usually takes some time to get used to it. just relax and use some lubricant to help with it all. and please make sure you keep it safe. wish you well.
2007-06-05 01:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry to tell u but it prob will....i had the same prob as u b4 i did it and it hurt alot... i recomend A LOT of lube tho...it makes it a little easier...good luck!
2007-06-05 01:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by hana chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts alot if its your first time.
try getting fingered more than once.
its the best way to get used to it.
2007-06-05 01:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋