I'm 14 and my bf is 16. HE loves me. I think I love him too. But the problem is that i'm thinking that is this relationship right at this age?? what do u guys think? Support ur answers with a reason please. Thank u 4 answering.
2007-06-04 18:45:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I remember when I had my first boyfriend when I was 14. It was absolute bliss. The feeling you get from a first love is something to be cherished as its scary and exciting at the same time. Its different when you get older. Sure enough its still exciting beginning a new relationship, but the feeling is different. When you're young you mistake lust for love, although I dont doubt you love your boyfriend, the things we do when we are younger are over-dramatised and somethings we do are just down right stupid. It all comes down to life experience. As you get older you will meet many different men and hopefully you will learn life lessons from some of them. 14 is hardly an age where you expect to meet your life partner. Take it easy girlfriend and enjoy your youth. And dont be too tied up with having a boyfriend, its awesome being single too.
2007-06-04 18:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try into rush love. You really need time to see what your options are. There are plenty of guys out there. Sit down and write a list of the most important things you want in a guy. Then try to find as close to that as possible. That is when you should give your love and emotions to the relationship, and not before then. You have plenty of time to just enjoy other guys until the right one comes along. Have fun. These are wonderful years if you don't fall into some undeserving guy's trap. Good Luck!
2007-06-05 01:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your feelings are right and usually your first instinct is always the right one. You are too young to be in a relationship or think your in love. If you think it's wrong than just know it probably is wrong. Don't grow up to fast. You haven't even started living yet. You sound very smart, keep on using that brain. It's ok to just have friends, why title it?
2007-06-05 01:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation arise in everybody's life, so don't worry at all. But you should stick to some rules to make your future better and brighter. You should know about your bounds and boundries. Your parents are expecting more from you don't let them down. Concentrate on your carreer first, if your studies going fine then you can do what ever you want. You have every right to live your life according to your likes and dislikes. I wish you all the best for your bright future.
2007-06-05 02:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mad Tech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See dear , Ur r not sure that u love him or not . But i will tell u that u are probably small . Not all the guys bcoz i m not like that just think for using u . Sorry but it is the fact .
2007-06-07 07:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO dear love can be had at any time. but it is the time to concentrate in studies that becomes the steps of your career there is so much time for love, life and marriage life and anything. Time will not stand for any body else it is our duty to do according to our time.
2007-06-05 02:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by suja kumari.b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know what could happen. You guys could actually stay together for awhile. I've had boyfriends that were a year or two older than me. It depends on your maturity and how bad you want this is to work.
2007-06-05 01:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you guys really know what love is.
It's fine to have a relationship and it's fun to be in one, but don't go overboard.
Even if you do think you love him, don't go and have sex with him or anything like that... not till your older and more sure anways.
2007-06-05 01:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are a bit young. But that is not a reason to end a relationship.
2007-06-05 01:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by R.L. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No . This is puppy love. Too young.
2007-06-05 01:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by greentea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋