The 2 people are both married to others. One has young children, the other has grown and gone children. The man kept saying goodbye and coming back, but the other one finally said goodbye due to the situation being heartbreaking for her. (The man has the young children).
2007-06-04 17:39:03 · 17 answers · asked by Brownie52 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO, sounds like one of those romance novels..... will never work. Most answers I read sound like there's lots of romantics here. REMEMBER........What goes around, comes around. On top of everything you are "so called" robbing the cradle if your children are grown.....HUH?
2007-06-04 18:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by SNOOP 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say just get it done with a leave your spouses. That would be the best thing for everyone involved. The spouses deserve better than to be cheated on and you both should just be together if you truly love each other. You can still be good parents even if you are not married to your children's mother or father.
Good Luck!
2007-06-04 17:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by tigger46161 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can they truely know if they love each other if their hearts are still bound to another person? If they are no longer wanting to be married they need to leave their spouses and then try dating...if that works then consider marriage. Once they are separate and free from their marriages and it is no longer an affair which can be exciting and thrilling for those involved, can they really decide if they are meant to be together. Affairs are often built on lies and alot of misleading thoughts and feelings so the likely hood is slim that outside an affair it would last but there is a small possiblity that it could work...they need to leave their spouses first to figure it out! Hope this helps!
2007-06-04 17:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes love is not enough. There can be so many other difficulties involved that it is impossible to make things work. Best to move on when the hurdles become to huge. If you don't you will build up a lot of resentment inside, and the relationship will be doomed anyway.
That is his children. Believe me they will always come first. It is not competing against another woman. They are part of him, and there is no way to get pass that.
2007-06-04 17:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they love each other as you say they do then why did they hurt the ones they married the ones they were supposed to love the rest of their lives..i understand that sometimes people fall out of love with one another....however if they fall in love with other why not leave the person there were with before...its a very confusing situation.....if it were a married couple we were talking about i would very well say yes they can over come anything in life as long as they are together...but this is two people who have broken up their families...they are selfish....i hate people who do this why get married in the first place...just to tear up a family in the end i know that no body ever wants this and sometimes divorces just happen..but this time around and in many siutations people make it happen....
2007-06-04 17:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by adrik c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One would like to believe yes. But sometimes the journey is so tough that you are changed permanently by the time you get there.
She/He would have to permanently damage thir kids to get what they want. Thats not fair to them, so looking at love/destiny from afar is as close as you can get. At least until the situation changes, like the kids all grow up. If the heat is still there then happy times.
I happen to be in kind of the same boat...but its me and not people i know.
Good luck to them.
2007-06-04 17:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by boscatman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately God does not bless mess Get in line with God's will for your lives and stop chasing flesh. When you decide to live in spirit and not flesh your life shall be filled with love. A love that is tailored made for you so that no one else could set in the pressence of your love and be comfortable. God will make a man or woman just for you.
2007-06-04 17:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by ImJustSayn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the sugarcoat is taken off, you have 2 cheaters who found all the excuses just to keep the status quo --- in the name of love, of course and no less. See that in soap operas all the time.
2007-06-04 22:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a bad situation because their both married and have their own lives and then they meet and whats left everything ruined kids got to switch homes and everything is terrible and everybody hates the 2 love birds (have absolutely guessing right here)
2007-06-04 17:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by teresa w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How romantic, this adulterous affair of which you speak. Your question as it appeared seemed so fairy tale like, but when I got to the detailed part, I had to sigh, in disgust. Give me a break, if he hasn't left he won't. If he does leave, what's to stop him from leaving you when he finds something better? Nothing, that's what.
2007-06-04 17:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋