he cant come back in my life .i cant live without him i accept my mistakes but he cant accept his mistakes?who was wrong may misunderstanding ,doubts,his 5 sisters and mother have ruined my home my marriage life,now i am 24 years old every thing is finished between us.
2007-06-04 18:41:08 · 7 answers · asked by life of rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think it though. Think the entire situation through in your head. Once you think you've thought it through enough and come up with a reasonable solution, think about it again. Soon, if you think you might be able to salvage your relationship at all, then work it over in your head of how you are going to have to aplologize/work it out/etc. If you go over and nothing comes up of how you can repair your relationship, then at least now you can settle your mind and know that you thought it all through. There is some peace in knowing that you've thought of 'everything.'
2007-06-04 18:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by .::Bri::. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you CAN live without him...after all, you are living, right? If he won't forgive you, and has left you over "little"mistakes, you didn't want him in the first place. Marriage is tough, and nobody handles it perfectly, after all, we're all human. We ALL make little mistakes, sometimes we even make HUGE mistakes. I know I have, and my husband hasn't run screaming for the door. If he's put his mother and sisters ahead of you as well, then you REALLY didn't want him.
Honestly, you're probably going to be better off without him in your life, from what you're telling me. You're 24 years old, you have alot of life ahead of you. No one is mature before 24 anyway, heck, lots of people aren't mature after 24. Learn from the mistakes you made, be a strong, independent woman, and the next relationship will be better for all of this that you're going through now. You will get through this, it's going to take time. But you will get through this, and one day you'll look back on this and wonder why in the world you were so upset over that jerk? Hang in there!
2007-06-04 18:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not blame yourself for whatever has happened. If it is really all over, you need to find a way to move on with your life. You will find that life can continue without him, but you need to look after yourself well. You are young, your life is still in front of you. Things will get better. Don't give up on yourself!
Good luck.
2007-06-04 22:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say if he aint interested now and ready to forgive then he aint the one for you
Move on
2007-06-08 09:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
define mistakes and see why you are not together mistakes if i can read this right dont happen in a marrage those kind end a marrage something called you forgot your wedding vows . my opion?
2007-06-04 19:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT HAPPENS HAPPENS!! and like i say everything happens for a reason but i wonder is there any kids in this marriage??
2007-06-04 19:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by **Arlene13** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant he come back and and why cant you live with out him and what were yours and his mistakes
2007-06-04 21:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋