Family & Relationships - 4 June 2007

im in a friends with benifits relationship. i want him to want me to be his girlfriend. i know thats what he wants to. i want to back off and tell him im looking to find a serious relationship and cant mess around with him anymore, to see what he does. should i?

2007-06-04 15:56:39 · 15 answers · asked by bqbalchick 2 in Singles & Dating

Should i break up with my boyfriend? His name is Nate and we have been together for 7 months. He never calls! My friends hate him because he is rude 2 them. He is aslo sometime rude 2 me. :-( He is sometimes sweet though... Their are lots of other boys that want to go out with me so it's not like i will be single long so..... I don't know what 2 do! PLEASE HELP!!!!! Should i break up with him?????

2007-06-04 15:54:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you ever feel like you're being pressured?

2007-06-04 15:54:44 · 7 answers · asked by shhhhhhhhhh 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok. There is this girl that I'm pretty sure that I've been in love with for about 2 years ago when i met her. And then, the day I finally decide to pick up my phone and call her, I look at her MySpace and she changed her name and everything and wrote little notes saying how much she loves this new person. And I think that she is supposed to be moving at the end of the summer. What do I do?

2007-06-04 15:49:51 · 9 answers · asked by AdmiralAckbar 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

lately my friends don't want to hang out with me, it seems my boyfriend doesn't love me the way he used to (its been eight months together). My friends don't like him, they don't even know him but all they care about is that i'm not spending as much time together (in my opinion -- very self centered). I don't know if i still believe the values of my religion any more. I just got grounded from going to my boyfriend's house because of some of the things we do there (found out my mom saves my msn conversations). I'm grounded off msn for the time being. This summer all i'm doing is babysitting two kids with possibly no connection to the outer world. I just don't know where to go from here. Please ... any advice? It just seems like everything is going wrong. What would happen if i ran away?

2007-06-04 15:44:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd been dating this guy for almost 2 years and I recently found out that he has married someone else. And he wasn't even man enough to tell me. I found out when I saw his wedding photo in a magazine. How crummy is that? And yet he continued to call me as though everything between us was still good and when I asked him about his new marriage he acted as though he didn't know what I was talking about and HE had the nerve to get mad! I just don't understand how he could not tell me. Why would he do that? Did he think I was so crazy in love with him that I would continue to see him even after he married someone else. Hell, I didn't even know he was seeing anyone else but apparently I was wrong.

2007-06-04 15:43:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister has a friend that hasn't been told how to do it at the age of 20. my sister doesn't kmow if she should tell her or if she should leave it alone.

2007-06-04 15:35:04 · 10 answers · asked by APG 1 in Friends

My friend said he would. I think he's full of it

2007-06-04 15:34:50 · 9 answers · asked by Tom 1 in Singles & Dating

I prolly sound so desperate or watever, but i really want to kno what you guys think! I mean one week you go for one type the next time another! Come on, Tell me wat goes on in your head when you see a girl! What do you notice most about the girl?

2007-06-04 15:32:30 · 17 answers · asked by confused. 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy a lot. Every night he calls me and we stay on the phone for hours. Not too long ago we had our senior prom and he asked me to dance with him and I did. To tell the truth, I felt like we were the only 2 people there. Today in school he was holding me and biting on my arm and ear. My friends told me that he wanted to ask me to be his date 4 the prom but he was shy. I feel like Fantasia is singing her song "When I see you" to me because the things she mention in the song I constantly do. I tingle inside when I hear his voice. When I dream about him, I don't feel like getting up. It seems like every time I think about him, I get a phone call and its him. Is it true that if you're thinking someone they are usually thinking about you 2 ? My mom always tells me to follow my heart but I don't know what to do. We graduate on the 27, What should I do ? If you have time, listen to Fantasia song then give me advice so you can get a better picture of what's going on.

2007-06-04 15:30:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm reposting this one. Wondering what you're thinking if it bothers you and if it does is it old fashioned values or just jealousy that is the cause?

2007-06-04 15:27:52 · 15 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom is punishing me for lifting up my sisters and her friends skirts she is making me wear a skirt and other girl clothes right now, she told me i can just see what its like myself,she also said that if anyone wants to see me in it they can they just have to ask, freaking embarrassing, not fair?

2007-06-04 15:12:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I think they do. You over analize things when you know a lot of information. I think you become dull just for the simple fact that you do not know the current trends. I wouldn't trade laughing my butt off almost pissing my pants at the stupidest things like jokes (being rick roll'd even though I didn't know what it meant) for being knowledgable about non-fictional information.

2007-06-04 15:11:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it's not exactly real life, but the TV show The Bachelor seemed to support this idea. If it is true, then is it best to make the guy work in order for him to like you?

2007-06-04 15:09:48 · 3 answers · asked by L K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 15:07:09 · 36 answers · asked by ~!*D!$T@NT LUV3R*!~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-04 15:06:43 · 9 answers · asked by estrella 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 15:00:50 · 10 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-04 15:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by littlefoot3354 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married at 6:30 On June 13th 2009 and my dress is ivory with champagne accents and his tux is the same as far as the wedding party most likely we will pick champagne with ivory accents but we need an additional color or to incorporate for things like flowers and decorations . Even though its in the evening we still want to have at least one bright color ..maybe some kind of organge...I dont know im lost and cant think any more. any links with pictures of color schemes would be greatly appreciated too. Thank You in Advanced.

2007-06-04 14:59:22 · 11 answers · asked by Futurebride 3 in Weddings

i want to know if i am attractive

i have straight black hair that comes to about me shoulder
i have hazel eyes
i am shy around boys i like
im not a girly girl
i hate sports
i have quite a bit of friends (1/2 girls 1/2 boys)
i love to read books(not romanticy lovey dovey books more action books)
i am skinny(not sick skinny)
not over weight but not under
im not short but not tall

what do you think?

2007-06-04 14:59:07 · 35 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 years old, almost 20 and my parents still tell me what to do. Not small stuff like take out the garbage tonight or mow the lawn sometime today like come in my room and tell me to go do the dishes now. -almost like a boss would tell their employee to stop whatever they are doing and do this instead and it bothers the hell out of me! it's not them asking or even telling me to do something, it's the do it now! thing that irritates me.
I'm ready to move out; I would prefer to move out. I even had the apartment picked out and a room mate and my mom started crying and my dad asked me to please stay. So I agreed.
So the next time I'm doing something and they tell me to go wash the dishes now or feed the dogs now! and I tell them I'll get to them when I get finished and refuse to stop whatever I'm doing, even if it's something stupid like watching something on TV, what do you all think is going to happen?

2007-06-04 14:54:39 · 37 answers · asked by simply_college 3 in Family

im getting married and i really dont no what to do when i have no brothers and i dont speak to my father because of child history with him what shold i do?

2007-06-04 14:53:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend comes from a very traditional Italian family. While he is more modern than what his upbring taught him, he still believes in a lot of traditional gender roles. As do I. I went to school, have a degree and work full time. We both believe in equal financial contributions to the home and equal responsiblities with child care (we don't have kids, yet) He also does believe in helping with chores; however, we both agree that the wife tends to over see the domestic upkeeping of the home. I was raised that way, as was he.

The problem is, I'm domestically challenged; despite growing up with a mother who had a pristinely kept home. I'm afaird my inability to have a well kept home will reflect badly on me to my in-laws. My FMIL is an amazing cook and has a nice home. My bf brother's wives (all 3 of them) are also great cooks and have lovely homes.

I believe in a clean house, but can't seem to kept it neat all the time. I'm a bit scattered and not well organized.

2007-06-04 14:53:24 · 10 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

when we walked into the breakroom together on our way to eat lunch together, he suddenly sounded different. (because it was the first time we were away from our coworkers) It was weird. I always sensed that he liked me, but his voice changed, and I can't really explain it. It was like he had to work harder to make it come out or something and it got slightly lower and louder. At work (with others around) he talked to me (and only me) in a gentle and softer voice.

????????

2007-06-04 14:53:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it true? Even if they are married, or engaged, or in a serious relationship.. that they are still checking out other woman?

Are there any guys out there that can honestly say that they aren't interested in other woman, and don't check them out?

I've heard it's a guy thing.. it's genetic.. so that means, that there is NO GUY out there that isn't drooling over the hot blonde with the big boobs?

I just find it hard to believe.. especially from a girls point of view.. I know from my own perspective, that I don't go around checking out other guys, whether I'm with my boyfriend, or out with the girls....

So is there a variety.. or are all men the same??

2007-06-04 14:52:48 · 20 answers · asked by lilchikka2005 4 in Singles & Dating

many boys at my sschool like girls that look like tooth picks. (no offence to anyone) but they are so skinny and some don't eat, but boys like to go out with them any way. I'm bigger and a little plump, but still skinny. why don't guys like me?

2007-06-04 14:47:20 · 22 answers · asked by love_tinkygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

GUYS:

If a girl was like 18, 19, or 20 and beyond and has never had a boyfriend before would you give her a chance?
Do guys really care if a girl has never had a bf before?
Would guys not want to be with a girl because she has never had a relationship before?

2007-06-04 14:47:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 3 years, we just recently had some trouble when i caught him having online affairs, we worked through it and i am 100% confident he is not cheating, but for some unrenounced reason he has little to no interest in a sex life with me.... and when i question him on it he says he likes to be coaxed into it, or that he doesn't always feel like having sex that he's tired and stressed out about "work Stuff". But it makes me feel dirty, and like i'm forcing him into sex with me, because i'm always trying to initiate it, and 3/4 of the time he makes some excuse why he doesn't want it... and it usually leaves me feeling self-conscious and depressed about myself, and I'll let it go for a few months then i usually end up blowing up or breaking down, but nothing ever gets solved. what should i do?

2007-06-04 14:43:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and when was the 1st time you had sex

2007-06-04 14:43:08 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, Im 13. I makeout all the time. I kinda hop around. I have a new boyfriend usually each month. My longest relationship was 3 months. Like the first time I madeout I was 11 I think and I want to go farther but most of my friends are just starting to makeout and they always talk about how they don't want to do oral til highschool at least. I really want to though. Should I just do it and not tell them about it or just not do it? And the reason I am more experienced than them is cause I date highschoolers like 16 year olds and they pressure me to do more but I do want to. I just don't know wat to do cuz i wan2 do all this stuff but my friends totally disagree...help!?

2007-06-04 14:40:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends