Please help me!?

Question

ok, Im 13. I makeout all the time. I kinda hop around. I have a new boyfriend usually each month. My longest relationship was 3 months. Like the first time I madeout I was 11 I think and I want to go farther but most of my friends are just starting to makeout and they always talk about how they don't want to do oral til highschool at least. I really want to though. Should I just do it and not tell them about it or just not do it? And the reason I am more experienced than them is cause I date highschoolers like 16 year olds and they pressure me to do more but I do want to. I just don't know wat to do cuz i wan2 do all this stuff but my friends totally disagree...help!?

Answer 1

Honestly, I'm going to give you the same answer as anyone else... don't feel pressured to do anything and you are too young to do this. However, I say that you are too young not because I don't think you're mature enough to handle this but because I know that you will regret it later (not think, but know). Also, by doing this stuff will get you nothing but a bad reputation. You may think this is cool and fun now, but when you're a sophomore in highschool and you've given blowjobs to guys who are older than you, you will have no respect and no chance at a real relationship. When you are much older, and possibley have a husband, you will wish you will have saved yourself for him and feel very regretful. I know it's hard, and I didn't exactly answer your question, but please take my answer into consideration. Please trust me about this.

Answer 2

Well, this is going to hurt a little, but here's the truth. You are crazy to be making out with someone when you are 11 years old! You don't even need to date until you are at leas 15 I think. You don't need to do anything else, at all. I am 13 as well, and I have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend, and I am perfectly fine with that. There is no need to do anything like that at our age. And, guess what. The reason is coming out on you right now. You are wanting to do more and more things with guys, and I'm sure that you know that some of them are completely wrong. You need to know that you don't need to even have a boyfriend. It might be hard, but you just need to stop. Stop right in your tracks. Don't make out any more. Don't date anymore. Just stop. You will end up doing things that are completely wrong if you keep going at this rate. And, you really should NOT be dating 16 year old guys! That is just rediculous! I know I am being hard on you, but I am just trying to prove a point. You need to stop this. You are headed down a road that you do not want to go down. It isn't too late to stop, but eventually it will be. So, stop while you can. Talk to your parents if they don't know that you have been doing these things. Hopefully they will help you. Just stop while you still have a chance.

Answer 3

woowww girl u date 16 year olds.. look at youuu ur blingin (mingin)
anyway, lol aww i think i heard this story b4 u jst wanna be popular so much.. but the future is ahead of u.. why would u do oral if u only want to do it to impress people.. why do u need to impress them will they help u when ur down??? just think about it

Answer 4

your so young! do it? you should wait... but it really is up to you. you dont wanna become pregnant. i read an article about this 12year old girl and she had 4 kids already n was pregnant with another. in my opinion, i wouldnt do it. you seem to be a little well... thats all im saying. PLUS! YOU DONT WANT TO DO ANYTHING RASH!

Answer 5

Wait.

Answer 6

i'd rather you won't do it, but it's up to u. really... u don't want 2 have a child when ur only 15 or something

Answer 7

be careful!
I'm you age to and my kriend thinks wsahe might be pregnant
and never trust all guys
only if there someone who woulkd take time and CARE about you
trust me

Answer 8

you're moving WAY too fast and will wind up Pregnant if you dont be careful! Don't have sex, stop making out, or you will be called nasty names

Answer 9

do it