I'd been dating this guy for almost 2 years and I recently found out that he has married someone else. And he wasn't even man enough to tell me. I found out when I saw his wedding photo in a magazine. How crummy is that? And yet he continued to call me as though everything between us was still good and when I asked him about his new marriage he acted as though he didn't know what I was talking about and HE had the nerve to get mad! I just don't understand how he could not tell me. Why would he do that? Did he think I was so crazy in love with him that I would continue to see him even after he married someone else. Hell, I didn't even know he was seeing anyone else but apparently I was wrong.
2007-06-04 15:43:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say it but he was using you for the booty....
2007-06-04 15:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by ~~Steve~~ 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Most men can be and are honest; however, the few that aren't give a bad name to the rest.
Regarding your situation, I think that it is awful what happened. Just as a caution, are you sure that the guy in the picture was the guy you were dating? Can you check any county record to see if he is married or not. Maybe it is a terrible misunderstanding. In any event, if it is not, I am sorry that you happen to find one rotten apple.
I just beg you not to judge all of us for this one. Most of us will not even consider hiding anything from our loved ones.
2007-06-04 15:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, some men just are not man enough to be honest. Sad... yes, very sad but true. He was probably hoping to have his cake and eat it too. We pursue relationships in good faith and in hopes that we are subjecting ourselves to something enduring... but that is not always the case. Some men are selfish, immature and still have a lot of growing up to do and yes, they do get tend to get upset when they are caught up in their mess... ha! Funny, isn't it... and what makes it even more humorous is the fact that he probably wasn't even thinking when he allowed his wedding photo to be published in the magazine. Don't stress over it girl... look at it as him doing you a favor! He's a pathetic soul... and will remain one... but you.... you will continue to be a woman worthy of a good man! Brush it off and keep your life moving in search of something bigger and better!
2007-06-04 16:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dogs will be dogs, boys will be boys, men will be men, sin will be sin! There is no answer for your question. Some men can be honest, but the majority of them CAN'T! It's a sad reality. But think about how you can do a better job of finding things out like this sooner. There are always signs that a man is married, gay or cheating. Most times we women excuse these signs! Honor all signs, and Ignore none!!! I'm sorry this has happened to you!
2007-06-04 15:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why can't women be straight forward and rational? Why do they need to play head games and make men guess all the time? Why can't woman drive? Are you getting tired of the broad, baseless stereotypes yet? I am.
Why can't you accept the fact that men aren't liars as a gender but that you simply have bad taste in men, and have let your bad choices poison you against an entire gender?
2007-06-04 16:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by cornswalled 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you girl, LOL, but look at it this way why can't women be honest with men either? Seems like some people are and some are not, those who are sometimes have to deal with those who are not. I can't believe he did this to you.
2007-06-04 15:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is the deal to h*** with him and her. Leave him and her alone and find someone new. No matter what their both stupid and you deserve a better chance at happiness.
Good Luck and God Bless!
2007-06-04 15:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can only speak for myself. I can't lie because I can't remember what the lie is so I ending screwing up and getting into trouble
2007-06-04 15:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If men are honest, then they can't have their cake and eat it too!--as apparently this dummy has been enjoying until he was busted!!
2007-06-04 15:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow!...Ouch!
You don't want a man that thinks so little of others anyway.
Let the great pretender move on with his new wife. (poor wife. :(
You dodged that bullet girl!..whew! :)
Count your blessings. :)
2007-06-04 15:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are just that way. Well most of them at least.
2007-06-04 15:48:36 · answer #11 · answered by ~Katie~ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋