Is it true? Even if they are married, or engaged, or in a serious relationship.. that they are still checking out other woman?
Are there any guys out there that can honestly say that they aren't interested in other woman, and don't check them out?
I've heard it's a guy thing.. it's genetic.. so that means, that there is NO GUY out there that isn't drooling over the hot blonde with the big boobs?
I just find it hard to believe.. especially from a girls point of view.. I know from my own perspective, that I don't go around checking out other guys, whether I'm with my boyfriend, or out with the girls....
So is there a variety.. or are all men the same??
2007-06-04 14:52:48 · 20 answers · asked by lilchikka2005 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.s I really don't check out other guys and drool over them.. thats why i find it hard to believe that there isn't GUYS who are like me, who really don't care to look.. because they are happy with who they have..
2007-06-04 15:03:36 · update #1
I think it depends on the guy. No 2 are alike.
2007-06-04 14:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by christina_victoria2002 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that ALL men do (or all women). Yeah, a lot of guys will still look at other women even when they are in relationships. So what? Looking is harmless and I'd wonder about a guy who didn't do that. I KNOW I'm not the hottest thing on earth...I don't assume if he looks at someone else that he wants to be with them or have sex with them...just like if we see a pretty painting or structure we don't necessarily want to own it. We can still appreciate that it's a thing of beauty.
I check out other guys when I'm dating...I'm human and I have eyes. Only someone insecure would have a problem with their partner noticing others...now if he wolf-whistles, stares for an extended period of time, or tries to catch their attention, that's another story.
2007-06-04 14:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if it didn't cause such pain to the person they loved, more men would cheat. But, there are also many men who take their vows seriously. Why worry about something that may or may not happen? You never know what will occur in life. As far as really loving someone and cheating - yes a man can really love a woman and cheat; it is sex or a moral booster and they never think they will get caught. It is when they see the pain they caused and then do it again that they prove the only love they have is for theirself. And you asked about men; that is why I am not bringing up cheating women; we know women cheat also.
2016-03-13 05:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone tends to evaluate the attractiveness of other people. Men do it to other men and women do it with other women; it's just natural. When I am walking down the street with my boyfriend and a pretty woman walks by, I know that he thinks she is attractive. I obviously noticed that she was attractive too. However, I know he isn't thinking of leaving me for her and I know he's not thinking about her when he falls asleep so I don't let it bother me. Your man will always find other women attractive. It's only a problem if he acts on it, or if you can't let it stop bothering you. If your boyfriend is obviously ogling other women while you are out together, then that is just rude and you shouldn't stand for a guy who knowingly plays on your insecurities. But if you only suspect that he noticed the pretty blonde out of the corner of his eye, then just let it go.
2007-06-04 15:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by koi-ness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's true. All guys check out all women with in eye shot no matter what kind of relationship they are in.
The only guys who could say they never check out other women are the very old or the very religious.
Now not every guy likes a blonde with big boobs(I like brunettes with big boobs myself)
There is only a slight variety...maybe 5% of guys don't check out other women.
2007-06-04 14:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If men don't check out other women (even if they're in a serious relationship) then they must be gay. It's in our blood to want to reproduce (men and women).
But! A man might check out a woman, but be really discreet. The only person who's going to know if they 100% don't check out other women, is the man himself.
Hope that helps. So to answer your question, us men, like to look at the menu and drool. Doesn't mean it's what we're having.
2007-06-04 14:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha ha.. i find it funny that there are girls in here saying "my man does not, he only has eyes for me.. " LOL..
all guys do, if not when they are with you, they do it while they are out with their mates, or out on their own. It does not mean that they love or like you any less, or even want them instead of you. If you find something pretty, then you look at it. Be it a sports car or a nice pair of shoes. Then there are those girls out there who dress so that people DO look at them, it would be a shame to let all thier hard work go to waste.
Nate
2007-06-04 15:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by nate.w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not that we are constantly checking out other women. i love my girlfriend more than n e thing in the world. but that doesnt mean i cant find other women attractive. i would never cheat or hurt her in n e way. but if i c an attractive woman i do look. its just looking. look no touch. wats wrong with looking n e way.i spend a second to look at another woman, im with her all the time. and like i said i love her,i just also love the attractive female form. is it wrong to take a second to appreciate another work of beauty?
2007-06-04 14:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing variety.
I don't check out other girls. But the girl I'm kinda with checks out other guys. It hurts like carp. Yes, fish carp.
I say variety.
I'm not very interested in the physical aspects, though people tell me I'm a very sexy and exceptionally handsome guy. It's probably something people learn and grow with.
I don't care about physical or sexual attraction really.
2007-06-04 14:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying YOU never check out other guys? I mean, not even George Clooney or Brad Pitt? Married isn't DEAD, you know. You can love your spouse but appreciate a pretty young girl's looks or a young man's abs. As long as he doesn't touch, you have no worries.
2007-06-04 14:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you honestly say that that you have not seen a guy that has not made you think "He's hot", He's built" or anything similar?
Yes, most guys will look. Some are crude and make remarks, some don't say anything but you can catch him looking. Only a God fearing Christian man will not look at another woman with lust.
2007-06-04 14:58:21 · answer #11 · answered by Cheryl S 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋