Should i break up with my boyfriend? His name is Nate and we have been together for 7 months. He never calls! My friends hate him because he is rude 2 them. He is aslo sometime rude 2 me. :-( He is sometimes sweet though... Their are lots of other boys that want to go out with me so it's not like i will be single long so..... I don't know what 2 do! PLEASE HELP!!!!! Should i break up with him?????
2007-06-04 15:54:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok. if you dont like this guy dont drag it out any longer than it has to go. it can make everything go sadly wrong if you pretend to be or force your self to like him. personally if i was dating a girl who did this (because... i dont date guys) i would tell her first. especially since you two have been dating for a fair amount of time. just tell him that you really dont appreciate how rude he can be to you and your friends. tell him you wish he would call more often to talk with you. if he doesnt take these hints or change his ways than he really doesnt care as much about you as he should and there are plenty more out there who really would care about you. it really makes me happy to know when i do something special for my gf and it should in my oppenion be the same way for your bf.
2007-06-04 16:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by musicjammer963 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are complicated, but there are some golden rules that should apply to every one;
1. The way he treats you &
2: The way he treats your freinds
If he's treating you both like crap (not calling, being rude, etc), then that's something you need to discuss and address. If he's unwilling to change, it's a deal breaker. You do not need to be with someone who isn't worthy of you! Especially if you have other prospects.
But the question is....do you need a boyfreind? You say you have other boys who will go out with you, so you won't be single long. That sounds like you don't really like any of these boys for real! You just want a boyfreind. If that's the case, then it doesn't matter if you break up with this one or not; the relationship isn't even deep enough to consider keeping it. The next one won't be any different. You need to be with someone because you care for them, not because you just want a boyfreind. So if you don't care enough for this guy to keep him, dump his butt....and find someone that you CAN care about!
2007-06-04 16:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by hrgirl1701 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Nate is rude to you you should dump him. Life is to short to stay with someone who doesn't treat you good. I have been through several bad relationships and am to the point that I would rather be alone than to be treated badly. You deserve to be treated with kindness, gentleness, and respect. You go out there and get a guy who is sweet and kind.
2007-06-04 16:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably young and many more boys and men even will come your way. Dont settle until you know the one you have is perfect for you....only you kno how you TRULY feel. And if you break up with him, that doesnt automatically mean you have to go out with someone else, there is nothing wrong with being single for a while and playing your cards..see who you are really interested in and get to know them.
2007-06-04 15:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Monica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that by letting this guy treat you this way is saying something about you... That you dont care if you get treated badly... I dont think thats true... You dont need to worry about being single, you need to worry about being happy... If your not happy then your not in a good situation... But only you can make your own decisions and only you can make the decision as to weather your happy or not... Your friends are your family that you can pick... So ask yourself, would your family treat you the way this guy does???
Only you can decide if this guy is right for you but i think that if you need to ask if you should break up then you have already answered your own question...
Goodluck
2007-06-04 16:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too bad that you think of it all in terms of not being single.
You make it sound like maybe you'd hang on to him longer if there weren't other guys out there ready to go out with you. That's kind of low.
You should have the guts to break up with someone or stay with them regardless of anything else.
Guess what? One day you'll be old and you won't have those options. So, really. You need to respect people more.
2007-06-04 16:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say that you guys can go out sometimes but that you want to keep your options open. Don't get a steady boyfriend go out on a few dates with a couple of other guys. By the way, you should be actually going out with him if he is rude to your friends and especially if he is sometimes rude to you.
2007-06-04 15:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't call, he's not interested anymore. Simple as that. But, he of course sounds like a jerk, so, you should either do:
A. Break up with him now.
Or B: Do what some girls do and get him interested in you again and then dump his azz.
2007-06-04 16:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by aliesterc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him being rude to others. Let him know. Tell him to stop being rude or declare a break up. May be he'll change.
2007-06-04 16:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that guy is a A$ sometimes just dump him onto the corner. Every person deserves someone who will pay attention to them.
2007-06-04 15:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by mnkydude88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋