What makes a girl pretty or desirable? ( for guys only! )?

Question

I prolly sound so desperate or watever, but i really want to kno what you guys think! I mean one week you go for one type the next time another! Come on, Tell me wat goes on in your head when you see a girl! What do you notice most about the girl?

Answer 1

The first thing i notice in a girl is how much pride she takes in her presentation. I dont mind a girl who gets around in daggy pants on a rainy day around the house, but when out and about in the public eye, i want someone who looks after themselves.

mentally:
passion for life / happy disposition
positive attitude
Independent

physically:
flat stomach
tight bum
a girl who likes to look after herself

Answer 2

Well, if you are that girl, you should realize that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there are some ppl that don't think that a hot actress is really that pretty. I heard someone say that about Leighton Meester. And she is hot. OK, to answer your question, your appearance is a "foot in the door" so do your best. Use some make up and get advice from cosmetics counters in dept. stores. Dress neatly (no need to wear skin tight clothes, but try to get clothes that fit). You can get nice, reasonably priced, fashionable clothes at Target, Macys, etc. Also Ross and TJ Maxx. Artificial eyelashes can help alot. If you need corrective lenses, consider soft contact lenses but be sure to keep them clean, don't swim in them and don't sleep in them (not even if they are extended wear). You don't have to be a bikini model, but being obese hurts your appearance. Eat plenty of fruits, veggies and whole grains. Be careful with ice cream and potato chips. If you need to fix your teeth (e.g. they're crooked), ask your mom or dad to take you to an orthodontist. Also take care of your teeth by brushing after each meal. Basically, do your best to improve your looks. Concentrate on your studies. Even good looking girls have to get into a college, find a job and cannot depend on some Prince Charming to support her for life. Only Lily Vanderwoodsen on Gossip Girl can do that. Meet guys in class, in church (especially Sunday School) and be friends first. Romantic interests will follow. Be a good listener. It's easier bc you don't have to talk non-stop and guys will like it. Good luck!

Answer 3

I see this is for guys only, but as a woman who lived with a man for 9 years, I can't resist answering the most obvious answer there is. VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE! I don't think any one man is drawn to any one "look" or one personality trait. To women, we may look at a guy with one girl, see it a particular way, see him with a different girl and see her in another light, or think she's all wrong for him (BUT we all judge first on appearance) When you say "one type and next time another," what are you talking about? Looks? Age? The difference is that WE aren't dating the women we are sizing up and don't KNOW them. Every guy has a thing he notices first, women have it too. I think we look for our own physical traits (I have crystal blue eyes and am a sucker for eyes that lure me in, I am ALWAYS noticing a great pair of eyes I want to stare into). We're checking out parts we are most aware of, then the rest follows. Why do you think girls are always criticizing other girls? "Why would he like her? Look at her butt...mine's better...or she's wearing SO much makeup, what's under it? She's not gonna look like that in the morning" type of thing. Chics are so caddy! I had a lot of male friends growing up and believe me, men do it too. They check out features and figure out style, personality, and sex later. The package either works or not, but they do go through trial and error...women are just as bad. But hey, isn't that what it's about? If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then one day, JACKPOT!!! Human beings, myself included, are a bunch of criticizing, picky idiots trying to find another picky idiot we are most compatible with to live happily ever after with (or just for the moment). Who wants pizza every day? Sometimes ya gotta have Chinese, or maybe a steak! Eventually, you have a favorite food. Just human nature, doll. Throw enough crap at the wall and eventually some of it will stick.

Answer 4

OK ... you can thank me for this later.

Because I want you to say this to yourself EVERY SINGLE DAY when you get up and get dressed for the rest of your life.

READY??

Here it is . . . the most valuable lesson you will EVER LEARN.

Pay attention.

NEVER SEEK APPROVAL FROM OTHERS. IT IS THE MOST UNATTRACTIVE THING YOU CAN POSSIBLY DO.

And here comes the best part!
Are you sitting down??

NO MAN WILL EVER R-E-A-L-L-Y LIKE (OR LOVE) YOU MORE (OR LESS) IF YOU ARE A BLONDE OR A BRUNETTE . . . IF YOU BOOBS ARE REAL (or not) . . . IF YOUR SHOES ARE MANOLOS (or not) . . . IF YOU SHOP AT NORDSTROM (or not) . . . IF YOU CAN GET INTO THE HOTTEST NIGHTCLUBS (or not) . . . IF YOU ARE "HOT" (or not) . . . . IF YOU ARE TALL (or not) . . . IF YOU SLEEP WITH HIM ON A FIRST DATE (or not) . . . . IF YOU ARE PRETTY (or not) . . . because there are ALOT of women who "look" like Paris Hilton . . .

who are TRASH!

INCLUDING . . . . PARIS HILTON.

And I can prove it. Because today, she's in PRISON! That's right. Not even fit to be FREE. How do you like THAT. And its all HER FAULT.

Looks like Paris desperately spent her time trying to get "get noticed" rather than getting "REAL".

Work on being the best woman you can possibly be every day of your life, rather than giving a flying FIG about what a GUY would say that QUALIFIES you.

Have a nice day.

You're Welcome.

:)

Answer 5

for every guy appearence is important-for girls looking at guys too-apearence is so vain to me though
im more interested in a girl as a person so im gonna say personality

Answer 6

it depend on age
when I was younger thin brown hair drive me crazy
but now it more of the personality
I like women that speak their mind

Answer 7

My husband says....
Brains and beauty.....When it comes to brains look for girls that are smart enough to be able to handle things on her own without someone telling her how to do it....When it comes to beauty is when she doesn't know she has it...

Answer 8

well alwase put your hair,...show it of wear make up learn how 2 like ask a freind get eye liner and mascara! and baby girl, i think your beautiful already and give me your e-mail some time ill ive you mine its [e-mail] e-mail me back! love ya!

Answer 9

Any guy who tells you "her smile" is lying. As a man, I like big boobs and a nice a $ $ and a flat stomach. I'm just keepin' it real here. I'm also a fan of high heels and thong panties, but that's just me...:-)

Answer 10

for me a girl that has personality, happy , out going, not complicated and that make be always intrusted in her.