Do you ever feel like you're being pressured?
2007-06-04 15:54:44 · 7 answers · asked by shhhhhhhhhh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
great answers! thank you so much
2007-06-04 16:05:59 · update #1
I am in the process of trying to maintain a relationship and it is really hard. My gf & I broke up and I am prob the last person to give advice, but I learned from my mistakes. We are trying to work on it right now. Anyhow... what I learned is that you need to trust your partner, you need to be patient, understanding, and you need to give one another space and of course communicate. And the #1 thing is that you need to listen to their needs. Hope this helps...
2007-06-04 16:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by prelude06@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahaha good question. Human minds are so complex with so many parts we know nothing about. I think its in our nature to always search for something we're not getting, we have this need to alter our state of mind or we get bored or something.
But you should never feel pressured to uphold a relationship. You know you're in a good one when it takes little effort (still hard work though) does that even make sense?
2007-06-04 23:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you can imagine the relationship to be anything before it's begun, and therefore go into it with unrealistic expectations. It's difficult to maintain a relationship that ends up being so different from what you thought it would be because it isn't what you wanted, and therefore sometimes isn't something you should maintain.
2007-06-04 22:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its easy to like someone... its another matter entirely to love and trust them! That is something that takes time and effort but it is totally worth it. You take everyday with them one at a time and you really work at it. ALways be considerate of the other person's feelings and tell them how you feel as well. Its such a slow process and relationships evolve over time into someting beautiful.. over time they take less effort.
2007-06-04 23:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you new your girlfriend for a long time B4 you started dating it wont be hard to mantain them cause your comfortable with eachother. if not then yeah
2007-06-04 23:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by alex k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question!
2007-06-04 22:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just the way it happens.....all you can do is take one day at a time.
2007-06-04 22:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by OR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋