my friend keeps on smaking my butt and i'm married and completely happy. shes my good friend however she doesnt get it when i tell her i'm married and that's not cool to do that.i know my husband would be furious if he finds out that she keeps making me feel uncomfortable.how or what should i tell her to make her get the point! i mean damm i have 4 kids and a husband what esle do i need to say that she doesnt get?
someone answer this. cuz i'm not trying to be ghetto and really hurt her feelings.
2007-06-04 18:48:11 · 7 answers · asked by # 1 wifey!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
At this point being nice is over.....tell her straight up, yet in calm manner that conveys that you are serious, that this makes you uncomfortable and must stop. If she wants this friendship to continue that she will respect how you feel and act accordingly. If she doesn't listen to you then maybe it is time to kill the friendship. Any friend who can not respect your feelings is not worth having.....regardless of their sexual orientation.
2007-06-05 16:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Maria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no choice but to sit her down and tell her you are offended by her actions and you don't think what she is doing is cute at all. And let her know that if she can't respect your wishes, you will have to end your friendship because you aren't going to let her cause problems in your marriage. Remind her you love your husband and kids very much and are not interested in a relationship with anyone else. If that doesn't work and she won't listen, tell her your friendship is over and quit hanging out with her.
And I love your sensitivity. You don't want to hurt her feelings and yet she doesn't care if she hurts yours over and over again. You have to draw the line and be firm about it. Hopefully she will be a good friend and listen.
Good luck
2007-06-04 23:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, they are not good friends and obviously still have feelings for him. Tell them back off. If they dont, leave them. He is not a good boyfriend. He obviously doesn't like you enough if he moved on that quickly from you to the other girls and now you again. Break up with him and find a decent MAN. Not a silly little boy.
2016-05-17 05:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are feeling uncomfortable about seeing her because of wha she is doing. Tell her that if it continues to be disrespectful of your feelings., you will not be able to be friends with her.
Respect is part of friendship too. If she does not respect your feelings, then she is not your true friend.
2007-06-04 21:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it's not cool and you don't like it. Tell her you don't swing that way - she probably just needs to be put in her place
2007-06-05 05:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how uncomfortable this makes you. You respect her lifestyle and she needs to respect yours.
2007-06-05 02:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
avoid from her
2007-06-04 21:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋