i'm 19 and one of my cousins. he's 22. i think he wants me now. he always says hi to me more then he used to. he smiles at me a lot. he winks at me when people won't notice. he makes signs to me. basically i'm taking hints that he wants me or something. but what should i do i mean he's my cousin and i don't want to do anything with a cousin. that would be so weird.
2007-06-04 18:23:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this dude is a wack job hes weird just ignore him but if he continues let him know whats good
2007-06-04 18:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, depends if u r talking 1st or 2nd cousins. First cousins are safe to have children with, but not second cousins. If he is ur first cousin and u like him too, then I say go for it. Two of my first cousins went out together for a while. The rest of the family were a little grossed out by it, but as they'd grown up not knowing one another, only know of one another, then it was ok. If he is ur second cousin then that's a no, no. If u decided to have kids with ur second cousin things could go wrong. There could be deformities in the kids.
2007-06-04 18:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you, tell him to bug off. Or ignore him. If you find it repulsive, so be it. But it isn't necessarily illegal and won't necessarily produce deformed kids. That's very unlikely in a society like ours where close relations are generally avoided. It's a problem when close relations are involved again and again, like in some Amish societies and remote places in the mideast. But a random close matching isn't usually a problem. If you don't like his attention, tell him. Or ignore him. Poe married his 13-year-old cousin, though. They lied about her age.
2007-06-04 18:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, um... Well, my only experience with this would be that i liked one of my cousins once, but I was only seven, so I don't think that counts... Anyway, just try and give him some hints. If that doesn't work, straight up tell him NO!!! Incest is not best...
2007-06-04 18:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by trumpetaries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the hints of flirting so you don't hurt his feeling and try to make sure you both are Never alone together.
Good Luck
2007-06-04 18:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by tigger46161 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's only normal that he be nice to you I mean he IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIISssssssssssss your cousin. I don't think he has done anything to make you think he is interested in you in any morally wrong way. If he does, then you can set him straight. Until then, I dont think you should be so presumptuous...that could be very embarassing and makes for awkward family reunions.
2007-06-04 18:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by ※※※NaMajdEnMegmondom※※※ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have good relationship with him including sex if both agree. Take him as yours husband. 30% people in middle east marry with their first cousins, and no deformalities in siblings have been noted. It is not incest.
2007-06-05 00:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by Hafeez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him to stop making advances towards you because you do not feel comfortable with it. If he won't take that hint, then you may need to make it clearer to him, however you may have to. Good luck!
2007-06-04 18:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no if things get worse. He's your cousin!! ew. and maybe let another person know. that's a bit creepy to be honest. best of luck!
2007-06-04 18:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's also illegal in several states and can lead to deformed babies (see the Hills have Eyes) Just try to avoid him and let him know that you are not interested.
2007-06-04 18:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Heeheheehee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋