I met the perfect girl. She's a 20 year old virgin that doesn't drink or smoke. She's always happy. She's sweet. She's smart. She the prettiest girl ever. She's forgiving. She's understanding. She always positive and kids love her. Everything I believe in, she believes in.
The problem is I seem to be the only one in love. She's hard to read. She acts like she loves everyone. I told her how I feel, but she doesn't think she's ready to date. (she's never had a boyfriend either)
I want to wait forever for her, but I don't know if it's the right thing.
2007-06-04 11:31:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do know she's a virgin. Not because she says so, but because of the life style she leads. She's a strong Christian. Her world is God.
And she's a tradtional style dater. She doesn't date anyone unless she thinks she's in love.
2007-06-04 11:43:36 · update #1
Give her a little more time. If she's never been with anyone else before, she could just be a little timid about the whole dating thing. Hopefully, she realizes how much you love her and I'm sure that she loves you too but just doesn't know how to show you yet.
2007-06-04 11:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by lildiz_420 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her.. keep being nice to her.. and be sweet to her.. she is not focusing on relationships.. she is focusing on things that are more important to her right now.. be patient.. just because it is not happening when you want it to.. doesn't mean it won't happen in time.. if you love/like the way you say you do.. she definitely has got to be worth the wait right?... or the effort.. I would start asking her out as just friends and let get to know you in a different light....
2007-06-04 18:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by tina t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 20 and not ready to date? i dont know...she seems extreamly nice so she may be saying that so she wont hurt your feelings. but if you havent had a boyfriend and you're 20 then she might be questioning her sexuallity....i just cant think of a reason why you wouldnt have any sort of relationship with a guy until you're 20
2007-06-04 18:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first no one is perfect. wait til she has sex n gets a taste of life she wont be so sweet n happy n innocent. is she a nun? I mean either she was really sheltered in her life or she is straight up lying to u bout some of these things. good luck with that.
2007-06-04 18:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask her a question about how she feels about you? If she wants to date you or not? Maybe it will solve everything going on in your brain right now.
2007-06-04 18:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by hpdc90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like that once and you know what i waited on that person and that person ended up being my soul mate and this female is probably your soul mate too so i would wait because you never know.......
2007-06-04 18:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by sexyreddelicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you like her way too much to just move on right now...but then again maybe you seem too available...perhaps what you need to do is to find someone to just chill with and see if she doesnt react...your young and there are alot of opportunities out there!
2007-06-04 18:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time. If the time is longer than you can stand then move on. If she was perfect for you she probably wouldn't hesitate.
2007-06-04 18:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww. if she's THAT perfect and you really really like her i'd wait forever for the perfect someone but its up to you!! good luck!
2007-06-04 18:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her lots... go on "mini dates" like golfing or skating... something where you can talk.... be likeable.... MAKE her like you... then... after a moth or so... ask her out again.. ask her to be your girlfriend... you guys sound like a perfect couple!!!
2007-06-04 18:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mario N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋