Start over and change your name from gangster to successful.
2007-06-12 11:46:54
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answered by sensi 4
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I'm sorry to hear you went through that.
If it's any consolation to you, the step-parent was probably looking for an excuse to kick you out to begin with. Very few ever really integrate into the previous family structure, they just co-opt it, instead.
I am sorry for your loss.
You're young, and although you are upset now, and things seem beyond redemption for you, you have all the tools you need to get your life back together and be happy again.
Make use of any counseling which may be avilable to you. That'll help a bit. Focus on your friends and any remaining family you have that can be supportive, including your mom (although moving back in might never be an option).
If you'd like to talk on a more personal level, I'm making myself avilable to you, too. You can contact me through my profile on IM or e-mail.
Good luck!
P.S. Everyone does through times when things seem hopeless, but you can come through this a stronger person, and I think that ultimately you will!
2007-06-12 09:58:59
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answered by Osiris Cross 2
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Your life isn't a mess because of being pregnant. It happens. I've lost a baby through miscarriage and it is the hardest thing to cope with. That's what you have to do. God knows what's best for everyone and He lets things happen for a reason. Until you find that reason, move on. Don't try to hide it, don't deny it happened because that's what makes you, you. I became such a stronger person because I knew that what didn't kill me only only made me stronger for the next challange I had to go through. Keep your head up and smile, know that there is someone who went through what you are going through. There are plenty of other people who (hard to believe) went through worse. Look to the clouds when you need an answer, there's always the sun to warm you up.
2007-06-12 11:49:41
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answered by craziekittiekat 2
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Oh MY GOD iam so sorry for your baby iam actually 25 weeks pregnant right now iam happily married iam only 20 years old and i toatally understand what you are going through it is very scary bieng pregnant its self much less losing your boyfriend and baby .does the babys dad now what happend? why wont you talk to your mom and step dad tell theam you really need a place and also get a job so you wont have to depend on no one else and try to find some where to leave if you can by your self if not stay with your mom if lets you i hope you get evrything fished but if you need to talk hers my e-mail i would be happy to talk to you ariadna_burgess@yahoo.com GOOG LUCK.
2007-06-12 16:32:26
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answered by Ariadna B 1
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aw... never let ppl call you a tramp, because in this world.. almost everyone has had the possibility of getting pregnant at age 18! ... just look for any opportunity you can find to start a good career. Focus on yourself, so that you don't have to worry about other ppl. Look for government grants to go back to school or a job.. or something where you can help yourself. Find a passion.. one where you forget about other people and you focus on fulfilling your own goals. I hope your future leads to bright places!
2007-06-11 23:07:36
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answered by k8r9i8s8ti 2
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Wanna talk? mcltweety@yahoo.com
I am 21 and have a 2 year old baby. I got pregnant at 18, turned 19 in dec and had my baby in Jan. She is now 2 and a half. I will listen to you and help you if I can.
2007-06-12 16:30:03
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answered by mysticmary 3
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So then you get to start all over, first go to school and get an education second always use protection I don't now why you wanted to get pregnant, and you did if not you would have used protection. Stop dating losers and have some self respect your only 18 and that is so young so start over go see your mom and get your life going.
2007-06-04 19:26:21
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answered by ADR 2
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omg, I know where you're coming from! when I was 17, I had a baby, he's 2 now, but I don't get to see him ever because I had to place him for adoption, but when I found out that I was pregnant, his daddy wouldn't talk to me at all, he acted like I didn't even exist. It really hurt, but I got into counselling and I'm doing a lot better now, I know it'll take a lot of time, but just realize that your baby is in a better place now, and won't ever have to deal with the pains of this life, and you'll get to see him (or her) again in the next life. for now, I'd suggest you pray about it, and talk to your mom again.
2007-06-04 19:26:11
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answered by Xotchil 2
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I'm soooo sorry. Can you try to talk to your mom??? Maybe she will help you. In any case you have to be strong and start a new life. Get a job and try to make a new family. It won't be easy but you have to hold on and think positive. Try to make new friends. A good friend is part of the family.
2007-06-12 14:25:07
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answered by sophie1618 1
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That has to be really difficult. Do you have any friends that are good listeners? Or maybe you should call your mom. Even if your stepdad kicked you out, your mom is your mom and would most likely be there for you in your time of need.
2007-06-12 19:17:46
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answered by Valerie 4
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You might be able to go to a women's shelter. You may be able to go back home. Understand where your parents are coming from. They feel like failures because they thought they taught you better. Another bit of advice is no sex until your wedding night. Now you know why premarital sex is such a bad idea. Good luck.
2007-06-12 18:29:32
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answered by Anonymous
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