why is it women say they want a nice, sweet, charming, romantic guy. and when they get'm they treat'm like ****, and usually cheat on them with an asshole who usually sniffs coke drives a nice car their mom got them listends to techno and usually ends up beign abusive. and then u guys stay w/ them, infact, you stick to them like flies on s.h.i.t. until they dump you guys. then you rebound on a nice guy again, and then the vicious cycle starts over. i've seen this happen, and hear of it all the time. please, tell me what goes on in your guys's heads!!!!
2007-06-04 12:20:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, here's the deal - it took my friend (God rest him) years to explain this to me, so pay attention.
What YOU think is treating women like c-rap, is really just being aggressive. You have to make the woman WANT you, you have to BE better than them, and make them work for it, but just a little. They like the other stuff too, but not if it's all you've got, not if you act like a wimp.
That's it. Contact me privately if you need more.
2007-06-04 12:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls Like Feeling "Owned" As Long As The Guy Is There For The Girl No Matter How The Girls Gets Treated They Always picture The Guy As " A prince Charming" Hard To Explain..
2007-06-04 12:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound like you've got more of a personal issue with a certain person rather than all girls. Not all girls like the bad boys but yes some do. Its something they need to go through. Everyone has different qualities they want in a guy and while you may consider yourself sweet charming etc (I'd work on the anger you obviously have though lol) you may be missing qualities people want as well. There will be a girl who values what you have although it might not be every girl you want. Get over it - everyone has to.
2007-06-04 12:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so simple. alot of those nce sweet charming romantic guys simply are following a pattern they feel is romantic, charming etc. they act like they are doing it for the girl, but they are really doing it for themselves. they brag on it--make big public displays, want people to notice but it is really to feed an insecure ego--and they are not original. girls can sense the insecurity--not a turn-on. plus, it gets boring.
the bad guys have the advantage of being a bit more honest--the girls know what the guys want. they also have the idea that he was a player until he fell in love with me syndrome that is perpetuated by our entertainment based learning culture.
a more sophisticated self-aware woman doesn't buy all this. hang with a different crowd man.
2007-06-04 12:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by quiet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they want to be that one thing that changes the guy. Most girls don't handle rejection well so when their guy treats them like crap or hits them they wonder why and often find pathetic ways to blame themselves. Not to mention Women need to look up confidence in the dictionary, it has nothing to do with outwardly expressing it but rather knowing it. Expressing it is ********* and that's a great quality if you're looking for an asshole
2007-06-04 12:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes after being with a great, sweet, nice, romantic, charming guy for a few months, years, whatever.. it just gets boring. It's like you still love the person, but just need to make a change for yourself. If there's no challenge or place in the relationship to move forward, it tends to get old. Once in a while people just want a change, a surprise, something new, etc.
2007-06-04 12:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Excuse the hell outta you... No offense, but... I have been with a guy who pretended to be "prince charming" and in return I gave him my love and my everything and then one day all hell breaks loose and I suddenly don't mean anything anymore... Wutcha gonna say about that? What's with "Oooh you're the best girl in the world... I wanna be with you forever... I'm so lucky I met you... I would always wanna be with you!"? Nice guys are bad guys in disguise... And if I was into as*holes, I wouldn't have dumped him. Sorry, but it's the truth. :)
2007-06-04 13:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really does depend on the person, but it is usually that they either have low self esteim or they did have a strong male role model. Guys (Jerks) who act like this usually start very slowly, so to a gurl in love she really doesn't notice the guys actions to her. Its so sad, that guys can treat a gurl that some kind of property, i really think that these gurl need to notice there worth in this world.
2007-06-04 12:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are like that. but many are. some of them just think they want the thrill of a bad boy. i don't get it but thats what i hear. some of them don't even know themselves. theres plenty women who aren't like that so just get a girl who isn't and don't worry about the others. trust, its men who do idiotic stuff too, and i've yet to understand there reasoning. but it is some insecurity inside themselves that they are not dealing with. thats an age old question.
2007-06-04 12:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by Nike W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand it either.
Either some girls think the guy is handsome or cool.
every girl want the "perfect guy".
a.k.a. a mixture of a great personality and amazing looks.
some girls fall trapped in the snares of a man who may be handsome and cool, but have an ugly personality.
2007-06-04 12:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by ashii_valentin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋