would you stay with a girl and say you love her and all if you didn't?
i feel like my boyfriend is doing that but then again he doesn't do anything wrong it's just in my heart! i feel like we are about to break up,it's such a clear feeling and is killing me like sixth sense or something i don't want to ask him either because it's kinda risky... it seems obvius that he isn't happy i think he's having doubts...
anyway would you stay with a girl and tell her things are ok and you love her if you didn't? (we don't have sex either since i'm a 20 year old vergin by choice lol) please help
how can i reasure him how can i help him be happy again? we don't fight or have ANY problem that's why i'm so clueless of what to do? :(
2007-06-04 12:44:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st, Good for you for staying virgin.
2nd, to answer your question.....I would not have said it unless i meant it. .
3rd, have some faith. Everything will be fine
2007-06-04 12:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one, but I would really look at how he looks at you, talks to you and the time you guys spend together. How old is he? How long have you been together? Keep in mind he's not having sex with you, not sure if he's a virgin or not, but chances are if he's had sex before, he probably misses it. And although you are together and he says he loves you, your not giving him something that he likes and has had before so he might be a little depressed/frustrated about it. Although your not having sex, what other forms of intimacy do you guys share?
2007-06-04 12:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a lot of guys do have a problem with ending a relationship.. You're not going to know if that's what he's struggling to do. Eventually, if that's what he wants.. It'll come out, sooner or later he'll man up. But you might be wrong all together so I wouldn't dwell on it.. But if you're really that worried about it, then spark up the conversation. It may be risky, but how long do you want to feel the way you do.. Talk with him about it..
2007-06-04 12:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem like theres much trust in the relationship. Talk to him ask him if he's happy. Sex shouldn't be the base of a relationship. You can have a great relationship with out it. But maybe he's feeling frustrated or rejected. Frustrated because he just wonts to be intimate with you, in a sexual manor. Theres other always for this besides sex. Rejected because you dont wont to be sexual imtimate with him, but communication is the key! =D
2007-06-04 12:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend and I went through the same thing, she took some Bust Must, and we had Sex, problem solved
2007-06-04 12:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to sit down and tell him how you feel --- find out what he is thinking --- share what you both want from the relationship and if you are not sure then decide think about it and make a decision --- best wishes
2007-06-04 12:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the whole no sex thing is probably a reason to not be happy... not to be unfair but guys have needs
2007-06-04 12:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by poony!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's why he wan't to leave you
lack of sex
he may indeed love you
but he want to have sex.. period
and you refusal to give in will be why he does break up
and that's fine
he want one thing
you want another
you should break up
2007-06-04 12:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋